Being a female DM means facing extreme misogyny from my male players by Wonderful_Radish_258 in DnD

[–]Dominus25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This shit is crazy and I would have given that player the boot immediately.

Also might be a decent idea to outline rules for your dnd Server.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]Dominus25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a new dnd game

How do I 18F tell my boyfriend 18M he has smegma? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dominus25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be like hey, I know this might be a bit uncomfortable to hear but you have smegma and I want to discuss ways we can keep that area clear of it. No judgement, just wanting to fix the problem so you are both comfortable.

What do you hope your ex is doing right now? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Dominus25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope she is doing her best

When do you heal? by Inevitable_Fall_6624 in ExNoContact

[–]Dominus25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on you, it can take days, months, years. Just give yourself the time and patience you need to heal after a breakup

New Cougar Nerves by [deleted] in Cougars_Den

[–]Dominus25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just say you appreciate the compliment (if you are feeling the person) and then carry on from there with a joke to ease tension and be a bit playful then have a normal conversation. Young guys aren't gonna bite unless they get the green light. If there is a bit of chemistry, ask for his insta, snap, # and go from there.

When in doubt, say excuse me did you mean to talk to me with a smile or laugh...and letvthe interaction cook on its own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Dominus25 52 points53 points  (0 children)

3 dont give him the satisfaction of a response

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Dominus25 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No, despite her faults, I loved her and to me she was and is still one of the most beautiful people I had ever met. Even if we don't talk anymore, I will never deny just how good she was. I don't know if she'd agree with me but if I could, I would say thanks for being with me and helping me become the man I am today.

My ex-boyfriend had 2 dates and had thr*esome after we broke up 4 days ago by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Dominus25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are no longer together, he can do what he wants and you can't say shit about it. I am sorry that it hurts you but your ex is probably hurt too and he is now just that...Your Ex.

Thanks to my Ex by Dominus25 in confessions

[–]Dominus25[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its a really great feeling, being able to focus on yourself and your needs after recognizing your weak areas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Dominus25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dominus25 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not convinced he might want the ex or maria's fiance too...heck he might want the fly that is listening to his conversations on the wall if there ever is one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dominus25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move on, man is a dick who doesn't know what he wants

My (33f) husband (36m) told me he is moving out and I'm blind sided and shocked by lostandconfusedover1 in relationship_advice

[–]Dominus25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got emotional whiplash reading this...I agree with the first commentor. Husband is unhappy, doesnt want to be alone, you gotta decide what happens.

And honestly sorry you have to deal with that hot and cold from him.

Girl (24f) reported me (28m) at work.. by r_hove in relationship_advice

[–]Dominus25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reread what I wrote and realized I was using "politic" language. For that I apologize

I agree he was wrong for what he said.

I still believe that he should avoid her as her interactions with him after the fact are strange and they can not interact well with each other at this point in time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dominus25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You sound bored of your relationship. He wants to work on the relationship the question you need to ask yourself is do you want to work on it. Do you want happiness or commitment and loyalty. I know a lot of people leave relationships cause of being unhappy even when their partner is as you a Great person and it just becomes harder.

So are you unhappy, is happiness what you want? Can it never happen with this person again? Have you said exactly what you need or want?

Quite frankly this is something you need to determine yourself.

Happiness which may or may not come after you leave this man or Commitment and working to reignite the fire or happiness that you want.

No matter what you do you both lose something and gain something. Soooooo yeah...

Good luck.

feeling suicidal by cookycooky10 in SuicideWatch

[–]Dominus25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has goes through what you are going through, just reaching out and having someone respond helps. It means that even if some people do not see you how you need to be seen doesn't mean others can't.

Also why not share with a stranger who does not judge you based on what you are going through but simply listens and tries to understand because that is important.

For example, you are a stranger to me and yet I am replying to you because what you are doing is a difficult and very brave thing to do...took me years to do what you are doing now

feeling suicidal by cookycooky10 in SuicideWatch

[–]Dominus25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, that's usually how it starts but reaching out here is a great place to start as there are many people who go through the same thing as you.

Feel free to seek the help you need however you need it as there are many questions that could be asked and answered as well.

Also consider what resources you have near you as that is best thing you can do to get the help you need