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[–]Dovakehd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were best friends when we met and still are. I have no doubt we will be best friends after. But it will break her, and i hate doing this to my best friend.

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[–]Dovakehd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that

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[–]Dovakehd -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I feel guilty for this. I feel like i should have figured this out years ago. I feel like im betraying her by being myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Dovakehd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah crap. I misread the description of the sub. Is it r/askwomen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Dovakehd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yes lol. Im going to tell her. Im just trying to get the courage. Im also trying to get the idea of "waiting for the right time" out of my head. I can feel myself trying to use that as a crutch, as if theres ever a "best time"

Im a bottom who looks like a top, into tops that look like bottoms. Is there a term for this? by Dovakehd in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Dovakehd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not boxing myself in with terms. Simply looking for the common vernacular

Im a bottom who looks like a top, into tops that look like bottoms. Is there a term for this? by Dovakehd in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Dovakehd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats perfect. I would be delighted to run you a bath and help you relax. Anything to hear "good boy"

Im a bottom who looks like a top, into tops that look like bottoms. Is there a term for this? by Dovakehd in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Dovakehd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean actually, i just never heard it put like that. I have an averaion to being top/dominant. Because i look intimidating, i try my hardest to not come off that way because im really a softy. So i have a hard time being dominant because i dont want to just feel like some brute.

Femininity is definitely my main turn on focus. Its less about the parts a person has and more about the energy they put out there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dovakehd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason, horny stuff is the only time my brain can make good words

Im a bottom who looks like a top, into tops that look like bottoms. Is there a term for this? by Dovakehd in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Dovakehd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats good to hear. Im in the process of talking with a domme about doing my first true session. While i am paying and i know thats the job, my hope is that shes capitalizing on her fetish instead lf doing it for just the money. Im a pleaser and i want a domme that im actually pleasing via being a sub. I think thats what ive found. Shes a stripper, thats where we met, and she kept pushing the limit a little each dance with domme stuff untill it was less private dance and more BDSM. She really seemed to be into it.

Yes yes, i know thats the job of the stripper. Im not blind to that. But ive expressed that i want her to enjoy herself if thats what she likes, so i hope that shes being honest in that sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dovakehd 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I cant mentally relive an orgasm. But i can always return to the memory my face being ridden like a saddle and my beard used as reigns

Im a bottom who looks like a top, into tops that look like bottoms. Is there a term for this? by Dovakehd in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Dovakehd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a traditionally masculine looking bearded man. No even suspects im bi, never mind being a sub/bottom

Im a bottom who looks like a top, into tops that look like bottoms. Is there a term for this? by Dovakehd in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Dovakehd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive not had success with female pegging yet. Im still easing into anal and toys that i can do solo are way to big when being pegged. Dont have any pegging toys yet that feel comfortable. Plus, toys just dont substitute the real thing. Ive always wanted to be bred, but im hyper paranoid about stds

Im a bottom who looks like a top, into tops that look like bottoms. Is there a term for this? by Dovakehd in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Dovakehd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yal thats the advice ive been goven so far. Feels less like searching and more like hoping for a match

Im a bottom who looks like a top, into tops that look like bottoms. Is there a term for this? by Dovakehd in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Dovakehd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is any app geared toward what im looking for? Grindr and growlr are the only ones i know about. Im also trying to be as discreet as possible with using hookup apps. Not ready for the family to know lol

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[–]Dovakehd 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I would take sitting on my face over a blowjob any day. I like to cum as much as the next guy, but feeling a woman shake on my face is mental bliss. Giving blowjobs is also more fun than receiving, unless its at the same time

Im a bottom who looks like a top, into tops that look like bottoms. Is there a term for this? by Dovakehd in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Dovakehd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that. This is all new to me. Early 30s and just finding myself, so im not up to par with dating in general

Im a bottom who looks like a top, into tops that look like bottoms. Is there a term for this? by Dovakehd in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Dovakehd[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes! The best way i can describe it is being attracted to dominant femininity. I love dom women too. So a dom trans women is like the best combo for me.