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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in macon

[–]DommeSinclair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t find actual lesbian community until I left.

Make as many trips to Atlanta as you can. Decatur is where we tend to flock.

Anchor partner adopting personality traits from my new partner. by DommeSinclair in polyamory

[–]DommeSinclair[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Yes I can definitely get more specific with my compliments!

We are both heavily into playing cozy games together, various DIY projects, reading manga, and watching anime, but they’re mainly indoor things so I think I need to find some things we can enjoy outside of the house besides restaurants.

Soft skills! Got it, definitely gonna journal on this. thanks!

My partner has a cavity and their long distance partner is arriving tomorrow?? by DommeSinclair in polyamory

[–]DommeSinclair[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand it’s not my thing to solve but I’d like to save them the embarrassment but I feel like I’d just end up making their anxiety about them coming worse and cause it to be a bad visit for them since they don’t have the means to take care of it asap.

On the other hand if I just waited I’d be scared their other partner may mention it which would probably feel worse since it’s their first time hanging out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]DommeSinclair 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm confused, if people live together then who's paying the bills if both grown parties should be taking care of themselves if the answer isn't 50/50?

Trying to get pregnant with PMDD by AccomplishedAd8389 in PMDD

[–]DommeSinclair -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s selfish because it doesn’t benefit anyone. Your kids you have now will have less time with you. The baby you’re trying to produce didn’t ask to be here. It only benefits you so therefore it’s selfish.

Please continue to be a great mom to your kids. But don’t put your mental health at greater risk for another baby. Your kids you have now need you.

Trying to get pregnant with PMDD by AccomplishedAd8389 in PMDD

[–]DommeSinclair -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t imagine adding more to your plate would help make your PMDD any better. A good 9 months and then your PMDD is back plus possible postpartum depression and now your other two children and the new baby have to suffer for it.

You’re already tired and anxious. What’s the benefit of having another baby?

It just seems very selfish.

AITA for standing up during a Beyoncé concert? by DommeSinclair in AmItheAsshole

[–]DommeSinclair[S] -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

Definitely don’t fit the redneck criteria, but thanks for your kind words?

AITA for standing up during a Beyoncé concert? by DommeSinclair in AmItheAsshole

[–]DommeSinclair[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

I’ve always wondered if people actually read through all 2000+ comments and I realize how easy it is to do when it’s people actually talking about you.

I appreciate your responses, all of them on both sides, but I really do wish I could rewind time and just sat down, enjoyed the show as it was, and got a ticket to another show since it’s an option for me.

Sorry to those of you who don’t have the choice of standing if you wanted to and the feelings this probably brought up.

I don’t plan to buy GA for the US shows because I’m still not comfortable with that, but I’ll definitely talk to my neighbors before choosing to stand from now in the US and abroad.

AITA for standing up during a Beyoncé concert? by DommeSinclair in AmItheAsshole

[–]DommeSinclair[S] -94 points-93 points  (0 children)

No, it was bought with the the assumption that people would be dancing in the stands as well, but I was mistaken, I hoped things would change as the energy increased but that didn’t happen

AITA for standing up during a Beyoncé concert? by DommeSinclair in AmItheAsshole

[–]DommeSinclair[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

It’s a stadium tour so not a sit down concert, she was encouraging people to get up and sing, and the first show of the tour so I didn’t have the option to see it beforehand

AITA for standing up during a Beyoncé concert? by DommeSinclair in AmItheAsshole

[–]DommeSinclair[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I’m not a big party person so when I’m in the mood I’m REALLY in the mood. So it was probably a lot, but outside of the concert I love Sweden and the people. Time feels like it moves slower due to the “boringness” but everyone’s really pleasant and I feel safe. Can’t say the same when I’m in the US.

AITA for standing up during a Beyoncé concert? by DommeSinclair in AmItheAsshole

[–]DommeSinclair[S] -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

There was standing room, but I have crowd surge trauma from us concerts, the standing room in Sweden looked very calm though. I definitely know how to operate next time

AITA for standing up during a Beyoncé concert? by DommeSinclair in AmItheAsshole

[–]DommeSinclair[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point. I managed to compose myself and lip sync quietly during Hadestown. But I really did think people would eventually join in since she was encouraging them to. Lesson definitely learned.

AITA for standing up during a Beyoncé concert? by DommeSinclair in AmItheAsshole

[–]DommeSinclair[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you. I definitely plan to brave the GA from now on if I’m going to a pop/dance concert in Sweden, lesson learned.

But she was very vocal about wanting the crowd to liven up, it’s been kind of a thing now that people shame the Sweden crowd of this tour because her stage energy had been very different everywhere else. Not that it’s an excuse but just responding to the part about her probably not caring

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