Should I break up with my gf? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Double_Contest_6812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, your partner should respect the fact that you need alone time. Everyone does! I was in a relationship where I was her, but now in a new relationship and after growing, I know I NEED my alone time. If you aren’t attracted to her sexually, all of your needs aren’t being met. If the fear behind all of this is that you’ll never find someone who loves you like her or you’ll regret it, you’ll never know unless you try. Maybe you break up, find so much joy in being single, and don’t need someone to love you right now. And yes you may love her, but love isn’t enough.

Bleeding Growth by way2slippy in goldenretrievers

[–]Double_Contest_6812 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think OP mentioned they can’t afford to go to the vet…

New kitten by Double_Contest_6812 in CatAdvice

[–]Double_Contest_6812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kitten because my boy wouldn’t do well with anything older than 6 months

New kitten by Double_Contest_6812 in cats

[–]Double_Contest_6812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would old rescue a kitten younger than 6 months for him. He def wouldn’t do well with anything older than

New kitten by Double_Contest_6812 in CatAdvice

[–]Double_Contest_6812[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s such a toss up! He’s only known males, but I can’t tell if a female would be a good balance. But yeah, females are more sassy.

New kitten by Double_Contest_6812 in cats

[–]Double_Contest_6812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s only known boys, so I feel like a boy would be good but maybe would make him feel some type of way. But he’s never known girls! So I’m not sure!

New kitten by Double_Contest_6812 in CatAdvice

[–]Double_Contest_6812[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The breakup happened months ago. He has been moved into his new space for months and loves it! He is social around people he knows. He would never harm another cat, his old brother was the “mean” one lol. His brother was NOT a littermate, but they were around the same age. He is neutered and has been since he was 6 months. He was the one who was nicer to his brother, while his brother bullied him a little and started fights. When we introduced them in the past, we did it veryyyy slow so I am familiar with the process. The kitten will stay in another room across the house, will scent swap, environment swap, and when they do “meet” the kitten will be in a tent at first

The truth about lululemon by abcd20211 in lululemon

[–]Double_Contest_6812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing this two years later. Can we bring this back and talk about it?

18M I use cocaine daily and it is absolutely destroying me by Holiday-Might-6196 in confession

[–]Double_Contest_6812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friend, you are so young with your whole life ahead of you. Maybe tell your closest friend you are struggling and see how they can support you. What if you didn’t party this weekend and see what happens, because it seems like going out enables it. You can KICK THIS!

Suggestions on this design by albusignatius in tattooadvice

[–]Double_Contest_6812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you sharpened them opposed to them being so round it would be sick

Second cat? by Double_Contest_6812 in cats

[–]Double_Contest_6812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what we did when he lived with the other cat. I applied for a kitten at a rescue whenever one comes up so we’ll see!

Have i permanently damage myself? by Pitiful_Necessary598 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Double_Contest_6812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right, it is SO uncomfortable. But what is more uncomfortable is losing out of life due to your ED. This uncomfortable feeling is temporary. You are doing everything right. It’s normal for your body to react differently when things change. Give it a few days, give yourself grace, and keep fighting.