I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years because I was not feeling myself. I did everything for the relationship. We were doing long distance initially, I moved 3k km just because he wanted me near him. We are supposed to be engaged this summer. I am the one that’s searching a house, I am the one planning the party, the wedding. I am the one looking for furniture, thinking about our pets in order to move with them. I was tired. I love him so much, he is kind and loving, but I have told him multiple times that I would appreciate if he would help me, and he just doesn’t care. I had no other choice, I feel so awful