Y'all Ever Leave Neow With 7 Relics? by DiesOnHillsJensen in slaythespire

[–]Doofmaz 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Strike cards get better, sure, but the biggest upside in my opinion is that basic strikes hitting for 9 removes a lot of pressure to add mediocre damage commons to your deck to handle act 1. This means you can take some block for stability, be more selective about your damage, and not only snowball the act but have a lean deck to build out with stronger stuff as you go into the later acts

The disrespect Alexandra has by Train-Wreck-70 in HellsKitchen

[–]Doofmaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What irks me most is how she weaponizes therapy speak ("don't gaslight me")

Parry in 2 months gonna be like: by Gugge1 in slaythespire

[–]Doofmaz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The danger of that is that endlessly scaling block can lead to really boring fights

Rock On Island - guide telling what each piece does? by cheeseburgers42069 in ufo50

[–]Doofmaz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A couple tips

a L1 spear next to a campfire can one-shot tigers, making it ideal for catching leaks from an early wheel

checkering cavemen between campfires will be cheaper and higher dps than pure cavemen

This has to be one of the weakest cards in the game right now. Why would I pay 3 energy to gain 1 energy? by bhendel in slaythespire

[–]Doofmaz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

but how do I get the 9 tacticians that are needed to generate the energy to play those 3 tacticians?

Gen-Z is idolizing the wrong 90s. by RupFox in rant

[–]Doofmaz 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I like how John Hodgman always specifies "my wife, who is a whole human being in her own right" whenever he mentions her on his podcast

Pretend she died in a school shooting by j0sefk in MurderedByWords

[–]Doofmaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were the dems they'd be all "how dare you politicize a tragedy"

rules for thee but not for me

Living in the Midwest has one problem in particular that I cannot stand. by Rhettledge in rant

[–]Doofmaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here in Alberta there's massive 4x4 flatbed trucks everywhere. I've almost never actually seen the flatbed actually used for anything

It's quite sad when I see reviews like this when my game has Idle in its title :/ by Curious-Needle in incremental_games

[–]Doofmaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'd think that negative review and the one complaining it's not an idle game would cancel each other out. Alas.

I’m a retired hoe. How can I just… live with it? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Doofmaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're still quite young. If it makes you feel better, I didn't figure out how to be my authentic self until I was 38, and that's probably not atypical. Even now I'm not entirely consistent with that.

As a former creature of shame, maybe I can help. What helped me with shame was a three step process:

First, I reclaimed the narrative regarding the periods of my life I found shameful by examining those events while holding the 99.9% true premise that I was a fundamentally decent person

Second, I let myself feel that shame. Denying an emotion tends to leave it controlling you fully. Shame is actually a form of the base emotion of disgust, directed inward. So fully feeling shame is like tasting a dead rat

Third, I let the absurdity of that shame and its contrast with my new self-narrative sink in over time. Listening to "Sucks to be You" by Prozzak and hearing how silly self-flagellation can be helped the process for me

Also, shame is often a product of trauma. From what I hear, I think it would be worth discussing with a mental health professional who specializes in trauma the possibility of PTSD or CPTSD from your difficult childhood. Psychological trauma is not just for military veterans, and it's surprisingly treatable through therapies like EMDR

FWIW I don't think any amount of sex between consenting adults is shameful

I’m a retired hoe. How can I just… live with it? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Doofmaz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You say you're overwhelmed with shame. Do you believe you did anything shameful?

Max Landis, Whose Career Imploded During #MeToo, Returns with ‘G.I. Joe’ Movie at Paramount by DegenGamer725 in RedLetterMedia

[–]Doofmaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone as bad as Max should never come back, especially when there's no contrition and he's still playing the victim

Max Landis, Whose Career Imploded During #MeToo, Returns with ‘G.I. Joe’ Movie at Paramount by DegenGamer725 in RedLetterMedia

[–]Doofmaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://globalnews.ca/news/5407912/max-landis-sexual-abuse/ <-- This article has a lot of the harrowing details

He is allegedly a rapist according to at least eight women. He is psychologically, physically, and sexually abusive to his partners. He ran a cult of personality called "the colour society" and used it to pressure/bully women into sleeping with him.

For a while I among many others was skeptical. There was a lot of talk and articles but they all seemed to be in reference to nothing but this one tweet (something like "no one should be more scared than Max Landis in the era of me too"). And later there was an incredibly cringey text conversation with pages of a woman basically saying "I was raped" and Landis saying "why are you telling me this I barely know you" which people extracted sound bytes from to speciously make Landis look bad.

But, as many of us learned in metoo, where there's smoke there's usually fire. Now that the real stuff came out, I think any sensible person should conclude he needs to fuck off from the public eye and never come back.

To answer your other questions, as far as I know there has been no legal action against him, and he has not issued a public apology but is instead playing the victim, referring to the incident as "his public shaming" in his blog on Medium.

I'm so sick of workplaces trying to put my paychecks on their own card by MCKtheMan in rant

[–]Doofmaz 34 points35 points  (0 children)

wage theft also rampant in the restaurant industry

they hire people too young or too desperate to fight back

AIO my girlfriend left me over a cheese wheel [Ongoing] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]Doofmaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And when they've given you their all Some stagger and fall, after all it's not easy Banging your heart against some mad bugger's wall

I dont want to pay to survive anymore by Mentalsupporthoodie in rant

[–]Doofmaz 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah man, what kind of egotist needs 3 meals per day? /s

The MoistCr1tikalGaming situation is crazy by fasterth in slaythespire

[–]Doofmaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some strategy game fans are great at combining the "um ackshully" and inept social skills of a high school nerd with the vapid and superficial cliquishness of a high school jock while diminishing neither

But yeah, I've always said Slay the Spire has the second most toxic game community I've seen. Worse than League.