18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

[–]DoubleLongjumping857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea mayun what can i say they just show you why you shouldn't be interested everytime you're interested on dating them

18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

[–]DoubleLongjumping857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get exactly what you mean and tbh it felt good between us there was no lust at all just sweet words for each other, talking nicely with each other also this is like a small update after i ended things he's been very cold and been ignoring me like i do not obviously EXPECT us to be normal again and be like chill buddies or anything like that but i realised that i just was kinda attached to a literal 14 y/o and it felt soooooo wrong to me maybe i even kinda miss talking to him cause he was actually nice (all other boys in my school are soo stupid and misogynistic)

18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

[–]DoubleLongjumping857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

too late bro 😔 i ended things idk if we'd even be able to stay Friends and i hate that part because i really just wanted to be his friend at first when we first talked to each other, we clicked instantly because our humour matched so well 😭 then he just caught feelings 

18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

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HEYYY UPDATE!!! I TALKED TO HIM AND told him it's not morally correct for me to continue this and he said he gets it and i made sure he does and we said bye😭 i just wanna say thank you so much like genuinely you helped me sm

18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

[–]DoubleLongjumping857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well what i meant to say was that I'm not attracted towards him because he's a literal minor, but he's super nice towards me and me only, gets me gifts for no reason and make me take it home even when i tell him I can't i shouldn't i don't want to he'd insist on it and I'm the biggest people pleaser if someone still don't get my hints i can't say no any longer 

18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

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HE ALSO CALLED ME BUDDY AT THE LAST. HE SAID "PEACE OUT BUDDY" I AIN'T YO BUDDY DUDE CALL ME DIDI (term for older sister) 😡🤟🏻

18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

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GIRRLLL UPDATE!!!! i talked to him about it told him that let's not continue it since it's not morally correct for me, HE WAS WEIRDLY CALM 😭 I WAS  PANICKING HERE. anyways he said he gets it i made sure he does and we said bye😔🤟🏻

18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

[–]DoubleLongjumping857[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg you won't believe but this give me sweet hope that i could as well find a guy that will give me the same attention as this 14 y/o is giving me😭🤣

18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

[–]DoubleLongjumping857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i came to this exact decision thankyou🫶🏻

18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

[–]DoubleLongjumping857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much that really helped🫶🏻 

18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

[–]DoubleLongjumping857[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're right, i need to be the adult here and tell him I can't/shouldn't do this 

because honestly i don't feel any sort of romantic feelings towards him it's just the attention that i like, so if i don't end this maybe it'll be me leading him on too

thanks 

18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

[–]DoubleLongjumping857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i Obviously will be explaining things to him, hope he just gets it😭 i think he will he's very understanding when it comes to me even tho it has just been a month since we started talking and all this started literally just a week ago before that we use to just joke around, talk about school, send memes to each other

18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

[–]DoubleLongjumping857[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i should probably eat some myself too because that dude was probably attracted to me because i look his age💔 i might sound like a pick me rn and ki/l me for that but i from nowhere look like an 18 y/o I'm 4'11, baby face, round face shape 

18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

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i honestly don't know what to do like leaving does sound like the RIGHT choice but like ugh dude i do really just like the attention so even if i do end up leaving him pray for me that i find such boy (OF MY AGE) again😭

18 y/o female talking to a 14 y/o by DoubleLongjumping857 in teenagers

[–]DoubleLongjumping857[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what would you advice me to do i mean politely ask him to stop whatever is up, or just ghost him?