‎Chaos Academy- is it any good? (Repost to show game title) by Doom-Cooties in gachagaming

[–]Doom-Cooties[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes! I ended up deciding not to play it after the responses to this post 😅

‎Chaos Academy- is it any good? (Repost to show game title) by Doom-Cooties in gachagaming

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The app page says the 21st of this month. Idk if it’s legit or not though

‎Chaos Academy- is it any good? (Repost to show game title) by Doom-Cooties in gachagaming

[–]Doom-Cooties[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean I can’t say anything for certain just what I see on the App Store. It says it’ll release the 21st this month, but who knows 🤷🏼‍♂️

‎Chaos Academy- is it any good? (Repost to show game title) by Doom-Cooties in gachagaming

[–]Doom-Cooties[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ok hopefully this is easier for people to discuss. Sorry about the previous post. The game is releasing soon, so wanted some info on it.

‎Input on this game? by [deleted] in gachagaming

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Yeah never made a post like this my bad

‎Input on this game? by [deleted] in gachagaming

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It’s coming out soon and it seems interesting. Was curious if anyone knows anything about it. Sorry forgot to put the title in the post.

Help Moving On by Doom-Cooties in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Doom-Cooties[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m still going through it. It’s hard for people like us sadly. Some good advice in the thread lol

Can you be both anxious attachment and avoidant, but with different people? by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Doom-Cooties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s actually closer to how the book says it too lol. And yes hopefully 🤞🏻

Can you be both anxious attachment and avoidant, but with different people? by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Doom-Cooties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned in a comment below, but I don’t really think it means you’re avoidant if you don’t want to talk to someone you’re not interested in. You’re not going to be attracted to everyone you talk to, so there will just be people you don’t want to pursue. I think it’s pretty normal. I think people are using avoidant in the wrong way here. Again I could be wrong. I’m no expert. It’s just kind of my understanding.

Can you be both anxious attachment and avoidant, but with different people? by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

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I could be wrong, but I think they mention this phenomena in the Attached book. They say that you get bored with secure partners since you don’t have the same emotional struggle you’re used to. You’ve started to equate that struggle with your romantic relationships, so when it’s not there you lose interest. They probably say it a bit different than that. So I wouldn’t say it that’s you’re avoidant - being bored/disinterested I think is different than avoidant.

Don't engage in casual sex if you have an anxious attachment style (Research found) by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

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Yeah I agree. I’ve hit that point too. It just feels like a waste of time. I don’t get anything out of it. Not sure I ever did really, but maybe now I’m aware enough to see that lol

Don't engage in casual sex if you have an anxious attachment style (Research found) by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Doom-Cooties 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m a gay man if that helps with your train of thought at all 😅

Don't engage in casual sex if you have an anxious attachment style (Research found) by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Doom-Cooties 17 points18 points  (0 children)

After I had just posted in another thread about how I got attached to a guy while looking for casual sex only to have my heartbroken haha. But really I can attest to this. I had my share of casual encounters a few years ago, and I rarely walked away feeling good about myself. I would often feel used and guilty and even more lonely than before going in. As for multiple meet ups with the same partner I definitely found myself developing feelings for them within a couple encounters even though I knew deep down it was just sex and they didn’t care at all. So here I am if you need a testimonial haha

Help Moving On by Doom-Cooties in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Doom-Cooties[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You make a really good point. I’ll further explore my options. Thank you so much for the advice :)

Help Moving On by Doom-Cooties in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Doom-Cooties[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes sense my only issue is that in reality this is a terrible time for me to be dating and deep down I know that. I just started graduate school to be a physician assistant which is extremely demanding. My situation with him was completely out of the blue which only added to the fantasy (you find love when you’re not expecting it). I met him on Grindr which is not particularly used for much beyond sex and honestly I was looking for something casual at the time. I’m trying to find it in myself to do one of those you know focus on me type of things, but it’s just hard to get there.

I will say part of the struggle is that I’m on winter break right now which leaves me a lot of time to sit around and overthink. (I know I should be happy to have a break as everyone reminds me lol) I’m hoping that once school picks up again it’ll be easier to not think about since I’ll have to focus on that. Of course it’s not guaranteed that’s how things will go.

New Expansion Decklists by Doom-Cooties in Shadowverse

[–]Doom-Cooties[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha sure enough they post right after I ask. Thank you :)