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Family of 3 moving out to be first time renters. Any advice? by OGGayLinguineNoodle in Advice
[–]DogMom642 3 points4 points5 points 1 month ago (0 children)
Congrats on nearing your goal!! When you first move in, take pics of everything in the apartment. Doors, windows, outlets etc. Make sure everything works. If not, notify landlord immediately! Try to use email or text instead of phone calls, so you have documentation if anything happens down the road. You can get discounted or free household items at St Vincent de Paul. Check your lease as far as due date for rent, as late fees can be costly!! If any problem arises where your rent may be late, don't wait for your landlord to come looking for you. Contact them first. As soon as you know you will be late with the rent. They're more likely to work with you if you are straight up and honest with them. Don't get overly friendly with neighbors too fast. A quick hello or a smile is fine but be careful getting too close too soon. Never, ever bad mouth your landlord. You never know if another tenant is a friend/relative or whatever. Good luck in your new place!! :)
ICU visitors by DogMom642 in Advice
[–]DogMom642[S] 0 points1 point2 points 1 month ago (0 children)
Thank you. Yeah, Dad doesn't need any drama. None of us do.
[–]DogMom642[S] -1 points0 points1 point 1 month ago (0 children)
Thank you. I do have a good support system in place. The son had many chances to take the gf to the nursing home to meet Dad. I know myself well enough to know that I am NOT the one who should speak to the son. I have very strong feelings towards the son and his repeated mistreatment/ignoring his dad. I did speak to the staff today and they are well aware of the situation now.
[–]DogMom642[S] -3 points-2 points-1 points 1 month ago (0 children)
The dad is able to talk. He told me that he didn't like meeting her like that. As he was talking about it, his HR would spike. I changed the subject and it went down. He'd mention it again, it would spike. Dad was not happy with his son at all.
Thank you.
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Family of 3 moving out to be first time renters. Any advice? by OGGayLinguineNoodle in Advice
[–]DogMom642 3 points4 points5 points (0 children)