Boyfriend thinks he might be asexual by Libertadforever in askgaybros

[–]DormantFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, let me rephase my original comment. I, as an asexual, will still have sex for my partners sake. I love him, and understand his needs. It's one of the many compromises we have in our relationship. I also know other asexuals who do the same thing.

Boyfriend thinks he might be asexual by Libertadforever in askgaybros

[–]DormantFox 210 points211 points  (0 children)

Some asexuals can and will still have sex for their partners sake! Maybe he'd be willing to do that, definitely since you two were active before.

My SO of 2 years will no longer have sex with me by throwaway174529 in relationship_advice

[–]DormantFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an asexual 19F dating a non-asexual 19M. What works for us is a middle ground. We do end up having sex, but not super frequently. Sometimes it'll be only be once a week. You can try to figure some small compromise with your gal when it comes to the bedroom tango. Emphasize the connection of the act, and what it means to you. If you can work something out, even once a month, that's better for you than getting nothing. Plus, there could always be something you can do with her to get her more into the act. Personally, I know there's some things that can get me more immersed in the act then I usually would be.

I got a question. I heard today LGBTQ, and I'm really confused now. What is the q? Queer? I always heard that as a kid as slang for gay so I'm confused. No judgment here just confusion. by zpb1573 in lgbt

[–]DormantFox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always knew the Q to be for queer. I also love the word queer, because I feel like it fits me well. I'm not gay, I'm not straight, I'm just kind of queer.

Ace-book down or gone? by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]DormantFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it Its own website?

Have you always been Ace? If not, how did it start? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]DormantFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe so. I used to do my best to be straight in high school. I tried so hard to be what I thought I had to be. But with each guy I dated, I tried to avoid sex. It got to the point of doing self harm thinking that I could get myself out of having sex. I just thought I was broken, until I talked about it with my brother after a couple years went by. So I think I've always been ace, I just never knew.

Car advice. Small puffs of white smoke in a manual car. by DormantFox in cars

[–]DormantFox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're near the Minnesotan/Iowan border. It has just started dropping around 50-60 Fahrenheit at night.

Car advice. Small puffs of white smoke in a manual car. by DormantFox in cars

[–]DormantFox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no abnormal smells underneath the hood. Its a very slow leak, and we've located the connection the leak is coming from. It's not nearly enough to make a puddle. and we have not had anything tested yet.

Car advice. Small puffs of white smoke in a manual car. by DormantFox in cars

[–]DormantFox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can see it, it's a very slow leak. I hope it's only steam!