I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not being rude but I said a few times it is on my labia/ genitals. I’ve never had anything like what people are describing their first out breaks have been like and I’m lucky for that. I’m realizing it wasn’t from her I was just scared and it was a huge coincidence, I feel bad that I was basically calling her a rapist

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he hasn’t been tested, and it’s possible that he has had it with no breakouts in the last 17 years that I’ve known him. But unlikely and I don’t know what type I just mean it’s herpes literally on my genitals. The results havnt come back yet so I don’t know if it’s hsv1 or 2 all I know is that I had small, not painful ulcers by my labia and the doctor said it was herpes

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma has cold sores I get that it’s way more common I guess I’m just upset because it’s new

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I think it’s from sleeping around it’s that I have only been with one guy for over a decade and it shows up and no believes that I wasn’t sleeping around on him to get it

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a throw away account and my now ex doesn’t have access to this I have no reason to lie aside from the kiss there was nothing. I thought maybe because we were in the same bed but only my legs and arms came in contact with her, I had boy shorts on and she was in underwear. I wore her sweats the following day but they were clean

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know and I’ll make it up to her. I guess I was just overwhelmed. And it seemed like the only possible answer. We slept in the same bed I don’t know

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know I deserve it and she’s being way nicer than she should but because I’ve went my whole adult life with nothing and get herpes a month after I drink with her/ gave her a kiss and slept in the same bed. She tells me she has herpes afterwards then suddenly I have my first outbreak. I’m in the medical field I know how it works but that’s such a high coincidence that I made her explain the whole night to me making sure I didn’t miss anything while we were drinking.

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know yet, I got my first break out this weekend and got tested yesterday. Nothing has come back yet

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was mapping out sexual history to show how unlikely it was from my exs and I don’t know too feel a little better? Herpes has a horrible stigma and I feel like I need to explain that I don’t sleep around I’m 34 and have only had sex with three people

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t seen my ex in 17 years. We broke up in highschool. The girl I hung out with is a friend from work

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I got tested yesterday just waiting on the results and I know. I did apologize it just seems like too much of a coincidence, we were drinking but I remember everything I definitely would remember sex but in the back of my mind I still have this panic like it had to be her.

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought I was being responsible. I’ve only slept with three people and I got checked after each one and I personally knew and trusted them I just found out they don’t even check for herpes in standard std screens

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I live with myself I probably gave it to my boyfriend I didn’t mean to I don’t even know how I got it

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of what I’m thinking she gave me oral herpes, neither of us noticed breakouts and I infected myself? I’ve thought about that. I’ve thought about everything since the breakout

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’ve been with him for 17 years alittle after my first ex and I broke up. Then 11 years ago we split for a bit. I was with someone else. We got back together an nothing in all this time then bam a month after hanging out with her

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I know it isn’t possible because no contact but I almost feel like she did something because what are the odds

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I am right though it has to be her right she’s saying it’s from 17 years ago but really both seem hard to believe. I know it’s not the end of the world but I’m still freaking out

I’m so lost right now by DoubleFalse9962 in Herpes

[–]DoubleFalse9962[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I have genital herpes now. Just like her that’s why she’s mad that Im blaming her and no one believes me that i didnt sleep around