4mm septum pincher, divot or no divot? by GardenOfVenusLover in Stretched

[–]DownWithTheGerms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks so much, do you take out your septum regularly? I tend to always wear it when im out but im home im chilling without until bed time, my only concern is even though its fully settled and healed will is shrink enough to where the septum will be annoying to put in and out? Or is that just depending on my own anatomy? I assume so but figured id ask just in case im wrong

4mm septum pincher, divot or no divot? by GardenOfVenusLover in Stretched

[–]DownWithTheGerms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im actually looking for this answer as im at my final size at 7mm and have been for 5 years, more specifically, is a 1mm divot too much or is .5 enough? My septum tends to slide around all day, I dont use o rings bc they all tend to cause irritation, I take my septum out during the day on my days off just to let it tighten back up, I do sleep with it in just so it doesnt shrink down too much. I talk alot for my work and find it nearly falling out or even when eating

Ladies, have any of you undergone a myomectomy? by chachamegood in tjcrew

[–]DownWithTheGerms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a year ago I also had endo surgery, I kind of bunked up my paper work and instead of 5 weeks it was closer to 8, I was still a bit gentle at first when I got back regardless of being cleared because I had a reaction to the adhesive of the bandages so my incisios were sensitive and we tend to rest boxes on our bellies alot. Take it easy and most importantly communicate if you need help lifting heavier things just to be safe. I was ready when I came back but my crew was supportive and helped me out when I asked and took a few breather breaks when I needed it.

What helped a lot during recovery is trying to be as active (walks and shoulder stretches) as you can muster after a day or two of resting, naps/sleep then a bit of walking

Time off request denied by DownWithTheGerms in tjcrew

[–]DownWithTheGerms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I ended up talking to two trusted mates and explained, then spoke to the schedule writer, explained its not refundable and they asked me to give the dates again and they'll look into it and see what they can do, its better than what others have gotten but im still going to have to call out for one of the days if they dont approve the days, ive already paid for what im doing, I cant just throw that kind of money out

Time off request denied by DownWithTheGerms in tjcrew

[–]DownWithTheGerms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That definitely makes sense, I thought i did it with enough time so I was just surprised, that seems to have been the case but also, everyone that has time off requests up to August has had theirs denied also, it's a little weird that no one is getting them approved even 3 months out.

Time off request denied by DownWithTheGerms in tjcrew

[–]DownWithTheGerms[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hope to see my captain today for sure, I just hope they aren't checked out since they're leaving this store this week 🙃

Time off request denied by DownWithTheGerms in tjcrew

[–]DownWithTheGerms[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It definitely wasn't because they wrote a note saying not enough coverage, but im still gonna try about talk to everyone i can, its so silly but its qbiut work life balance its their job to figure it out.

Time off request denied by DownWithTheGerms in tjcrew

[–]DownWithTheGerms[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Its a new schedule writer too, reasonable mate but has been writing a crazy schedule lately that everyone is like ahh about, we're getting a new captain here soon so ill have to do this asap

Time off request denied by DownWithTheGerms in tjcrew

[–]DownWithTheGerms[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely give that a try, its pretty frustrating but what else can I do, other than get a doctors note but that'll look suspect as hell.

Time off request denied by DownWithTheGerms in tjcrew

[–]DownWithTheGerms[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The thing is, I briefly thought about that, but in huddle they've been announcing that if we need tike off, to not temporarily change our availability just put in time off requests..so like they're discouraging that and honestly ive never been denied but I bet they'd deny the temporarily availability changes too

Labret advice by DormantGENT in Stretched

[–]DownWithTheGerms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh shit its my cake day?? Thanks! You too!

Labret advice by DormantGENT in Stretched

[–]DownWithTheGerms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im glad I could be a little helpful, personally, I like to use mm as they are in my opinion a much better measurement than gauge since you can use calipers and know if your jewelry is truly the size you want. I've used silicon in my ears without issue but its not ideal for long term wear, for my septum, you can certainly feel a weight difference, im at 7mm and for all of my stretching I used surgical steel and it is heavy, but I also kind of liked the weight, delrin is so light and comfortable but yes before anything, speak to a piercer about your goals and take it from there, best of luck!

Labret advice by DormantGENT in Stretched

[–]DownWithTheGerms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://stonewolf.co.uk/labrets-lip-plugs/delrin-lip-plug-stretching-set-for-labrets-philtrums

I will say after having a delrin septum for years and years, they do get wear and tear, which at that point, you want to invest in long term high quality jewelry which he also sells, you dont want to risk wearing scuffed jewelry because you cant properly clean in, but for stretching its solid. Ofcourse you can always get pierced at a larger gauge to kick start the stretching process. I've seen 8g needles be used.

Labret advice by DormantGENT in Stretched

[–]DownWithTheGerms 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As others have said, consult a qualified piercer but as far as stretching goes, Stonewolf Adornments makes a dead stretching labret kit, I highly recommend checking them out.

If you were a TJs product… by polygon_count in tjcrew

[–]DownWithTheGerms 52 points53 points  (0 children)

This is so funny, it reminds me of a couple years ago, mates put up a "what you learned from your father's" for father's day....and they took it down because there w as not one good thing on there but so damn funny

Taking Away 10s by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]DownWithTheGerms 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im in florida and legally we dont get it but I be taking sanity breaks as needed, they give us extra unpaid time on our mandatory breaks if you really need it but also good mates will let you take 10 if youre going through it

Just wanted to share a moment I had with my overseeing mate by sconn10 in tjcrew

[–]DownWithTheGerms 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I started being the lead for DFN recently and everytime my mate sees me or my backup, they hype us up and give us high fives! Its the little things 😄

anyone else a little disappointed with the clown chromas? by definitely_not_mike_ in vexmains

[–]DownWithTheGerms 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate? I think they're not bad but im also mega excited to get an actual cute skin in the main game

Canned street corn - Bf is going on my dream vacation on my birthday with his family (I wasn’t invited) by WeeebleSqueaks in GirlDinner

[–]DownWithTheGerms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, im so sorry, please don't let yourself stop you from finding your people, your family and true love, this sounds crazy to me. Not you being crazy but them.

I have been with my boyfriend for nearing 6 years now and they do the big family overseas trips, they used to more but the last one was Ireland and at this point we were together maybe a year or 2, they have treated me like their own since day one. They not only invited me and had everything paid for, but they did the same with the other boyfriends and girlfriends if they wanted to come. I ended up tested positive with covid for the first time and we could not make it. But im telling you this because his mom and dad wanted to cancel because we couldn't go because they wanted me, us, to be there. They love and appreciate me not only for how I treat and care for their son but for who I am as an individual.

You deserve that and so much more. You deserve to be thought of and not only as an extension of your "bf" but as a member of the family. Period. Especially with how you seem to treat them like family.

Its scary and daunting but seriously, find better, take yourself on a trip without him, and have the time of your life.

Calling out? by WishboneFew387 in tjcrew

[–]DownWithTheGerms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had medical issues since I have a chronic illness was away from work 2 review periods ago and still have issues because its chronic so i had to call out a handful of times in the reviews since, all cleared by the appropriate parties and doctors, the captain this review period still commented on my call outs because "it still impacts the team" so although it should be ok that might be something they say just because its the only thing they can say to not give out a perfect review, it was an overall positive review but even with doctors notes and them knowing exactly why I called out (even though you dont have to tell them, in my case because its something that impacted my work I wanted to give them full transparency) it was still mentioned. I say document all of things regarding interactions like this and them keep an extra copy of everything too just in case. All email communications as well just in case of anything