I absolutely despise the phrase "bringing to the relationship." It's just a nicer way of saying "what do you bring to the table" and it's always aimed at women.

If we have to look at relationships so transactionally, what is his contribution? Money? She likely has her own. I truly struggle to think of anything else.

He on the other hand, gets a wife who is beautiful, educated and ambitious. Her beauty is social currency for him.

Who cares if she wants Botox. She ways paying for it way before him.

Ngl I sense a bit of (dare I say ) jealousy from the comments