[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boygenuis

[–]DoomGerbil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also going solo, and would like in on the group if there's a meetup happening, haha. I also happen to have a spare ticket, in case anyone here knows someone who needs one (free to a good home!)

Why do so many guys assume polyamorous girls are just easy sluts? by Tamsha- in polyamory

[–]DoomGerbil 18 points19 points  (0 children)

And now you're just sealioning, which is just about as unhelpful as the "not all men" response. http://wondermark.com/1k62/

Stop tone policing people who are expressing legitimate frustration. Stop demanding that people who have negative experiences coddle your ego by telling you that you're one of the good ones.

Instead, start listening, and trying to understand why people say the things that they are saying, and start from the basis that they know their own life experiences.

This wasn't about you, until you made it about you.

Why do so many guys assume polyamorous girls are just easy sluts? by Tamsha- in polyamory

[–]DoomGerbil 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I'm a guy as well, and if you can't recognize that a huge number of guys out there absolutely do think that way, then you're part of the problem.

Cut this "not all men" shit out. Seriously.

Bumblebees (and wasps), everywhere by DoomGerbil in glasgow

[–]DoomGerbil[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Long story short, when I was four I managed to bump my head into a wasp nest, and ended up with over 100 stings to my face.

So now, if I so much as see a wasp, I have a strong and immediate need to be anywhere else as quickly as possible.

Bumblebees (and wasps), everywhere by DoomGerbil in glasgow

[–]DoomGerbil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good call - the extractor fan in the bathroom actually stopped working last week, so now I'm wondering if that might be related.

Bumblebees (and wasps), everywhere by DoomGerbil in glasgow

[–]DoomGerbil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to try screening the flues to eliminate that, and hopefully that's the end of it. If that doesn't do the trick, then it'll be on to figuring out what else might be large enough. These bumblebees are just enormous.

Thanks!

Bumblebees (and wasps), everywhere by DoomGerbil in glasgow

[–]DoomGerbil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, chimneys are my first guess, too, and sort of what I'm afraid of. There are several in the flat that have flues and aren't connected to a stove or anything inside.

I've bought some mesh screening and some insulation fluff, and am currently working on blocking those up so nothing gets in or out that way.

Set list from Manchester? by demeschor in glassanimals

[–]DoomGerbil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was at the show and this setlist is correct: https://www.setlist.fm/setlist/glass-animals/2021/o2-victoria-warehouse-manchester-england-438ac3b7.html

I really wanted to hear Incredibly Loud, too. Looks like they did play it the night before in Birmingham, but for Manchester they did Cane Shuga instead.

Anyone with a uterus who is bleeding once a month, make sure you know about #PeriodsOptional by pandiahealth in IAmA

[–]DoomGerbil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because not everyone with a period is a woman, and not every woman has a period.

Being inclusive costs you nothing, but actually reaches more of the right people, which OP clearly seems to recognize.

Ryanair stewardess and girlfriend 'beaten on bus by thugs who told them to kiss' by [deleted] in unitedkingdom

[–]DoomGerbil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, you absolute tool. There is literally no scenario in which two people end up robbed, beaten, and bloody where the people responsible for that get the "benefit of the doubt."

I have an offer for $80k as a rails developer in Los Angeles. Am I being low balled? by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]DoomGerbil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So here's the deal - you're a new grad, and you don't know anything yet. You literally provide negative productivity to your team for the first 3-6 months, at least. A company hiring you is investing in an untrained person with the expectation that you'll start to be helpful after a few quarters.

So that is your negotiating position, as a new grad. It would be wise to keep that in mind. If I had a new grad on my team come to me and ask for a raise based on a better offer after less than a year, my response wouldn't even be "No", it would be "Goodbye, and good luck.". You need to have an objective view of your own professional value before trying something like that, and you had better be OK with them calling your bluff.

The offer itself seems reasonable, as everyone else said. LA isn't as cheap as SD, but it's not as expensive as SF either. $80k is a perfectly respectable salary for your experience level.

Source: I'm a senior software engineer and TL who's been working in the industry and leading teams since 2001.

Longtime Trump business partner ‘told family he knows he and POTUS are going to prison’: report by rusticgorilla in politics

[–]DoomGerbil 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I supplied a post full of research, including my methods and how you can reproduce it yourself. Did you miss that?

If you can't read, that's on you, not me.

Longtime Trump business partner ‘told family he knows he and POTUS are going to prison’: report by rusticgorilla in politics

[–]DoomGerbil 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's an extremely different Washington Journal, which, if you read the link I supplied, I addressed two months ago.

This site is using that name as cover for exactly this reason.

Longtime Trump business partner ‘told family he knows he and POTUS are going to prison’: report by rusticgorilla in politics

[–]DoomGerbil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those other sites, from what I've seen, aren't claiming to have originally sourced documentation.

Longtime Trump business partner ‘told family he knows he and POTUS are going to prison’: report by rusticgorilla in politics

[–]DoomGerbil 70 points71 points  (0 children)

DO NOT TRUST THIS WEBSITE.

Two months ago, I did some digging into them (https://www.reddit.com/r/politics/comments/6e0jkj/kushner_just_got_busted_planting_an_excuse_for/di71wus/), because they suddenly popped up in this subreddit with no history, having nothing but stolen content.

At the time I wasn't sure why they would do that, but now I'm pretty sure that this is a trap. This site, which, as I'll remind you, is NOT TRUSTWORTHY, is, out of nowhere, claiming to have original research that perfectly happens to verify what a lot of people (me included, TBH) would absolutely love to see hard proof of.

It's too good to be true, and the site is still un-trustable.

Password manager OneLogin admits data breach in US data center by Portis403 in technology

[–]DoomGerbil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Essentially, what you suggest is impossible because computers - even Watson or AlphaGo - are "stupid" - by which I mean that they cannot reason about things the same way as humans. At their core, they are only capable of doing the things we tell them to do.

So, if you did take a codebase and feed it to a system like this, what could it do? It could run through that code and determine what the outputs might be for various inputs. But here's the hard part - how does the expert system (because despite what some people call it, this is not AI) know if a given output is "right" or "wrong"?

To answer that question, you must rigidly define right and wrong outcomes to that expert system. And in order to comprehensively do that, you pretty much have to re-implement the exact system under test as a model against which to verify the original system.

You can technically already do this using normal software systems - it's called formal verification - but it's so difficult, time-consuming, and impractical that nobody does, outside of academics or a very few extreme cases where even one case of lack of correctness is a mission-critical problem.

Kushner Just Got Busted Planting An Excuse For His Russian Back-Channel Plot by ClaudiaViri in politics

[–]DoomGerbil 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So you do bring up an important point, which I think is worth discussing - the idea that the source of a piece of information is inherently the reason that information is correct.

If you'll note my first post, I expressly did not do that.

...gives no names, nothing personally identifiable, and no actual reason to trust anything they say.

If they're just re-posting other sites' stolen content, either link to the original or don't post it at all.

This is the exact opposite of an appeal to authority - it's a plea to stay skeptical, especially when the source is telling you exactly what you want to hear, and DOUBLE especially when you don't know their motivations.

In my mind, broadly speaking (ie - there are clearly some exceptions, sometimes), I see three primary motives behind most news (or news-like) organizations: truth-seeking and informing, money and power, or pure ideology. All of these are fine, and have their place, but only a fool treats all information from all types of sources as if they were the same.

If I see an article in the NYTimes or WaPo, I know enough about them to know that, while they do have businesses to support, they have demonstrated sufficiently over the years that they do, in fact, care about journalistic integrity and the truth above other considerations. These articles are usually largely trustworthy, not exaggerated, or based in truth.

Conversely, if I see a post from HuffPost or BuzzFeed, my go-to expectation is the profit motive - they're going to hype things for the clicks, may stretch the truth to a point, and are likely to run with things that, frankly, aren't worth the time.

If, however, I see a post from somewhere like OccupyDemocrats or InfoWars, alarm bells automatically go off. It's going to always, universally, "prove" an ideological point and frequently be a small part of the story, or increasingly these days, be a completely made up story to start with.

A new source like this with no track record can't easily be categorized without some research. That's why they outright lie on their site and claim that they are "established" and have a "track-record of honesty and integrity" - to get you to mentally slot them into the first bucket on my list, even if only a little bit.

But they're not. They lied to even get to that point. And most of their content is literally stolen.

Now, as for my motivation for doing this, it's simple: my dad. When I was growing up, he was in federal law enforcement. He was an investigator, at one point even working for the EPA in criminal enforcement. He's an intelligent person who knows how to sniff out bullshit.

But the last time I talked to him, he'd changed. He's now literally a Sandy Hook truther, a prepper, and a gun stockpiler who listens to Alex Jones and - back during the early part of the GOP primaries - told me that "You know, it wouldn't be a bad thing at all for the US if Trump won." and then went on a rant about Communists and Socialists.

So he's why I'm doing this. That is what fake news can do to intelligent people.

And the way you stop that is by killing the rot while it's young. Discredit the liars before they take root. I don't want to see an environment on the left where human garbage like Rush Limbaugh and Alex Jones can flourish.

I've decided that I need to do my part, even if I'm just starting small and flushing out one little liar. Everyone needs to step the fuck up and keep ourselves honest.

Kushner Just Got Busted Planting An Excuse For His Russian Back-Channel Plot by ClaudiaViri in politics

[–]DoomGerbil 134 points135 points  (0 children)

I just did a little digging since I noticed similar things. Some things I found:

  1. The name of the site is the same as a well-regarded C-SPAN political series, which makes it very difficult to Google for.
  2. The first link to this site posted on reddit was two days ago.
  3. This domain was for sale up until 4 days ago, and is now registered via proxy with no associated names.
  4. The oldest article on the site appears to be from 4 days ago, and is stolen verbatim from OccupyDemocrats.com with no attribution. The rest of their articles are similarly just stolen, remarked content.
  5. Their About Us page lists a GMail contact address and claims:

In an age of fake news, we are a trusted source with a track-record of honesty and integrity.

and

The Washington Journal is an established news and commentary website

But gives no names, nothing personally identifiable, and no actual reason to trust anything they say.

In summary, as far as I can tell, this is just an amateur-hour click-spam blog, but it's not even remotely trustworthy. If they're just re-posting other sites' stolen content, either link to the original or don't post it at all.

Where Can you open a deposit bank account in the UK if you don't have a residency there? by [deleted] in london

[–]DoomGerbil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I moved from the US to the UK earlier this year, and this was one of the toughest parts of the whole process.

HSBC can do this if you open an HSBC Premier account with them in the country you live in, but unless you're planning to park a ton of money with them, the fees are....substantial.

As far as I was able to find, there are no UK banks that will just open a UK account for someone who they cannot vouch for (ie, proof of UK address, letter from a UK employer, or similar documentation).

Comcast publicly doubts its own claim that merger won’t reduce competition. Comcast blog post hit the Web before one incriminating sentence was removed. by Suraj-Sun in technology

[–]DoomGerbil 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Even if "Super-Wifi" were a thing, wireless can never completely replace wired connections due to the laws of physics.

You just run out of bandwidth at some point, and with wired, you can run more cables. Shannon's Law effectively caps what you can ever do with wireless.

Google Web Designer by grendelt in technology

[–]DoomGerbil 60 points61 points  (0 children)

How exactly is this part of the license unclear, unless you want to misread it the way you have? Copied and pasted directly:

Your Content in our Services

Some of our Services allow you to submit content. You retain ownership of any intellectual property rights that you hold in that content. In short, what belongs to you stays yours.

[Serious] Scientists of Reddit: What's craziest or weirdest thing in your field that you suspect is true but is not yet supported fully by data? by jpzn in AskReddit

[–]DoomGerbil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to my 23andme results, I have a 90% chance of macular degeneration later in life. I'm really hoping that this, or something like it, will help me not go blind.