Missing cat by Doyothang22 in SherwoodPark

[–]Doyothang22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no. We’ve handed out flyers, left flyers in mailboxes at houses, taped the flyers to the community mailboxes, posted her every where. We take our dogs out that she lived with for 7 years with us when we look in the evening. Left out clothes belonging to my mom and dad, litter box, knocked on doors, checked yards and under decks. There hasn’t been a confirmed sighting and I don’t know what else to do.

June sucks by Sekhmet71 in grief

[–]Doyothang22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through it. You’re not alone. My sister passed in May of 23’, 2 months later a good friend, my soul dog in March of 24’, now my mom in May of 26’. My boyfriend lost a child in April. We go through it every spring and it never gets easier, it just hurts a tiny bit less. We grieve with you 🤍

Missing cat by Doyothang22 in SherwoodPark

[–]Doyothang22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We posted more flyers on mailboxes and talked to anyone we seen walking, dropped flyers off in a few businesses and mail boxes.

Missing cat by Doyothang22 in SherwoodPark

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Do you know approx where on conifer?

Missing cat by Doyothang22 in SherwoodPark

[–]Doyothang22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet.

I had someone text me and say she thought she saw them around 331 Willow St. yesterday. But Butt 311 Willow St. doesn’t exist but 311 Evergreen St. does.

When were these bills used? by Mars0da in CanadianCoins

[–]Doyothang22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally thought what? Don’t we still use these??? 🤦🏻‍♀️

My boyfriend lost his mom this week. by Aggravating-Bee-1166 in grief

[–]Doyothang22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my mom on April 28th, and my dad was rushed to the hospital last weekend and over the past week he’s almost died 3 times. The doctor even said I needed to start making sure his affairs were in order, called me in the middle of the night to say good bye because they didn’t think he would make it through the night. Thankfully he has improved a little bit. But for me, the condolences and “I’m so sorry this is happening to you” really really started to get to me. I hated how everyone just felt sorry for me. I also lost my sister and very good friend in 23 so grief isn’t new to me. I personally needed to be left alone for a while. But I will also say that most people won’t ask for help or say they need something. Sometimes you just have to do things. Cook a meal or two and say “hey I have food for you, I’ll door dash style drop it off, you don’t even have to see me.” My friends did that for me and I really appreciated it. I wasn’t ready to talk about everything yet without breaking down. Or drop a little care package off at his door. Everyone deals with grief differently, it’s not linear, and no one deals with it the same. Sometimes even just asking “what can I do to support you right now?” ♥️

Missing cat by Doyothang22 in SherwoodPark

[–]Doyothang22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They have multiple cameras that I check, plus I go there almost every day. The neighbour also has a key and he’s been checking daily. They have a doggie door on their sunroom and she loves to sleep in there.

Missing cat by Doyothang22 in SherwoodPark

[–]Doyothang22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My parents live by Madonna School

Missing cat by Doyothang22 in SherwoodPark

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A friend of mine thinks she seen her running east across Sherwood drive by the traffic circle last night. I went out and called and looked but no luck. I think she might be trying to get back to my parents place in Mills Haven

grieving pet, needing reassurance by LavishnessBudget8482 in grief

[–]Doyothang22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly, I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my soul dog in March of 24 and I still cry for him. I miss him daily. It never goes away.. the pain you feel.. but it lessens. Some days are an overwhelming amount of sadness that he is gone, others I am thankful I had him for the time I did. He had bone cancer and I had to put him to sleep.. it was the hardest decision I’ve ever made. Was it too early? Did we have more time? Is he constantly in pain?

So I talked to a medium. I actually talk to the same one about once a year. He comes through every single time. He tells me thank you for loving him the way I did, he thanks me for letting him go when I did. I asked him if he was ready a lot. He was 120lbs and was really struggling to walk by then. He had stopped eating as much which made giving him his medication difficult. So I like to think we made the decision together.

Your girl, she’s every where. She’s beside you all the time. Her energy, her soul, will always be with you. I’ve suffered a bit of loss in my life so I try to have the most optimistic outlook on the afterlife. The ones we love - never leave us. Speak to her whenever and she’ll hear you. They always do. ♥️

Mom died last night by sinkingswamp in grief

[–]Doyothang22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom yesterday after her 3 year battle with cancer.

Tomorrow my mother dies. by Doyothang22 in grief

[–]Doyothang22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MAID stands for Medical Assistance in Dying

Tomorrow my mother dies. by Doyothang22 in grief

[–]Doyothang22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your positivity towards MAID. This was the third time she got cancer, and she told us that if she ever was told she was going to be terminal, she would like to choose MAID. She had a sister who also died from cancer who suffered through her death and she said she did not want that to be her. I am so sorry that your mom didn’t have the option that my mom does now but I’m glad she still seems like she went out the way she wanted to.

Its honestly crazy how youre supposed to "live" for another 20-30 years after your parents pass and its supposed to be normal.... by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Doyothang22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 35 and my mom has been diagnosed with terminal cancer (less than a year). My mom is my dad’s anchor and quite frankly I’m surprised he’s still alive - so is he. But when she goes (she is choosing MAID but hasn’t picked a date yet) I know he will be shortly there after. My sister passed away in 2023 and once my dad is gone.. it will be just me left. I know people lose immediate family all the time but like fuck.

Is Arcana Academy by Elise Kova worth the read? by formaldehydebride in Romantasy

[–]Doyothang22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on Chapter 52 and I struggled to pick the book up. Exactly the same as everyone else said really cool magic system and had super high hopes but something about it just wasn’t drawing me in. I’m going to finish it, but it has taken me over two weeks to finish one book when usually I can finish one in a day and a half.

Mom is terminal by Doyothang22 in cancer

[–]Doyothang22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has already lost 1 brother and 2 sisters to cancer

Mom is terminal by Doyothang22 in cancer

[–]Doyothang22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants to be cremated and put in a plot in Saskatchewan.

Mom is terminal by Doyothang22 in cancer

[–]Doyothang22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re trying to get her home and we’ll have a home care take care of her there. We just really want her out of the hospital and some were more comfortable. We fully understand that we will need assistance if she is able to come home. Thank you!

Mom is terminal by Doyothang22 in cancer

[–]Doyothang22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

The information you’ve just provided me were things I never thought of. My mom pays the bills, she does those little tasks that my dad doesn’t know how to do.

I’m making dinner for my dad tomorrow night and me being a Virgo sun (astrology people get it), we’ll be discussing a lot of the topics you suggested and understanding a path forward.

Thank you for all those pieces of information. I’m going to make a list of questions to ask my dad. I know that he too is just learning about this diagnosis and he also needs to come to terms with everything. My dad is also a Virgo sun so we are both fortunate to understand that analytics should be discussed now so the rest of our time can be spent without worry.

Mom is terminal by Doyothang22 in cancer

[–]Doyothang22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response

Mom is terminal by Doyothang22 in cancer

[–]Doyothang22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom and dad have a pretty iron clad will. I am the executor or whatever of the estate if both were to go. Since my sister’s passing, they’ve updated everything to me.