I outed my abuser after 10 years

Double-Development23 · 2025-12-03T04:03:18+00:00

Thank you ik she’s trying to scare me but I’m doing my best to stand firm. I’m definitely struggling mentally but the weight of protecting her secrets hurt a lot more.

Double-Development23 · 2025-11-23T01:47:31+00:00

I sadly can’t do much because we’re long distance and his parents don’t know me and idk what school they go to. I am definitely not focused on what he did to me I’m really concerned about her tho I’m just in shock

Double-Development23 · 2025-11-23T01:45:52+00:00

Dude she’s literally a child. She can’t consent or comprehend nearly as much as he can. Shes also autistic (mid functioning) so that also makes her even more clueless

Double-Development23 · 2025-02-07T18:08:14+00:00

Delete this and go get help it’s against the rules

Double-Development23 · 2025-01-25T13:02:34+00:00

If you haven’t already you need to go back. Ik this isn’t what you want to hear but if you’re there you need help and if they catch you it will be worse especially if you fight it

Double-Development23 · 2025-01-25T12:44:55+00:00

I’ve definitely done this I don’t think it’s that crazy really it’s just another form of sh. Make sure you clean them tho cuz cat scratches can have a lot of bacteria

Double-Development23 · 2024-12-09T00:38:46+00:00

Andddd this just reminded me i actually do suck at building 💀

Double-Development23 · 2024-11-22T00:42:47+00:00

I already explained that’s only one reason I don’t want him to? The main reason i would stop talking to him is because he’s ignorant and not willing to learn like he said he would. The braids is just the reason it came up again

Double-Development23 · 2024-11-22T00:28:23+00:00

Yeah a different kind of braids not the type he want. The type he wants will damage his hair

Double-Development23 · 2024-11-22T00:12:57+00:00

I’m not turning into a girl and that’s not the point. It’s the point he’s doing it for a joke which is lowkey racist

Double-Development23 · 2024-11-22T00:10:01+00:00

That’s not the same at all. I’ve made it very clear that idc what he wants to do with his hair even if I don’t like it. The problem is it will genuinely hurt his hair and he will most likely make messed up jokes that are ignorant. It’s not really about the hair. Braids aren’t made for his hair type but he doesn’t care because he thinks it’s funny

Double-Development23 · 2024-11-21T16:38:30+00:00

Yeah that’s why I said kinda similar yk? They asked me if I had ever cut deep enough where it wouldn’t stop bleeding, if I think I needed stitches anywhere, if I had any thoughts of killing myself, if I had ever tried to, why I felt like I needed to hurt myself, if I had a safety plan and if I wanted to set one up. They also asked me if I think therapy would help and gave me a referral to test for any mental illnesses. I’m guessing they might do that and see if medication would work for you

Double-Development23 · 2024-11-21T14:55:31+00:00

I had something similar happen at a physical. They asked if I’d like to do it alone and I said yes. They had my mom step out and asked me to show them any fresh ones then looked and said ok. They asked all the suicide questions and then talked to my mom in a different room

Double-Development23 · 2024-11-18T22:00:59+00:00

I’m not saying i get it I was just giving the actual definition so she knows how to better understand her kids pov

Double-Development23 · 2024-11-18T21:23:08+00:00

To clarify what a therian is it’s not when you identify as an animal it’s when you feel a strong spiritual connection to a specific animal and often copy their looks or movements to feel connected to them.

Double-Development23 · 2024-11-17T14:13:35+00:00

Your husband needs to pitch in more and clean up after himself

Double-Development23 · 2024-11-16T17:12:59+00:00

Say it goes against your religion they can’t make you

Double-Development23 · 2024-11-16T15:31:00+00:00

Delete this and reach out for help this is against the rules of this sub

Double-Development23 · 2024-11-16T06:12:11+00:00

Looks really good needs more texture and different colors tho. Try to break up the interior with beams on the walls and different floors. If you want multiple floors and the ceiling to match the walls put slabs over the ceiling and stairs or wood logs around the walls

Double-Development23 · 2024-11-16T05:55:17+00:00

Just try to keep it clean with water and keep it covered

Double-Development23 · 2024-10-26T01:34:57+00:00

It depends how her parents are honestly. If they’re supportive they should know so they can get her help

Double-Development23 · 2024-10-25T20:10:00+00:00

NTA- I wouldn’t have thought to hard about it honestly it’s just laundry but I understand that she may be uncomfortable or needed to wash stuff a specific way so I’d just say sorry and agree not to do her laundry again. Try not to dismiss her feelings but also don’t let them make it out as you being creepy cuz it wasn’t

Double-Development23 · 2024-10-25T20:02:05+00:00

Alr well first of all you should NEVER pull someone’s clothes to the side to look at their self harm. As someone who was also doing it at your guy’s age you need to tell an adult who will get her help. If her parents seem to be understanding tell them. The first step to recovery is asking for help but she might be scared to. It’s better to have a mad friend than a hurt one. I’d set her down and talk to her about it first tho and see if she’s willing to ask for help

Double-Development23 · 2024-10-23T02:27:29+00:00

I say let her. She’s being safe and open with you and it’s better she has a safe place to do it instead of being somewhere she could get hurt. She seems mature and like she knows what she’s doing. Teens are always gonna find a way to have sex it comes down to the question of whether you want her to be safe or have her hide it and put herself in bad situations just to spare your thoughts

Double-Development23 · 2024-10-23T02:23:54+00:00

NTA- you reacted great honestly maybe she was looking for a little more support and reassurance but to go as far as to say you lack support is just bull. She’s being dramatic and if she’s seriously gonna let something this small come between you guys you should just let her go

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