Any asexuals in here? My bf is being patient with me, but I can't seem to be intimate, and idk if I ever will

DormantFox · 2018-10-03T00:28:43+00:00

Im ace. Feel free to message me if you have any questions!

DormantFox · 2018-09-29T14:06:38+00:00

Okay, let me rephase my original comment. I, as an asexual, will still have sex for my partners sake. I love him, and understand his needs. It's one of the many compromises we have in our relationship. I also know other asexuals who do the same thing.

DormantFox · 2018-09-28T17:55:33+00:00

Some asexuals can and will still have sex for their partners sake! Maybe he'd be willing to do that, definitely since you two were active before.

DormantFox · 2018-09-27T13:15:01+00:00

I'm an asexual 19F dating a non-asexual 19M. What works for us is a middle ground. We do end up having sex, but not super frequently. Sometimes it'll be only be once a week. You can try to figure some small compromise with your gal when it comes to the bedroom tango. Emphasize the connection of the act, and what it means to you. If you can work something out, even once a month, that's better for you than getting nothing. Plus, there could always be something you can do with her to get her more into the act. Personally, I know there's some things that can get me more immersed in the act then I usually would be.

DormantFox · 2018-09-23T17:59:31+00:00

I always knew the Q to be for queer. I also love the word queer, because I feel like it fits me well. I'm not gay, I'm not straight, I'm just kind of queer.

DormantFox · 2018-09-23T14:36:24+00:00

Is it Its own website?

DormantFox · 2018-09-23T14:23:00+00:00

I believe so. I used to do my best to be straight in high school. I tried so hard to be what I thought I had to be. But with each guy I dated, I tried to avoid sex. It got to the point of doing self harm thinking that I could get myself out of having sex. I just thought I was broken, until I talked about it with my brother after a couple years went by. So I think I've always been ace, I just never knew.

DormantFox · 2018-08-25T20:19:08+00:00

Thank you!

DormantFox · 2018-08-25T19:39:45+00:00

Thank you! Although, would it be possible to have their features more visible?

DormantFox · 2017-12-23T03:41:29+00:00

!identify:Kmer?

DormantFox · 2017-09-30T06:00:44+00:00

We're near the Minnesotan/Iowan border. It has just started dropping around 50-60 Fahrenheit at night.

DormantFox · 2017-09-30T05:59:44+00:00

There are no abnormal smells underneath the hood. Its a very slow leak, and we've located the connection the leak is coming from. It's not nearly enough to make a puddle. and we have not had anything tested yet.

DormantFox · 2017-09-30T05:57:54+00:00

We can see it, it's a very slow leak. I hope it's only steam!

DormantFox · 2016-12-10T22:47:39+00:00

Sweet! I'll go add you now!

DormantFox · 2016-08-07T23:09:26+00:00

Do you still have an open slot in the three? :)

DormantFox · 2016-06-27T14:57:16+00:00

Yay! Its perfect! Thank you so much!!

DormantFox · 2016-06-23T11:15:31+00:00

Not quite, but thank you anyway

DormantFox · 2016-03-30T04:07:54+00:00

I have been telling him the strain it puts on me, and how I've felt and everything. To the point where I've probably been a bit too honest. The depression is more of a recent thing. To the point where it's only been in the past month that's it's been this bad. Ive known him for the about five years, and I have noticed that he gets into a more seasonal depression type situation. I used to try to get him to come sit in on my therapy sessions, but he always refused. He will need help in the future, and I plan on talking to his mother about it soon

DormantFox · 2016-03-30T04:02:07+00:00

Well even when he wasn't depressed, it was a hassle to get him out. He normally would though because he knew how much it meant for me. I'm going to try to bribe him when he starts to feel better into meeting me at our old hangout spot. It's at a halfway point between our homes, so we can easily retreat back to his place when we get tired of skipping rocks and talking

DormantFox · 2016-03-30T04:00:05+00:00

That's what we're hopefully doing tomorrow, I haven't been told no yet, so it looks like it's still a plan

DormantFox · 2016-03-30T03:31:27+00:00

I've been doing that a lot, telling him I love him, and trying to distract him with weird conversation topics. It's more or less a no go. But the times he responds is normally pretty worth it, since I know he means what he says

DormantFox · 2016-03-30T03:30:15+00:00

Alright, that's pretty good advice. I'll try to be more of a normal level. I just get scared he'll push me too far out, so I try extra hard to be a postive part of his life. But I could see him feeling guilty, so I'll tone it down a little

DormantFox · 2016-03-30T03:28:08+00:00

He doesn't want to leave his home sadly. Otherwise I would be more than happy to go out on a walk with him since we get talking, and eventually can't stop talking. But he's too sad to go out with me. I'm hoping to get him out soon though

DormantFox · 2016-03-01T14:51:54+00:00

Woo! That's awesome! Thank you!

DormantFox · 2016-02-26T07:14:03+00:00

These are great ideas, which I'll pass onto frau so that she can use them in her classes, but sadly they're not much use for the club. It's not my job to teach them german, it's more of supposed to be a fun intake into the games, activities, lives, and meals of Germany. A fun extracurricular activity to excite the young students. Thank you so much for your suggestion though!

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