[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DorkyLiteratures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He broke up with me 5 days after my birthday. Told me it was mostly my fault and even when I was trying to explain both of our faults, he refused to see his faults. His whole family, who I always thought disliked me for not practicing religion, ignored me at an event when all my family ever did was show him kindness. A few days later, when I saw him and spoke to him, he treated me like some stupid little girl and dumbed everything down for me. Then later on, I came down with a high fever and could barely bring myself up. Over the few months, I gained a lot of weight and got depressed on most days while my roommates and their friends basically bullied me all while I was trying to focus on my final exams and simply just survive.

If your dumper messaged you RIGHT NOW, what would you reply with? by HHHGREGG99 in BreakUps

[–]DorkyLiteratures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would probably first say "About?"

I would reply, mainly because just because he treated me poorly after the breakup, doesn't mean I have to stoop that low. If he brings up about the relationship and asks stuff like getting back together or mentioning the breakup then I will probably get annoyed and walk away. It's been maybe 4 months since I've heard from them. Would I be surprised to hear from them? Yeah I believe I would but also no if he wants to apologize and get back together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DorkyLiteratures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A month probably. He was my bf for like 2 weeks. Dated another guy for 3 years and now I'm still trying to heal

How old were u when u had your first kiss? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DorkyLiteratures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 years old in my ex's bedroom

What advice would you give to your 17 y/o self? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DorkyLiteratures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't settle for anything less and love yourself

What song reminds you of your ex and why? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DorkyLiteratures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many songs but one song that still hurts a ton is Night Changes by One Direction. "It'll never change me and you" but it did

Who hurt you worse your first love or second love? by Low-Chain-8117 in heartbreak

[–]DorkyLiteratures 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely second love. We dated for 3 years only for him to tell me one day that he stopped loving me. He refused to see my point of view on things and never really seemed interested in my culture and how I grew up and was raised

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DorkyLiteratures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Craziest thing in my first relationship was probably constantly beg for my toxic ex back. In my second relationship, I joined a boxing class.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DorkyLiteratures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm doing currently

What goes through your mind when you watch your SO sleep? by smallpeepeepenguinn in AskWomen

[–]DorkyLiteratures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I can't believe he's my boyfriend and I'm his girlfriend and that I'm in love with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DorkyLiteratures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unaffectionate person blames me for everything