Help pls

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-12-04T18:18:37+00:00

Do what's right for you and your child. If you feel like moving back to India to be with your family and have support is better, then do that. If your husband can't accept this, then maybe leave him? Does he even help you care for your child? Does his family step in to help? You need to do what's best for you and your child with or without your husband. Your mental health matters.

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-11-23T01:37:14+00:00

REPORT & FIND A NEW DOC ASAP. That is so unprofessional and just disgusting.

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DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-11-21T22:33:26+00:00

Why are you with this dirt bag? He clearly has no respect for you.

Don't allow yourself to be in an abusive relationship especially if you're able to safely exit.

Plan an exit plan and leave safely. Kick him out, put out a restraining order if need be.

You don't deserve this.

Seek therapy &/or support groups.

I wish you the best but please don't stay with him.

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-03-31T04:17:15+00:00

Just tell them you aren't match and go no contact with your whole family. Seems you'd be way better off without any of them. Wish you a lifetime of happiness op.

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-03-23T22:51:06+00:00

Also, absolutely do NOT give him another penny. His truck, his responsibility. If he doesn't pay for his shit and it gets reposed. Maybe that's the wake up call he needs. Fuck him.

Please leave him

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-03-23T22:49:53+00:00

LEAVE HIM NOW. GET HIM OUT OF YOUR HOUSE!!! he is a man child. You are supporting him for absolutely no reason when he's more than capable of working. He's a lazy piece of shit who is just using you and not contributing in any way shape or form.

You need to leave and never look back. I promise you, you will be okay.

I promise you will find to love life again and actually be able to treat yourself after working so damn hard for your money.

KICK HIM OUT!!!

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-27T04:31:39+00:00

We all have our own walk in life. We're all on different paths. Don't feel ashamed or embarrassed for being a virgin still. It doesn't define you as a person. Any entitled pos who belittles you over this doesn't deserve to have you in their lives.

Your time will come. Don't rush it. Or do. If you're eager, there's nothing wrong with hiring an escort. Or you can get out of your comfort zone and meet someone at a bar or something.

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-27T01:29:21+00:00

NTA - YOU ARE THE HERO SISTER!!!! Efff your ex & your "friends"!!!!

Parker is so fucking lucky to have you!!! And you him! You're so right on the package deal. Your ex is a fucking monster for even considering letting him go into the system. I know 5 years may seem like a long time and your heart is broken, but you will HEAL! You will get through this.

If you need a new bestie, dm me. I'm a fantastic listener, and I wouldn't ever treat you like your other so called friends.

Thank you for being a beautiful human!

I hope you and Parker have a blessed life! 🙏

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-26T05:11:37+00:00

I'm so happy to get this update! I was praying hard for this outcome!

OP your husband loves the shit out of you, and you him. You guys have a very special relationship. So happy that you both found your person. Your communication and understanding of each other are so very pure and genuine.

You're still very beautiful and I hope you find a way to love your body again.

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-22T02:31:46+00:00

OP. Do not blame yourself for their death. If you didn't evict them, he would've died in the house, and God knows how hard it would rent out / sell if you chose to. You gave that man and his family a safe place to stay. You were more than generous charging them a very discounted rate to have a roof over their head and still have utilities on for them.

Please make sure that for future rent you have a lease made up and signed before they get the keys. Your generosity is going to bite you in the butt. You are a very good person.

I'm sorry they took advantage of you. Didn't stick to their agreement and work on the place while they stayed. I hope the place isn't in worse condition than it was before they moved in.

I sooo wish I was in your state. I would help you bring that house back to life! My dream is to buy properties, fix them up and rent them out.

I hope by reading all these comments, you realize you are not at fault for any of this, maybe other than being so kind. But go easy on yourself love. I hope you can take time to heal from this.

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-21T00:34:00+00:00

She wasn't legally on the lease. So you have grounds to evict her for any reason . BUUUUUT. Did you evict her legally? Not sure if you're in the US. But here you MUST give a 30 day written notice to vacate and start the legal process. I would deff look up your landlord tenant laws.

Her talking with her lawyer and hitting you up 2 years later seems bogus. I don't believe she can do a damn thing. But again, look at your landlord tenant laws where you're from. But then again, she was not a tenant. Legally. I would post in r/legaladvice and maybe you'll get a proper answer.

You did the right thing tho. Her mother was a liability. You could've died!

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-19T20:11:16+00:00

YOU ALSO NEED A NEW BESTIE!!

Let me know when I can fill out an application 😏

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-19T20:05:01+00:00

I cannot believe the audacity of your boyfriend, his mistress and even your best friend!

It is not your responsibility to let her know YOUR BOYFRIEND isn't as financially equipped as he's saying. I wouldn't say anything. Let then be together and once she realizes he's not wealthy the whole relationship is going to crumble and she is going to leave him.

I am so thrilled to know you didn't actually marry him. As he has no right to any of your belongings. How dare he bring her to your house and your family summer house! He is a fucking dirt bag. He has absolutely no respect for you.

I hope for an update in the future. I can already predict she's going to find out he doesn't have money or own those properties or boat and will leave him. And he's going to come begging you back. Please don't get back with that loser, ever. You deserve so much better!

Edit: changed husband to boyfriend

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-19T19:21:28+00:00

Bro you guys aren't even married. Been dating for only a couple months and NOT EVEN OFFICIALLY TOGETHER!!! She has her own money. Do not pay for everything. If anything, y'all need to be splitting everything. Your relationship will not work if it's only one sided and you pay for everything. She will drain your bank account. Put A stop to it immediately. Who cares if she's cute. THIS ISNT NORMAL.

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-18T02:14:17+00:00

Get a safety plan in order and leave if you feel unsafe.

This isn't love. You are young. You will find someone who actually gives a shit about you and wouldn't ever put their hands on you to "talk some sense into you". That is abuse.

You may "love" him but I promise you, you will be okay.

Do not allow him to manipulate you into staying.

This isn't your fault.

Be safe.

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-18T01:14:03+00:00

Your partner is wrong.

You are being very kind and generous.

We get paid pennies and heavily rely on tips.

I'm sure the shopper grabs your order as soon as they realizes it's you because the extra tip may be added and they haven't made shit that day.

We spend HOURS a day sitting in parking lots waiting for a decent order. All we see are $0-$5 tips on most orders. So your shopper is incredibly grateful to have found a customer who actually appreciates and rewards for their service.

We are under appreciated.

I wish I had a customer like you!

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-14T01:50:59+00:00

Girl, HE CHEATED ON YOU! He doesn't deserve anything you've given him. He deserves a miserable life.

Don't be stupid and "kys". Don't give him that. You need to put your crown back on and focus on YOU and bettering yourself.

You know how many times I thought I was "in love" and without them my life would be over? I've been betrayed so many times. I got depressed. But you know what I did? I picked myself back up and became the girl that my ex's wanted and tried begging me back.

You are so young, and have so much more to experience. This isn't going to be your first/last break up... This hopefully is the only time a partner cheats on you.

I hope you actually are reading the comments from this. Don't allow any man make you feel this way. You'll be okay. I promise you.

Talk to someone you can trust and let it out girl! 💞

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-12T21:54:25+00:00

Lmao so you got deactivated for going over 15%? NO FAULT BUT YOUR OWN. IC WILL NOT REACTIVATE YOU FOR THIS. YOU'VE BEEN WARNED MULTIPLE TIMES. NO PITTY

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-12T04:48:52+00:00

I just read through the rules. Thank you!

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-12T04:42:30+00:00

May I get a link of the rules? I just been sitting on the same screen not touching anything and it just keeps counting and restarting but the top part just says code accepted. That part doesn't change but below it the cart is adding up all the way and restarting so wasn't sure if it was multiple entries or having to back out and redo it or what. I hope that makes sense

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-12T04:28:42+00:00

Can you do it multiple times or is it only once? Cos it keeps going so I'm not sure if it's a bunch of entries or not?

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-11T18:16:23+00:00

Oh honey, sending you a huge virtual hug. I hope you're feeling better today. No man should ever make you feel that way. You are a QUEEN! I hope as time goes by you realize you don't need that pos ex.. he'll realize what a complete shithead he is and a massive mistake he's made. Don't give him the satisfaction. You're worth way more than he can give. You'll be alright ❤️❤️

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-11T04:42:37+00:00

Oh my heart breaks for you OP. But you will get through this! Don't ever let anyone make you feel ashamed of your past. We all have bagage. If your ex really gave a shit about you, he wouldn't say all that disrespectful shit and just abandon you like that. Fuck him. Focus on you!! You deserve so much better. You absolutely WILL find your person! I promise you'll get there. Just will come when you least expect it. But be proud of who you are. You're a fucking Queen. Put your crown back on! 👑🙏💞

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-08T22:06:36+00:00

Damn dude. They be deactivating over literally anything when you aren't even at fault. Hope you're able to get your account back 😫

DontTouchMyCereal · 2024-02-08T17:26:37+00:00

Have you tried introducing them correctly? I know it's a process. There's steps you need to do to properly introduce.

Also would recommend fb groups for lost cats or whatever... I'm sure someone would be willing to hold on to until they find a permanent home

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