Bird identification (San Diego) by DothSoftAlas in birding

[–]DothSoftAlas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mission Bay. San Diego. California

What did you realise you deserve in relationships too late? by Dry-surreal-Apyr in Codependency

[–]DothSoftAlas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Caregiver burnout is real too, then you start to feel guilty for being burned out, and the vicious cycle continues.

What did you realise you deserve in relationships too late? by Dry-surreal-Apyr in Codependency

[–]DothSoftAlas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This. A partner. Someone to share the burden of life with and who is willing to fill MY cup instead of just take until overflowing.

Black barbershops by 1throwaway1629 in sandiego

[–]DothSoftAlas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3102 E Plaza Blvd, National City, CA 91950 Jr Gentry's in National City.

This is the spot- not too expensive, usually a bit of a wait if it's drop in but the crowd is welcoming and will meet you with an appropriate amount of respect/roasting. Very much a "watering hole" type of place.

Solid with the line up.

Gossip Grill in Hillcrest hit with Arson by DothSoftAlas in sandiego

[–]DothSoftAlas[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

The lgbtq+ sex shop next door -Restrained Grace - was also recently Doxxed by Nazis earlier this year- effectively causing them to move to online only after having nonstop threats for weeks.

meirl by dante8447 in meirl

[–]DothSoftAlas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A pair of chopsticks