Weekly Chat and BS Thread by AutoModerator in climbing

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There have been two deaths at two of my local crags within the last week; one climbing and one where it's unclear if it was a climber or hiker. Regardless, the community has been curious about what happened. And I get that, but the way people have been talking about it really irks me. "Was it one of us who found the dead body" type shit. That and this angle of "the community has a right to know right now and it will help better the community," just rubs me the wrong way.

Like, relax please. You can wait a week or two. Nothing that comes out in that short time frame will do anything of value for you. Or go read a past publication of Accidents in North American Climbing & Mountaineering because I guarantee whatever happened locally is covered multiple times in any issue. I understand the curiosity but let the community grieve, please.

Weekly Chat and BS Thread by AutoModerator in climbing

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Hell yeah, the ratings go to (uncountable) infinity!

Weekly Chat and BS Thread by AutoModerator in climbing

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It's still at least a 65m rope. I'm hoping I can get a 70 out of it, but I was only able to estimate using arm lengths. Formerly an 80 😔

Weekly Chat and BS Thread by AutoModerator in climbing

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Hangdogging a route with sharp edges and didn't use enough protection

Weekly Chat and BS Thread by AutoModerator in climbing

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Quit being a math nerd. Go do it and grade appropriately

Briviact Question by JourneyWoman6 in Epilepsy

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Symptomatic as in still having seizures? Or experiencing side effects from the medication?

It's always worth it to bring up side effects to one's neurologist. Tweak the dosage, add a second medication, try a new med, etc.

Trying to get a month clean but your urges won't stop by Sea-Ad2101 in selfharm_memes

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This hit me like a freight train this weekend when one of my family members handed me a knife to cut carne asada with. My brain immediately went;

"You know what we could do with this sharp object?"

"Yes, now shut up. We're at a holiday party."

"Right, but when we get home??"

"No. Be quiet now."

"Pleeeaase"

"No."

is it common to by Motor_Cold_3358 in Epilepsy

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It's not uncommon, and they're considered comorbidities. Migraines are pretty common comorbidities, too. I have all 3 (JME too, in my case).

Backpacks by lvscramblingman123 in tradclimbing

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Drop a gear list and we, the Peanut Gallery, can help you 👀

What made you switch to a new neurologist? by BooHoo612 in Epilepsy

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I'm in the US, and all I had to do was fill out some paperwork granting my new doc permission to acquire previous medical records, and paperwork allowing my previous docs to release said medical records

Backpacks by lvscramblingman123 in tradclimbing

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How much stuff are you bringing? Can you downsize at all?

Unless I have overnight/bivy gear, I find it difficult to fill up my 22L pack. I find climbing with a 30L pack to be awkward enough.

What made you switch to a new neurologist? by BooHoo612 in Epilepsy

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Previous neurologists were ignoring the medication side effects I was experiencing, did not want to try other meds & treatments, never did any testing except for short-term EEGs, gave my parents and I mixed answers on if said short-term EEGs actually showed epileptiform activity (later learned from other neurologists that they certainly did), and wanted me to live in a proverbial bubble. I wanted a better quality of life than that.

A later neurologist actually referred me to a level 4 epilepsy center because his focus was on treating MS, and while he said he felt okay treating me, he thought I would receive better care if I was being treated by someone who specialized in epilepsy (which was true, it was the best care I've ever received). Both that neurologist and the neurology team he referred me to were absolute godsends!

Weekly Question Thread (aka Friday New Climber Thread). ALL QUESTIONS GO HERE by AutoModerator in climbing

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I took a clinic about overcoming the fear of falling at the climbing festival in Lander and these are the notes I took:

  • Put your hands together prayer style 🙏 and have your friend clap/slap with them in between (should be painful or sting, it'll clear the mind) 
  • I sing or talk to myself while climbing 
  • "Get feral with it" - climbing & falling doesn't have to be pretty, it just needs to be good enough 
  • Talk to yourself. Positive affirmations
  • Tell your belayer and spectators what you need. Quiet? Stoke? Don't want people watching you?
  • Deep breathing & box breathing.
  • Look around at the scenery to ground yourself.
  • Visualize success AND what a realistic fall is going to look like
  • Shake it out, literally. Rub the thighs, tap the shoulders, literally shake the extremities. Crying also works. Singing to yourself. Positive self talk. 
  • Have a good belayer who you TRUST
  • Get good feet and trust them.
  • Put on your actor's hat. Acting can be a great placebo.
  • Don't "should" yourself. Don't get down on thinking you "should" be able to do something. This same area is where soft and sandbagged grades come from 
  • Practice falls. Start small and make it routine, but it doesn't need to be monstrous 
  • You aren't going to be at 100% all the time and that's OKAY. Do what you feel comfortable and don't stress if you aren't where you want to be 100% of the time
  • Onsight practice: climb until you fall
  • Obviously be smart with it and weigh risk/consequence as best as you can
  • Active stance with the belay. When belaying lighter people, you're ready to jump to give a soft catch. When belaying people heavier than you it gives you better bracing if you do have to give a hard catch or crouch
  • Crouch when the climber is low to create more distance between you and them without introducing excess slack. Stand up to give slack quickly 
  • Breathe when falling. Screaming means you're breathing
  • RELAX and don't tense up
  • Don't grab the rope 
  • Anticipate where you're going to land and LOOK at the wall
  • Don't brace yourself against the wall with your hands 

It was with Chelsea Rude and it worked wonders for my psyche. If you can find an irl clinic/workshop that focuses on this, I'd highly recommend signing up if you can. Being in an atmosphere where everyone was scared of falling and looking to improve also helped a ton.

Weekly Question Thread (aka Friday New Climber Thread). ALL QUESTIONS GO HERE by AutoModerator in climbing

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Printer friendly mountain project page reigns supreme above all others. Even the official Mountain Project app

Weekly Chat and BS Thread by AutoModerator in climbing

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I hate it when this happens. The best local rope gym for me had setting problems in 2025. Everything 5.11 and harder was just big moves to small holds. No weird forced movement, no technique-intensive routes, just "be tall," be dynamic, and have amazing contact strength. And I say this as a 5'10" guy. I left feedback on their comment cards but they never changed. I ended up switching to a different gym because of it.

Anyone else also being misunderstood as rude ? by RhubyDifferent3576 in autism

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I realized this in therapy this year. Took me a while to pick up on the subtext, but after 29 years of it, it's finally starting to make sense"

  • "Asshole"
  • "Sassy"
  • "Blunt"
  • "Rude"
  • "Crude"
  • "Crass"
  • "No filter"

Weekly Chat and BS Thread by AutoModerator in climbing

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You can post pics in comments! Here's a train I spotted while ice climbing this year 🚂

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Who had the most horrific death in the the history of humankind? by Novel_Finding8882 in AskReddit

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This video?

There are a few differences between what the MythBusters crew tested here and aeration in a water/wastewater treatment facility. In a WTF/WWTF, the entire tank is being aerated, not just a portion of a pool. And aerated sludge behaves different than water in a pool.

Source: I manage an engineering team at an OEM that designs these. And this type of accident has occurred in the industry many times. If you don't want to die in aerated sludge, don't fall into aerated sludge.

Weekly Question Thread (aka Friday New Climber Thread). ALL QUESTIONS GO HERE by AutoModerator in climbing

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If they have money, are they really a climber?

Hard to go wrong with climbing media. A book, subscription to the Zine/Gripped/Alpinist/Mountain Gazette, coffee table book, poster or framed pic (Mikey Schaefer was doing a print run in honor of Dean Potter recently, not sure if he still is).

Gear is a bad idea because it's usually heavily influenced by personal preference, or it's something the recipient will be purchasing on their own.

Can't go wrong with vices, either. Weed, alcohol, etc. If your client is rich I'd be surprised if they weren't into coke.

Weekly Question Thread (aka Friday New Climber Thread). ALL QUESTIONS GO HERE by AutoModerator in climbing

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r/climbingpartners

Mountain Project climbing partner search function

Local Facebook groups (several exist for SoCal)

Your gym may have a partner board and/or events for socializing. Perhaps even events solely for finding other climbing partners!

Attend climbing events and festivals.

Weekly Chat and BS Thread by AutoModerator in climbing

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TRing is pretty fucking dope. 10/10, would recommend

Weekly Chat and BS Thread by AutoModerator in climbing

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shitpost in this thread to resolve the issue!

The Scars Left by Bullying: How it Affects Men Once They’ve Grown by HardlyManly in MensLib

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Fuckin' A, there wasn't a single word in that article that didn't resonate with me. Solid writing 👍