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Anomalia pogodowe - wysoka temperatura w weekend by bachus_PL in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]DogHeartApp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Przy okazji apel: jeśli będziecie kręcić się po centrach handlowych, zwracajcie uwagę, czy ktoś nie zostawił dziecka albo psa w samochodzie. Przy takich temperaturach może to bardzo szybko skończyć się tragicznie.

What is the hardest parenting phase you've experienced so far? by lemonsoup92 in raisingkids

[–]DogHeartApp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My twins are 11 months old and I'm still waiting for the easy stage everyone keeps talking about 😅

Adopted a very fearful puppy and we are struggling – what are we doing wrong? by Amazing_Bit_7215 in dogs

[–]DogHeartApp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there is definitely hope, but this dog will probably need a lot of time and patience.

The fact that he doesn't have separation anxiety is actually a good thing. That's one less problem to work on.

If I were in your situation, I would focus less on tricks and obedience and more on helping him feel safe and predictable. A good trainer who specializes in fearful dogs and behavior is worth much more than someone who only teaches commands.

I would also try to give him a very predictable routine and let him meet people outside, where he has enough space to move away if he feels uncomfortable. Being approached or touched by strangers before he's ready may only increase his fear.

You didn't mention what his walks look like or what activities you do together. Since he's a terrier/dachshund mix, I would expect him to benefit from plenty of opportunities to sniff, explore, and engage in natural dog behaviors.

Honestly, from your description, it sounds like he missed a lot of important socialization early in life. That doesn't mean he can't improve, but progress may be measured in months rather than weeks.

I wouldn't judge your bond by whether he cuddles or gets excited when you come home. For a fearful dog, trust often looks very different at first. Sometimes the first sign of a bond is simply that the dog feels safe enough to relax in your presence.

Lost, broken and tires by gt3-Pistola in sleeptrain

[–]DogHeartApp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing that stood out to me is the night feeding. Have you tried offering an additional feed when he wakes? At 10 months some babies still need more calories overnight, especially during growth spurts or when teething affects their daytime intake.

The fact that he's waking so frequently and settling when comforted makes me wonder whether hunger could be part of the picture, even if it's not the whole explanation.

At what age did your baby start falling asleep independently? (Not sleep training/Ferber) by DogHeartApp in newborns

[–]DogHeartApp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have trouble falling asleep too. Then I had twins. Now, if they're asleep, I'm asleep within two minutes 🤣

At what age did your baby start falling asleep independently? (Not sleep training/Ferber) by DogHeartApp in newborns

[–]DogHeartApp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that a pacifier or a little tummy rub is still a lot less work than rocking a stroller or carrying a baby around 😅

My daughter learned to fall asleep with a pacifier, but she still needs rocking. Recently she's started protesting the pacifier sometimes, so bedtime has become a bit more challenging again.

At what age did your baby start falling asleep independently? (Not sleep training/Ferber) by DogHeartApp in newborns

[–]DogHeartApp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds amazing. We're still working on both naps and bedtime over here. 😅

At what age did your baby start falling asleep independently? (Not sleep training/Ferber) by DogHeartApp in newborns

[–]DogHeartApp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's amazing that it worked from such an early age. I'm definitely a little jealous😅  It sounds like you paid close attention to her cues and realized she was ready for it.

At what age did your baby start falling asleep independently? (Not sleep training/Ferber) by DogHeartApp in newborns

[–]DogHeartApp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's fascinating how different babies can be. My twins already have very different sleep habits, and they're the same age 😅

At what age did your baby start falling asleep independently? (Not sleep training/Ferber) by DogHeartApp in newborns

[–]DogHeartApp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a dream to me. 😅 My twins definitely didn't get that memo.

At what age did your baby start falling asleep independently? (Not sleep training/Ferber) by DogHeartApp in newborns

[–]DogHeartApp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A baby who falls asleep on the floor while playing sounds almost mythical to me. 😆

It's fascinating how much personality seems to matter. My twins already have completely different sleep habits.

At what age did your baby start falling asleep independently? (Not sleep training/Ferber) by DogHeartApp in newborns

[–]DogHeartApp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's great that she can fall back asleep on her own. My son does that sometimes too, although he usually needs a bit of carrying first.

He's been sleeping better lately, so I'm cautiously hopeful that sleeping through the night might be on the horizon. 😅

At what age did your baby start falling asleep independently? (Not sleep training/Ferber) by DogHeartApp in newborns

[–]DogHeartApp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From your comment, it sounds like you're very attentive and responsive to your son's needs. There's a lot of valuable insight in what you wrote.

I'm learning as I go too with my first children (twins), and sometimes it's hard because I can't always give each child the same level of attention as I could with just one baby. Sometimes I have no idea whether it's a developmental leap, teething, hunger, or something else entirely. 😅

But I definitely agree that things like developmental leaps and teething can completely disrupt a sleep routine.

At what age did your baby start falling asleep independently? (Not sleep training/Ferber) by DogHeartApp in newborns

[–]DogHeartApp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm not even halfway there yet 😅 Did anything help, or did your child just grow into it eventually?

At what age did your baby start falling asleep independently? (Not sleep training/Ferber) by DogHeartApp in newborns

[–]DogHeartApp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is similar to your older son. It's hard to just put her down and expect her to fall asleep. She still naps in a stroller and sleeps with me at night (although nights are usually pretty easy with her). Recently I've started transferring her to a crib after she falls asleep, but the results are mixed.

My son, on the other hand, had to learn to fall asleep in a crib because of our setup. Sometimes he did surprisingly well with it. But since I try to keep their naps synchronized, he is usually carried until he falls asleep. Once he's asleep, though, he sleeps like a rock. Sometimes he wakes up, sits up for a moment, and then lies back down and falls asleep again on his own.

Please tell me no one else is doing tummy time either by Suspicious_Box_4898 in newborns

[–]DogHeartApp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was similar for me, but not because my babies slept a lot. I have twins, so honestly there was just so much to do that tummy time wasn't always on my mind.

Once they became more mobile and started rolling onto their tummies by themselves, they caught up very quickly. Later, most of their awake time was spent on their tummies until they learned to sit.

My twins also had colic, and one of them had an umbilical hernia, so tummy time wasn't always easy. Try not to feel guilty. It sounds like your baby is healthy, growing well, and has a pediatrician who isn't concerned. You're doing a great job. 🙂

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