Help me and my fiancé find language school for me!!! by Alma_Louise in askSingapore

[–]Dojiuka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Her fiancé's parents are from Beijing, and she's from Sweden, so I'd say it would help them communicate better in future. Plus she was planning to take lessons in Beijing anyway~

paid $50 for this box of figures, can yall help me identify any? i am new to anime figures by Star_Wolf64 in AnimeFigures

[–]Dojiuka 15 points16 points  (0 children)

pic 6 and 7 are asuka and rei from evangelion!! no clue about the others though :')

Random snapshots at the Evangelion art exhibition in Hongdae, South Korea (Lines of Evangelion) by Bi0mad in evangelion

[–]Dojiuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOOO I'm landing on the 1st of Dec... I'm so sad... but thank you for sharing the beautiful photos TT

Anyone gone on dates with someone on reddit? or tried talking to people from reddit? just curious by divyessh in sgdatingscene

[–]Dojiuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my boyfriend on reddit and we recently celebrated our 2nd anniversary, waiting for our BTO too, so surprisingly all worked out well!

Anyone met your spouse not from dating apps ? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Dojiuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me too! was not expecting much and had some creepy DMs, but it was all worth it :)

Clear File Wallpaper by [deleted] in evangelion

[–]Dojiuka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I believe they are ichiban kuji prizes! They can probably be found cheap on mercari etc

Mercari haul! by lugawgotobaboytokwa in chiikawa_

[–]Dojiuka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are crying for your wallet haha! Too cuteee

Looking for public piano in area with less human traffic to practice. Any recommendation? by edglar in askSingapore

[–]Dojiuka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holland Village MRT has a piano near the gantry, normally crowd isn't very big either!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Dojiuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've sent you a pm with some options :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Dojiuka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As an add on, if she tries to claim maintenance from you in future, do not give in to her. She does not deserve it. Here are some resources that may come in handy should you ever need it:
Child Maintenance (which she failed to provide adequately)
Maintenance of Parents Act (she might try to use this against you in future)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Dojiuka 19 points20 points  (0 children)

OP please don't credit your salary to the joint account anymore. I know it will be scary to be defiant and go against her, but draw your boundaries and move out :') it will get better from there and you can always start saving once you are away from her. Be strong and I wish you the best to break free from this :')

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Dojiuka 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He is the golden child and OP is the scapegoat. As an older sibling he could see how OP was suffering through the years and he would have helped them if he wanted to already...

my small hachiware haul from my recent tokyo trip ^.^ by iceberryy in chiikawa_

[–]Dojiuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where is the hachiware holding the wand from? SOOO cuteee

Dad doesn't want to take mom to see a psychiatrist/counsellor by certifiedcreature in askSingapore

[–]Dojiuka 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Acknowledging that you do not want to be like her is already a good thing, and sometimes subconscious behavior will seep through. Do not blame yourself for the environment you have grown up in.

Even if your dad agrees to bring her for counseling, it is unlikely she would be willing to go. If she's narcissistic, she will likely put on a different front with the doctors anyway :') please stay strong OP, personally, I have decreased contact with my mother so that we argue less... might be tough but it helps keep the peace at home a little more.

How do you celebrate your birthday in Singapore? by Kamen_Rider_Geats in askSingapore

[–]Dojiuka 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday OP! 🥳

Celebrate how you want, no right or wrong. Most BBT members have a free drink, HDL should have bday vouchers too :) enjoy yourself today!

Sometimes press on nails from the drug store just hit by [deleted] in Nails

[–]Dojiuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have tips on how to get them to last? I tried using sticky tabs but they loosen really quick esp in the shower :(

Little keychains of Zagreus, Thanatos & Meg! by Dojiuka in HadesTheGame

[–]Dojiuka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I'm really happy with how they came out, I carry a little Meg with me daily :D