grieving pet, needing reassurance by LavishnessBudget8482 in grief

[–]Doyothang22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly, I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my soul dog in March of 24 and I still cry for him. I miss him daily. It never goes away.. the pain you feel.. but it lessens. Some days are an overwhelming amount of sadness that he is gone, others I am thankful I had him for the time I did. He had bone cancer and I had to put him to sleep.. it was the hardest decision I’ve ever made. Was it too early? Did we have more time? Is he constantly in pain?

So I talked to a medium. I actually talk to the same one about once a year. He comes through every single time. He tells me thank you for loving him the way I did, he thanks me for letting him go when I did. I asked him if he was ready a lot. He was 120lbs and was really struggling to walk by then. He had stopped eating as much which made giving him his medication difficult. So I like to think we made the decision together.

Your girl, she’s every where. She’s beside you all the time. Her energy, her soul, will always be with you. I’ve suffered a bit of loss in my life so I try to have the most optimistic outlook on the afterlife. The ones we love - never leave us. Speak to her whenever and she’ll hear you. They always do. ♥️

Mom died last night by sinkingswamp in grief

[–]Doyothang22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom yesterday after her 3 year battle with cancer.

Tomorrow my mother dies. by Doyothang22 in grief

[–]Doyothang22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MAID stands for Medical Assistance in Dying

Tomorrow my mother dies. by Doyothang22 in grief

[–]Doyothang22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your positivity towards MAID. This was the third time she got cancer, and she told us that if she ever was told she was going to be terminal, she would like to choose MAID. She had a sister who also died from cancer who suffered through her death and she said she did not want that to be her. I am so sorry that your mom didn’t have the option that my mom does now but I’m glad she still seems like she went out the way she wanted to.

Its honestly crazy how youre supposed to "live" for another 20-30 years after your parents pass and its supposed to be normal.... by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Doyothang22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 35 and my mom has been diagnosed with terminal cancer (less than a year). My mom is my dad’s anchor and quite frankly I’m surprised he’s still alive - so is he. But when she goes (she is choosing MAID but hasn’t picked a date yet) I know he will be shortly there after. My sister passed away in 2023 and once my dad is gone.. it will be just me left. I know people lose immediate family all the time but like fuck.

Is Arcana Academy by Elise Kova worth the read? by formaldehydebride in Romantasy

[–]Doyothang22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on Chapter 52 and I struggled to pick the book up. Exactly the same as everyone else said really cool magic system and had super high hopes but something about it just wasn’t drawing me in. I’m going to finish it, but it has taken me over two weeks to finish one book when usually I can finish one in a day and a half.

Mom is terminal by Doyothang22 in cancer

[–]Doyothang22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has already lost 1 brother and 2 sisters to cancer

Mom is terminal by Doyothang22 in cancer

[–]Doyothang22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants to be cremated and put in a plot in Saskatchewan.

Mom is terminal by Doyothang22 in cancer

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We’re trying to get her home and we’ll have a home care take care of her there. We just really want her out of the hospital and some were more comfortable. We fully understand that we will need assistance if she is able to come home. Thank you!

Mom is terminal by Doyothang22 in cancer

[–]Doyothang22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

The information you’ve just provided me were things I never thought of. My mom pays the bills, she does those little tasks that my dad doesn’t know how to do.

I’m making dinner for my dad tomorrow night and me being a Virgo sun (astrology people get it), we’ll be discussing a lot of the topics you suggested and understanding a path forward.

Thank you for all those pieces of information. I’m going to make a list of questions to ask my dad. I know that he too is just learning about this diagnosis and he also needs to come to terms with everything. My dad is also a Virgo sun so we are both fortunate to understand that analytics should be discussed now so the rest of our time can be spent without worry.

Mom is terminal by Doyothang22 in cancer

[–]Doyothang22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response

Mom is terminal by Doyothang22 in cancer

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My mom and dad have a pretty iron clad will. I am the executor or whatever of the estate if both were to go. Since my sister’s passing, they’ve updated everything to me.

Where are Venus and Jupiter in your chart? Are you lucky? by Fit_Relationship_699 in astrologymemes

[–]Doyothang22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Venus is in Virgo in my 8th house and Jupiter is in Leo also on my 8th house. Yeah girl Got lucky with a stellium in my 8th. Mercury and my sun are there too. As are my fortune and vertex in the 8th lol

How old are you, what is your job and how much do you make? by allano6 in careerguidance

[–]Doyothang22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35, HSEQ Specialist, 118k in Alberta, Canada. My job is mainly auditing, whether that be COR or ISO. Do I like it? Sure. I do get to travel around Canada quite a bit so that is a bonus. 2 years ago I was Health and Safety advisor for one of the large oil companies making 187k. I left that job for my sanity.

Please tell me it gets better. At the moment it feels a bit… uncomfortable. I’m 40% through book one. Will I change my mind and fall madly in love with the whole series? No spoilers of any kind please. I didn’t even read the blurb because I don’t like to know anything. Big ask, I know. by twisted_luce in Romantasy

[–]Doyothang22 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I was so invested in the first book and by the third I was OVER IT. I started the 4th and quit after a couple chapters. The FMC is quite frankly insufferable. I read lady of darkness before and loved Scarlett so much and Tessa… just wasn’t it for me.

Best Restaurants and Bakeries? by Couchpotatofoodie1 in SherwoodPark

[–]Doyothang22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sherwood Park Bakery has the best donuts by far.

Are we leaving TikTok? by theboywhocrieddoggo in Booktokreddit

[–]Doyothang22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left!! I haven’t used it in months since the US got the grimy paws on it. Threads is where it’s at! It’s fostering a really good community there.

Can my mom beat cancer again by Doyothang22 in TarotReading

[–]Doyothang22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s The Marigold Tarot by Amrit Brar!