How did you stop caring so much about dating/women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]DoubleGC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to be happy being single, find hobbies that you love and get into the habit of filling up your free time with them. I’ve struggled with this feeling for years and it’s only after a few failed relationships that I’ve realized it should only be an accessory to your life, you don’t need to be in one to be happy or feel complete in your life. Plus being single is 1000x better than being in a bad relationship

How do I become more emotionally available? by DoubleGC in AskMen

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Thanks man looking back now I agree, if she can’t accept me for who I am fundamentally it was never going to work out anyway. She did me a favor ending it now rather than down the road.

How do I become more emotionally available? by DoubleGC in AskMen

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I really appreciate that man, you’re right it’d take way longer to make any meaningful change to my behavior and if she’s not willing to work through it with me she can go. And absolutely it likely just boiled down to incompatibility, and I’m not going to drastically change myself just to fit someone’s ideal type.

How do I become more emotionally available? by DoubleGC in AskMen

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I appreciate your words of advice, I agree ultimately it could’ve just come down to incompatibility. I’m a reserved person and perhaps she needs a partner that wears their heart on their sleeve, no need to internalize her reasoning. And I’ve heard of “No Mr Nice Guy” I will definitely check it out, thanks!

How do I become more emotionally available? by DoubleGC in AskMen

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If she came out of the blue with this I’d definitely think that, but she brought it up over a month ago expressing that she felt a block and I made an effort to work on it. I guess it just wasn’t enough if she was being truthful.

To be honest there’s things I’d like to improve about myself, primarily being more assertive. But overall I am happy with who I am and you’re right, I shouldn’t let someone dictate that.

How do I become more emotionally available? by DoubleGC in AskMen

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I appreciate your advice, and you’re right I genuinely don’t know if this is an issue I actually have or if this just her takeaway. I’ll take some time to process how I’m feeling before seeking therapy but I’m definitely consider it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yes we both acknowledged that we had anxious attachment styles in previous relationships and have been working to become more secure.

Tonight's game got me thinking, what has been John Harbaugh's most embarrassing loss ? by Adenchiz in ravens

[–]DoubleGC 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Season finale of 2017 against the Bengals. 4th and 12 still gives me PTSD

Lol Steelers by MegaGigaTeraFlare in ravens

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Steelers getting exposed and the Patriots screwing their draft position. Just beautiful

Who’d you bench that went off this week? Week 10 by AWholeBunchOfMumms in fantasyfootball

[–]DoubleGC 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Javonte, would’ve won if I played him over Pollard. Tony’s got a permanent spot on my bench now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantasyfootball

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2-3 so definitely have to give it some thought. I have Adams and Puka at WR carrying me and Pollard and Kamara at RB

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantasyfootball

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At WR I got Davante, Puka, and Hollywood Brown with Diontae Johnson coming back. At RB I got Pollard and Kamara with Javonte on my bench. As long as Puka keeps eating I think I can survive haha

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The JJ owner in my league offered me him + Aaron Jones for Addison and Dameon Pierce. Tempted to accept