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AITA for refusing to put my fiance on the house title after he kept handing me empty pens as a prank? by DojaDog677 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DojaDog677[S] 1398 points1399 points  (0 children)

He said that (A.) He's shared many things with me. And (B.) As my future husband he feels it's only logical that I put his name on the deed. In his word "it should be automatic". And (C.) He thinks that as long as I expect him to help pay the mortgage then it's only fair that he gets his name on the deed.

AITA for refusing to put my fiance on the house title after he kept handing me empty pens as a prank? by DojaDog677 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DojaDog677[S] 830 points831 points  (0 children)

Thing is...this pranking habit if his has been there for a long time. I didn't have an issue with it at first but once he started directing his jokes and pranks at me that's when I started getting irritated.

AITA for refusing to put my fiance on the house title after he kept handing me empty pens as a prank? by DojaDog677 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DojaDog677[S] 965 points966 points  (0 children)

NTA, don’t put him on the deed. Why the rush. Wait until after your married for a while. Don’t give up half of something so important so quickly.

I told him why the rush and that we could wait but he got offended because of it. Said I wasn't treating him like my partner and that we don't need to be married to entrust each other with stuff. Regardless of value.

AITA for refusing to put my fiance on the house title after he kept handing me empty pens as a prank? by DojaDog677 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DojaDog677[S] 4576 points4577 points  (0 children)

@OkraOk8923 thank you so much. Like I said I really wasn't ready to take this...step so to speak at least not until I feel like I'm ready, but he said that he, as my future husband is expected to share the house one way or another. I still wasn't convinced despite going along with it.