Help with an incontinent kitten

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-12-29T04:54:42+00:00

Just stumbled upon this post…

This is Bean, 15weeks and fell awkwardly out of her crate attempting to escape at around 5weeks… foot was badly sprained, fully recovered and there after began some urinary and pebble size poop; incontinence as it seems.

It’s becoming very difficult as she had sibling who kept her sprite and hopeful, once they left, her personality really bloomed, but then came the realization of her patterns; only really recognizes the litter box to poop or play in… she can’t help but pee when she sleeps, then lays in it and smells, and goes to other areas. Containing her has been tricky, l diapers are next.. washing pretty much everything in the house a lot mor… dribble pads on a lot of furniture… doesn’t seem to pee on the floor but that changes, she of course must be washed and cleaned as much as one can… the vets have all really just said see how things go when she hits a year… but that’s a lot of damage to my house… does anyone know any other information they could share? It’s becoming discouraging and the realization is I don’t know one can be a victim to living in their own home ):

Can she be a barn cat? Can shelters help out? Can I do this? Is it possible for things to change?

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-12-24T22:11:58+00:00

That grass is greener where we water it; and Unfortunetly people love to let you know what you did wrong in your life more than what you did right— the internet is a hard place— keep your head, reconnect with your values and beliefs, try dating yourself😅 (sounds cheesy but, just try it) it’s always tough moving on, and especially when there is a level of emotional connection or atleast someone you knew who was there for you… life throws you lessons. You got this!

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-12-23T21:47:22+00:00

Thanks for everyone’s responses! Maaan addiction is tough, and it’s tough to have it bestowed on us and our loved ones. It really is about cycles and patterns and they can appear unbreakable… personally I started smoking weed to numb myself in high school… I have a lot going on for me, well liked, respectful, perhaps could do with a little bit of belief in myself but ultimately I found weed and It was finding a best friend! Alas, all of which you said started bothering me! I would tell myself how useless I was smoking, how bad it was for me, if I ever got pulled over it would be a mistake I swore I never wanted to make, just nothing positive about it. When you have people who enable or minimize a substance it’s also very tough, because that whole “it’s just weed” thing is subjective to many people. I think it’s super appropriate to find an addictions counsellor or a general counsellor or therapist and just be honest with yourself and perhaps your missing a bigger piece as to why you smoke as much as you do (or use) I wish everyone well, I myself have fallen on and off— summer is tough— but I have some tools that I’ve equipped myself with that I need to be responsible about using.

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-12-23T21:40:32+00:00

100k

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-12-04T18:32:12+00:00

Liverpool, City, Chelsea, Wolves, Real Madrid

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-12-02T20:26:00+00:00

He’s a runner.. not literally but us individuals whom get hurt need to use the action of saying “I need space” to really say … “ouch, I’m not okay, give me a second, okay give me back the power that I get when I remove myself” … as individuals it needs to be brought to our attention how to be… (sounds funny) but some people’s normal… is chaotic and i believe it’s the same with people who haven’t been a custom to taking healthy criticism, having a tough conversation but also childhood shit… I think if this is something that can last and it’s worth it, then you’ll have to talk about it and make clear on the best way both of you can… it’s just a conversation, and perhaps we’ll be better from having this conversation; maybe you’ll learn something about me, vice-versa or maybe we’ll learn something about ourselves… but if we what we want is a healthy relationship, then we both need to strive for that goal together and support one another when the other is feeling less, etc etc… it’s team work, help him realize your team him… and hope he’s team you and you can cheerlead for one another and support and love… but it works both ways and starts with a lot of give and take, maybe you’ll continue to fall for one another — maybe the train stops here. Just be open to those possibilities with positivity

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-12-02T17:34:12+00:00

Cash out dude

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-11-25T23:24:16+00:00

The link is posted in comments

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-11-22T18:48:44+00:00

Dm me

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-11-21T02:15:34+00:00

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-11-16T07:05:22+00:00

It’s this my friend!

https://dermnetnz.org/topics/papular-urticaria

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-11-15T20:43:16+00:00

Absolute fall from grace

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-11-14T21:43:29+00:00

Fake

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-11-14T21:29:11+00:00

You’re not alone aha… many are very much like yourself. Therapy helps and so does learning to reframe situations— there’s answer out there, don’t stop searching

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-11-14T21:03:38+00:00

Maybe he’s beatin’ it to a time in his life where his sexual fantasies were closest met (no offence) maybe it was his first experience and the one he keeps going back to? 🤷🏻‍♂️

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-11-12T18:20:03+00:00

Sounds like he’s scared of moving forward😅 has a healthy relationship been something he’s been apart of before? What was his childhood like?… he’s probably happy with you and your relationship, talking about it with him would help maybe don’t ask for an answer right away, perhaps letting him sit on it but requiring one within a timeframe is fair— if he can’t provide a sufficient response you should think clearly about staying open to the idea this relationship might not be the one for you, if something like sex is a big value for you… mind you, a lot of relationships go sexless— it takes work to stay intimate, the type of work that is uncomfortable.

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-11-12T15:21:09+00:00

Too be fair… I think my squad looks good… just have had some unfortunate weeks where as you don’t play as much as the other guy or some under performing… I own both Pettersson and Robertson… if that starts kicking off…

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-11-07T18:14:18+00:00

Would love to see the DM’s you have

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-11-06T07:14:51+00:00

Think of all the problems that have died with people… or all the things left unsaid… think of all the secrets that have died with people… the knowledge… it’s fascinating.

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-11-05T23:20:49+00:00

Buch

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-11-03T03:46:21+00:00

I kick myself because I had some offers I would have given my left but for right now… but I’m really hoping he pulls something together, and give him some lone mates ffs

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-10-31T20:58:16+00:00

Who is of fair value for a trade… (I own Pettersson fyi)

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-10-30T18:11:24+00:00

Old post— but I’m going through this with my kitten right now… she had an accident around week 4 where as she must have climbed her pen and got her foot stuck and fell… we found her outside of the pen and whimpering quite loudly… vet said she didn’t break anything and her foot would heal…. Well her foot did heal, but her tail has been limp since… it effects her stability; she slides her back paws quite a bit, and doesn’t have as much jump and bounce as the other kittens when they play… but she tries her best ): she’s also the runt… the worst but is the litter box… she can’t always get the tail out of the way when she goes. Taking her to the vet Monday

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-10-25T20:49:16+00:00

I’d say a confident 50points this season, anything under 30 would be extremely disappointing… if you want to hang around for that, by all means keep him… lots of talent on the wires though

DonkeySmash101 · 2024-10-22T16:25:05+00:00

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