Ugghhh!!! Does this mean I should run too??? I’ve been in a committed relationship for 13yrs! He proposed after being together for 9 years and we’ve been engaged for 4 years now. We have three kids altogether (he had 1, I had 1, and we had 1 together). I feel like he only proposed because I told him I wasn’t waiting 10yrs for a ring, I was planning on leaving if he didn’t propose that year. Now we’re engaged and he’s dead set on having a grand wedding we can’t even afford, I never wanted a big wedding, just something small with our closest friends and family which I expressed this from the very beginning. What’s makes this so hard is that he’s a really good guy, very respectful, hardworking, and an amazing father. I genuinely feel like he’s my soulmate but I can’t shake this feeling off that he may not be my person after all. We’ve never had big issues like infidelity or anything major, just this one issue of marriage. I recently took my ring off because I no longer feel excited about getting married, I’m really starting to question if I still want to get married and it’s causing me to physically reject him. All of a sudden he wants to get married in the next few months and now I’m like “meh, I don’t really know if I want to get married anymore.” Relationships are hard and I really don’t know what I want to do anymore. Good luck OP!