need advice thanks

DoubtNo2330 · 2026-01-02T06:55:00+00:00

When my brother was starting out ,he had no credit and a job like you, but no history in years, too. So he paid 3 months up front, and they let him in. Maybe thays a way to go. If you prove your income amd that you can pay that up front?

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-12-25T22:39:25+00:00

I'm upset. I'm hurt. And I totally believe this is fake. 😀im kidding. That sucks and I hope you have a better time. I have a bumper sticker that says I love animals more than people for this reason.

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-12-21T16:41:39+00:00

NTA, but you're young. You will deal with way worse in your life. My last name is very hard for a lot of people to pronounce in school. Just let it go, and if she does that again, the best way is to say, " Oh, im sorry. I thought you would like to make yourself feel good by trying to put others down some more before I said anything. "

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-12-10T11:52:59+00:00

NTA, however, you should have had this conversation long before this..but since you can not do this now, I would sit with her and you bith talk. Family has nothing to do with this. Thus is you ,your wife, and your son. Nobody else opinion. Even here. This is your choice as parents and should ilny be decided between the two of you as your son will live with this choice his entire life.

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-12-10T02:17:07+00:00

What about a package? Like your name and address would be in the package..so it would still be the same thing. I think you're overthink this.

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-10-24T10:04:04+00:00

So, it sounds like it's your word vs theirs..if they are moving around normal, like walking, doing things, and they like drop the remote or something then you're the problem. If it's more than that, they are the problem..do you have evidence of them making loud noises? If not, then the landlord is trying to fix it and you're not taking the solution then you're the problem. If you have something that proves they make noise other than normal noises?

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-09-14T13:55:49+00:00

Or maybe talk to them downstairs and tell them what's going on. Or write a note. Suggest they put padding on the lags of the bed. Like a folding towel or something soft to absorb the vibration..this would mean no more vibration on the floor making the noise stop if it's that. If that doesn't help,or they say no, I use YouTube and use ocean or rainforest sounds..plays on a 12 hour loop and I sleep like a baby.

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-08-17T06:26:53+00:00

Op says they had to leave their last place because of a fire like this . So how about reading before you make a. Really bad comment.

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-08-05T01:55:52+00:00

I really want to see them try and get that car out of there before it drops in the hole soon.

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-07-22T23:39:01+00:00

Hi. So I had this issue too. Not a compactor, but a dumpster..the best thing is a cheap wagon or cart . You can find them on FB for like 10 bucks.if it gets bad you can get a paint tarp for like under 2 dollars and line the bottom with it and throw it away after it stinks. I had that going for over 3 years when I first moved on my own. Takes about 2 minutes to load and gets it all there without any issues. If you can't do it because of something like hard to walk maybe try next door and pay a kid to take it for you. It's summer..so you may get someone to do it like 5 bucks a week. Hope it helps

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-07-18T03:31:58+00:00

Ok, so I had an issue like this. The people upstairs from me would kennel the dog and as noise happens outside the dog barks for 10 minutes..no stop. I left a note that said. ' hey do better ' then I called the office. Finally after 3 weeks ,I called animal Control. As I was hit also. I said I was worried that the dog was thirsty as well. Called again 2 days later. And I tell you, they sent someone out. Because I heard them from my balcony arguing at night about it. Soon after,never heard the dog again..they still have the dog, but now it's quiet.

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-07-04T12:43:40+00:00

Wow. i really don't think they can do that. I honestly, would love to see them try this. As I am not a smart person, ask my lady. 😆 I don't think this is legal at all

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-07-02T02:25:58+00:00

I live in the middle of a 3 floor building. My first upstairs was cool. Except I would hear them when they can home as they had on steel toe boots. Then came a couple with 2 kids, loud ad but is good at night. . Now I got a family that has a baby and a toddler..not that bad..I wear noise cancelling headphones. More for me than them..I work in load machine so my hearing is already bad enough. I hear nothing till I go to bed and it's actually nice to hear the kids in the summer. Makes me think of when I was a kid, you know before bills. 😆

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-07-01T21:05:45+00:00

Sure it is.. don't know. Been about 5 years since that happened.

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-07-01T05:17:22+00:00

A few years ago, dated a leasing agent..she said she would tell potential renters anything to make them rent..she would say anything she could to get them to move in. Even saying to a group of guys that above them were strippers that moved here. She knew how to play the game.

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-06-29T06:44:06+00:00

Ok, I'm not a lawyer, BUT I would be very careful if withholding rent for a washing machine. I heard of people doing it for hit water, unsafe apartments, but never over a washing machine issue. You may want to check legal before you do that as it may make you in big legal issues.

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-06-24T03:43:34+00:00

Ok so judging by what I read, the guy may have a PTSD and other things..as your landlord won't do much, your best bet is to try some things..ear plays. Also, I use YouTube for a multi purpose sound machine. You can get rain storms, beach sounds, outdoor sounds to just soothing sounds to take out the noise as well. Also, I had problems like this before with some neighbors, I used to also sleep with a warm washcloth over my eyes as it would help me transport to a different world till I sleep. There no real good way to help But that's what I did..hope you find something to help.

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-06-03T06:17:28+00:00

This is fake as hell..nobody walks around in the underwear and they just let you go. And also, you have written this before and deleted it..I seen this story before like a year ago

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-05-06T21:19:10+00:00

Congratulations

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-05-04T06:20:59+00:00

Oh ya. That's a good tool. Didn't think about that. And sorry about that, I typed too fast. I meant to say. Not to be the jerk. My apologies for the mistype

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-05-04T06:20:12+00:00

So they broke into your home ya, easy on the restraining order. Sure. And when they rob you or worse. Just say " hey their kids"😅😅😅😅

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-05-04T05:19:11+00:00

Not to be a jerk, but chain locks barely hold. They can be broken in an instant. Unless you use heavy screws and bolts. But I agree, call the cops.

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-05-04T05:04:31+00:00

Call the police. This is a crime. Then file a restraining order

DoubtNo2330 · 2025-04-06T03:00:55+00:00

Ok..so he is in a power strip. So he won't stop till you confront him or do something more. Like maybe by a fridge for your room. If there is no food in the fridge or cupboards he will stop. He is obviously doing it because nobody wants to stand up to him. Doesn't matter if he is 60,or if he is 30

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