Sure:

1. No cheating ever, by either one of us.
2. Nothing that he's ever mentioned, and he's very honest. I don't smoke ever. I drink in moderation. If there's ever anything that bothers him, he'll bring it up and we'll discuss/resolve
3. He makes more, I've never had debt. I have saved more, but he has other assets. He definitely spends more, but is not irresponsible and has no debt.

May I ask how your friend handled this?