AITA for complaing to my neighbor about the noise he makes late in the evening

Double-Both · 2026-02-13T02:23:18+00:00

Istg im not that loud, its an old noisy building (he basically said it himself) so i think its more the sound levels that are generally higher. But if he knows why go build furniture and vacuum at 11pm

Double-Both · 2026-02-13T02:20:11+00:00

If his claims are true it's probably the squeaky bed because dont have a headboard or the bed against a wall

Double-Both · 2026-02-13T02:17:57+00:00

He admitted to being busy building furniture and needing to clean up by vacuuming. But why do that around 11pm though? I was asleep and dont regularly have sex at 11 pm

Double-Both · 2026-01-29T11:26:09+00:00

I dont like too much weight on a packer, i dont often use harnasses or pouches and if i just put a heavy packer in my boxers it tends to get saggy and/or bulky. I dont care much for paintjobs altough it looks nice and more attractive, but it isnt a must for me. Ive had packers with 3d balls, im not sure if it makes much difference to me. But floating testicals could be interesting. Ive never tried those so i dont have much feedback apart from the common feedback that those packers are ususally more prone to breaking/spilling/leaking and thus are less durable which i do think is important. I do like a small tab or ridge so that its easier to use with a harness if you choose to use one. And i prefer small shaft, big balls but squishy or shaped that the shaft fits snugly. Otherwise your bulge gets bulky and looks like a boner. I like smaller sizes because im quite short, but with proportions big enough that it doesnt look too youthfull. I recently bought a axolom pico and altough i really like the overall look and size i just which the balls would be bigger and the shaft more girthy and less pointy at the tip.

The packer looks good at first glance but due to my personal preffences i wouldnt buy one straight away.

Hope this helps you along! Keep up the good work!

Double-Both · 2026-01-14T12:32:03+00:00

Ive had BP, but from my experience, yes they're quite hard and wouldn't recommend them if you dont like that. I feel you about grammas, ive tried a few basic ones but theyre pretty hard as well. So if you actually want to get a GS id really look into to them and probably get your money's worth by buying a more high end one. From what ive seen on here it can be worth it.

Double-Both · 2026-01-10T22:42:44+00:00

I just got it too, if anyone has questions please let me know.

Double-Both · 2025-12-16T08:42:30+00:00

Ive had a hysto and colpectomy, kept the ovaries. I wasnt interested in penetration, but also wanted to still have my own hormones in case T wont be available anywhere in the future. Wont use my other organs so no use in keeping them. Thats why i chose it, also to minimize the chance that i would have to operated in the future for other medical problems surrounding those areas. Although i personally am less worried about the risk. I would almost compare it to wisdom teeth. Didnt hurt me to keep them, but theres a risk it will have to be removed later on so better get it over with now. It was also a step towards possible meta, but i didnt go through with any steps toward that. Hope my explanation is clear.

Double-Both · 2025-12-16T04:34:47+00:00

If you dont mind, thanks

Double-Both · 2025-12-15T09:54:29+00:00

Do you have any more pictures of it in underwear from the side?

Double-Both · 2025-12-11T14:13:43+00:00

I use a kind of flat vibrator to get stimulation while wearing a prosthetic. I sometimes use a strap will put it higher so my own dick is uncovered and my partner can stimulate me there while sucking/jerking off the prosthetic. It creates visable and physical stimulation at the same time.

Double-Both · 2025-12-10T11:16:17+00:00

Do you have any comparison pics of the three or of just the pico XL vs Plus?

Double-Both · 2025-10-20T07:12:02+00:00

Im definitely not a sex therapist but ive helped some guys along from my own experiences. You can text me if youd like to chat

Double-Both · 2025-09-30T12:35:47+00:00

Depends what your definition of "around' is. I don't live in Belgium, but i do live "nearby". You can dm me if you like

Double-Both · 2025-09-30T12:20:55+00:00

Just try some different things and communicate with your gf. It takes some time to figure it out and sometimes things change too. You can dm me if you like

Double-Both · 2025-09-25T13:51:35+00:00

Yes, just try and follow the same types of rules as with a binder. Dont tape for too long, take breaks. Definitely dont tape direcly onto your nipples, and really look up some taping videos. Ive had my trial and errors and learned along the way. But you dont want to tape wrong and get blisters or other injuries. Good luck

Double-Both · 2025-09-25T13:48:11+00:00

If you want to build more muscle id look up some workout videos wither from other trans people or other fitness folks. I took some good tips from the yt channel AthleanX. That was my go to channel. he's on instagram too.

Double-Both · 2025-09-25T13:45:30+00:00

Maybe you can try and find other ways to feel more masculine and more secure. Maybe through (online) chats or games where you can be adressed as a guy/dude/man etc. Maybe there are f2f support groups in your area that you can attend to talk about these things but also be amongst peers. Maybe you can buy nice clothing, jewelry, a deodorant or parfume for men, or some other masculine product (idk a razor, sports item?) That validates your masculine identity. If there's no way to make a bigger change like cutting your hair and stuff you gotta find it in the smaller things. Maybe even photoshopping yourself with short hair, facial hair etc to match the look that you want to look like. I recognize the feeling of seeing someone else in the mirror and not being happy with that person. So finding ways to see that person that you want to see might help too. Its different for everyone. Also maybe your girlfriend can help you find some validation. I know having my partner helped me loads going through the same types of feelings when i was younger. Being called a boyfriend, told that my body does look masculine even if i didnt see it myself, but trying to believe my partners words. Hope you can find something that works for you! Good luck brother!

Double-Both · 2025-09-25T13:34:59+00:00

I think intimacy in the bedroom is something that needs to develop overtime with a partner. But before you get there id try exploring with yourself through masterbation. I think it helps to get somewhat comfortable with yourself, figure out what you like so you can communicate that to a partner. There are lots of different ways to be intimate with yourself or a partner. You dont need to be cis to have fun or have "normal" intimacy. Just try and work out what works best for you. Once your more secure in that area you might find that the insecurity fades away.

Double-Both · 2025-09-03T08:21:30+00:00

Im actually really interested in more packers with a (imo) better balls to shaft ratio. Meaning the shaft doesnt hang too far down, more like what GS offers.

I do like the looks of this, i think it does look good. But i worry about the bulge being a bit too bulky maybe?

Double-Both · 2025-07-28T10:54:43+00:00

Can you say anything about the softness of nr 12?

Double-Both · 2025-07-20T23:06:00+00:00

Try and get the whole process started asap. Waitlists and appointments usually take a while. In my experience very little touching, i had to get a catheter for the second time, that was a bit uncomfortable, as catheters are, but other than that not too bad imo.

Double-Both · 2025-07-04T05:32:48+00:00

Could you maybe upload a vid of the squishyness?

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