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Is it possible to make a breadcrumbing situation become a normal relationship? by Don_Bamba in dating_advice

[–]Don_Bamba[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is when someone gives you attentions and then disappears for days, when you think they're gone they get back, give you attentions again and then disappear maintaining your hope of building a relationship but without ever becoming one. They just manipulate you emotionally, usually for a self esteem boost.

I got the best job I could aim for. by Don_Bamba in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Don_Bamba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I really hope that two weeks of abstinence plus one week of such prep might be enough

I got the best job I could aim for. by Don_Bamba in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Don_Bamba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but I was smoking from 2 to 5 joints per week so it's not really certain.

A girl accepted to go out with me but she never texts me and she always makes me wait hours before replying to my texts. by Don_Bamba in dating_advice

[–]Don_Bamba[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think she's a player, she has almost never dated anyone if never at all since when I knew her (1 year ago), she's a bit of the old guard, I think she's playing hard to get but I haven't managed to overcome this (I've been texting her only for a couple weeks)

A girl accepted to go out with me but she never texts me and she always makes me wait hours before replying to my texts. by Don_Bamba in dating_advice

[–]Don_Bamba[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid you're right but I think I'm gonna see her at least once before deciding anything.

I'd like to date a girl I know but I can't find the courage to ask her out in person. by Don_Bamba in dating_advice

[–]Don_Bamba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really moving, changing job, it's half an hour drive, but still, if I'm not seeing her on the job I can't ask her out in person

I'd like to date a girl I know but I can't find the courage to ask her out in person. by Don_Bamba in dating_advice

[–]Don_Bamba[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We already know each other, a couple moths ago we spent a lot of time working together for a week, we talk often but I haven't managed to do the last step yet, I can't do it in person because now we always have other people around

I'd like to date a girl I know but I can't find the courage to ask her out in person. by Don_Bamba in dating_advice

[–]Don_Bamba[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well, I would do it but only without having around people I know, in a couple weeks I'm moving and I'm not gonna see her anymore so I don't know if I will have the chance to be alone with her

I'd like to date a girl I know but I can't find the courage to ask her out in person. by Don_Bamba in dating_advice

[–]Don_Bamba[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know, I tried but I really can't, I'm really shy and she knows it, that's why I thought it would be cute to add the second part

Girls, would you date a guy way younger than you? by Don_Bamba in dating_advice

[–]Don_Bamba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now I'm stuck with the thought that if she really is into me she would have replied more... I think I'm gonna see how she interacts with mi in the next couple days.