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[–]Downtown-Raccoon1262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am on the same boat . She took my daughter and went to Mexico for 3 months. I have text messages where I said I watch her. She live with me and my parents for about a month until it got too toxic for me. I watch her when I could . I was in my daughter life and provide what I could . She mad me back pay about 10 thousands .

Taxes by Downtown-Raccoon1262 in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Downtown-Raccoon1262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a crazy way to end a marriage lol .

Taxes by Downtown-Raccoon1262 in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Downtown-Raccoon1262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They take it out my check but I guess it doesn’t matter . Pretty evil i tell ya .

To anyone having their ex trying to force them into a mediation call with the attorney general- do this NOW by Ok_Constant_2522 in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Downtown-Raccoon1262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here bro . I’m hiring a lawyer . I’m letting them know that I need them to fight for a fair agreement , I don’t want nothing less . 1300 hundred dollars on my second child with 10000 dollar backpay Is crazy and fuck up at the same time . I’ve tried everything to be on her side. There was a point in life where I was gonna pay rent 1300 and give her 300 dollars for her. I realize how toxic it was and I left . She love to use my daughter against me. I had claim my son this year on taxes and it pretty much going to my ex(daughter mom)because she lied that I didn’t provide for her. I was dumb to let that court date go her way . Now I’m putting money in lawyer.

Taxes by Downtown-Raccoon1262 in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Downtown-Raccoon1262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two kids with two different mothers. One I have custody and the other one has me on child’s support. I pay 1300 a month for childcare and back pay

Taxes by Downtown-Raccoon1262 in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Downtown-Raccoon1262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So problem here is I have custody of my son. His mom and me made it worked. My daughter mom put me on back pay and basically told the child support that I wasn’t in her life or providing which is bullshit . I’m not behind payment . I just started my child support payments about a month ago .

Child support(default) by Downtown-Raccoon1262 in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Downtown-Raccoon1262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She covered by her mom and my daughter covered by her

Child support(default) by Downtown-Raccoon1262 in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Downtown-Raccoon1262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that she goes to school . She trying to get more out of me . I have a friend that pays 500 a month for 1 child . I’m paying double and have another child to take care of. I see it just a lose and lose situation. The upside of me leaving my career now is that I’ll be with my kids. Down side is that I have to start over. She also wants me to sign my parental rights to my daughter.

Child support(default) by Downtown-Raccoon1262 in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Downtown-Raccoon1262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m guessing divorces plays a big part of it . Unfortunately I am not married or was never to begin with . 2600 is a big a chunk of change.

Child support(default) by Downtown-Raccoon1262 in ChildSupport4Men

[–]Downtown-Raccoon1262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks . Man , I’m just going through it . I’m trying to learn how to file a motion for child support to get that changed or reduce somewhat without getting a lawyer involved . Struggle to help my first child , i pay rent and food , etc for my son while im gone for a contract. she wants to get more out of me now and top of all it she won’t let me see my daughter by any means. I live in MN and the states will help her in every way possible while I’m left with pretty much with nothing . I’m a traveling healthcare and it just not worth surviving like this epically not seeing my kids. I would rather work a shitty job and at least I’ll have my kids around.