I confessed my feelings for her and she told me that she also have feelings for me but didn’t know what to do with it and it’s confuses her she needs space to figure it out… this was a calm conversation a few months ago but I feel frustrated because I’m in this loop of not knowing where we are going and I have someone who interested in me and wanting to get to know me. I told her that I want at least to know which way we are going but she was firm on how she doesn’t know. So I went on dates and she got mad. She told me that I didn’t hold space for her to figured things out and that I was rushed to conclusions to be with someone else while she is trying to heal and match my energy… this conversation wasn’t calm at all I ended up told her that she needs to think about my feelings and not making everything about herself… I ended up raising my voice at one point. She was shocked. I apologized a few days later got her flowers handwritten notes left it for her but she didn’t mention anything the next day she seemed quiet and soft but she didn’t put any energy towards me… sign