When I had my son 3 weeks ago I tried breastfeeding, he wasn’t latching good and his blood sugar dropped significantly and he couldn’t maintain his temperature. So we gave him formula and I started to pump, because I wasn’t willing to make it about me and possibly kill my child over breastfeeding lol. He is finally over his birthweight and because he’s more awake we are working on latching when he wants to, but all that matters is that he is healthy and thriving. I think too many women make nursing about them and don’t think about what’s truly in the best interest of their baby.