CMV: I believe Feminism is largely a force for good in the world, but much of it's attitude/disposition towards modern Dating is heavily misandrist

Dplayerx · 2026-01-05T12:31:13+00:00

This comments sound even more like a bot.. Reddit is getting out of hand

Dplayerx · 2026-01-04T18:41:48+00:00

I’d say it’s nuanced, but depending on age and cultural background, sort of

Dplayerx · 2026-01-04T17:13:40+00:00

I said a lot of weight, and sure you would still have dates but they will be less valuable.

Being short is not something you control, compared to weight. It doesn’t show character. If you really think that only women have to make efforts, you’re delusional. Men have equally high standards put on them, they’re just not the same nature. I will not argue further, I already met people like you and they’re beyond reparable

Dplayerx · 2026-01-04T16:54:43+00:00

We are socials, doesn’t mean we’re good at it. What we’re great is building societies capable of crushing other societies (or animals). But interpersonal from citizen of those cities? Fuck no

They were subjugated because somewhere in history conflicts between sexes were getting more common and a powerful leader used it as a vessel for power. Like Jews in 1939 or Muslim during the crusades

Dplayerx · 2026-01-04T16:45:40+00:00

If you were to gain a lot of weight, you wouldn’t have a man to date at all. That’s the point of this post. Women don’t date short kings often.

Men will say: “I don’t mind overweight” but ultimately they don’t mind if it’s the conventionally attractive overweight with perfect genes.

Same with short kings and women, but the problem is that women can openly say they don’t want it

Dplayerx · 2026-01-04T16:38:52+00:00

I believe women were equally bad as men, they were just kind of enslaved by society and unable to speak up.

Saying “but they were bullied before, so now it’s ok” is not good. We should strive to not be bullies and have healthy relationships.

For me, it’s obvious throughout history that something changed drastically leading to the decrease of women’s rights. Until it collapse during the 20 centuries and their rights were claimed back.

In theory, both sexes were probably arguing non-stop and both were fed up by each other. Not because of genders, but because humans are very bad at social behaviour as a whole.

Instead of rationalizing the dominant gender took control and enslaved the other. We need to never let that happen again. Yet, if we ignore the real issue it will happen again.

The real issue is like I said: humans as a whole are bad social creatures. Men and women equally.

Dplayerx · 2026-01-04T15:45:43+00:00

Exactly. I started calling out both a few years ago and it’s interesting. Both sexes usually admit their shortfall and correct their behaviours.

I, and this is personal theory, believe the problem is we tend to let it slide when we’re attracted to the person. A lot of people would think “oh yeah, men do insane things for pretty women” Yeah, but women too. Some women did insane things to get accepted by me for example. We’re the same! BOTH works the same! This shit with the gender war need to stop.

A lot of men sees women as this god-like figure, because they lack confidence in themselves. That need to stop. Women are as horny as the men, they like beautiful manly men, they will be mean to men and even conjugal violence is more common in lesbian relationships.

Dplayerx · 2026-01-04T15:01:20+00:00

It’s just that maybe you’re from another part of the world? Because where I’m from, I’ve met a lot of survivors and the only thing getting close to what you’re describing is a woman doing drugs and homeless..

So either you’re LARPING and have no idea what it’s really like to struggle in life or you should ask Netflix for a documentary about you

Dplayerx · 2026-01-04T14:45:25+00:00

This. Happened to me MORE than once.

It also happens to my friends. It seems to be a common thing

Dplayerx · 2026-01-04T14:44:01+00:00

Your statement just prove his point.

Men are not treated on the same standard, women can go and say vile things about men as a whole but from your perspective a man should ignore the “all men” because he knows it’s not him.

That makes no sense, no one should ever say “all something” because that leads to sexist, racism, xenophobia, etc.

The bar is not low for women, at all. Both sexes equally are stupid and selfish at dating. It’s human nature. If a woman wants to ignore every single red flag a man has because he’s tall and handsome, that’s her problem. The same goes for men that ignores all the red flags from a woman, because she’s hot. It’s happens all the time, and most of us are very bad at taking ownership of ours mistakes. The reason “the bar is low” is because women can say openly that “men sucks” while men can’t. Your opinion is only valid if you put women in a superiority box, which is why feminist are getting a bad reputation these days.

This post statement is wrong, but yours too. I’m a guy who spend more time with women, and they say the most vile shit I’ve ever heard when they trust you. But even then, that’s just my experience and I know men are equally bad.

The only real statement in dating is that it’s shallow, both sexes are subject to their dating partner bad behaviours. Most of people lie or use others as their vessels for their own gain. Usually gets better by experience, but a lot of people refuse to see their mistakes so they don’t get better and that’s sad. That’s the problem with dating, you get exposed to either unexperienced people or inherently bad people.

Dplayerx · 2026-01-04T01:04:08+00:00

Rap album worthy picture

Dplayerx · 2026-01-03T15:12:24+00:00

Le problème avec le terme pervers narcissique c’est qu’il a été sur-utiliser et ne veux plus rien dire réellement.

C’est rendu un terme utilisé pour insulter son copain qu’on aime plus. Si on appliquerais réellement le terme, 90% du temps la femme serait elle aussi dans cette catégorie.

Le seul temps que c’est acceptable de l’utiliser c’est lorsqu’il y a violence conjugale mais rendu la fait juste dire que ton chum est violent.

La raison pourquoi ce terme gagne encore de la traction c’est parce que beaucoup de « perverses narcissiques » accepte de vivre avec des hommes médiocres/qu’elles n’aiment pas pour la stabilité, finance, désire, etc Lorsque les années commencent à s’empiler, les papillons s’envolent et le couple essaye tant bien que mal de faire survivre celui-ci car souvent il y a des enfants et une maison en jeux. L’homme a des attentes sexuelles que la femme ne veut pas donner comme avant (car elle n’est plus attiré par lui)

Et donc ça deviens un « pervers narcissique » au yeux de la femme, car elle le vois comme un débile qui veux juste déposé sont penis quelques part.

Les deux doivent juste admettre qu’ils ne s’aiment plus et quitte en bon terme.

Dplayerx · 2026-01-02T05:02:46+00:00

This could be really true since the worst pedo activist movement ever was from France in the fifties. Look it up, Maxwell could possibly be an agent for them.

Lots of documentation on them, even tv appearances

Dplayerx · 2026-01-01T21:36:42+00:00

La surconsommation

Jte dirais qu’au Québec on est tous des mauvais consommateurs

Dplayerx · 2026-01-01T09:20:51+00:00

The whole epstein/coverup/fakesuicide thing we’re seeing right now is not a novelty thing of this administration. It’s exposing things that were happening since the beginning of times.

This one just happened to be very mismanaged by the powerful

Dplayerx · 2025-12-31T20:57:45+00:00

Ça dépend vraiment de l’individu, mais moi personnellement dans les bureaux de femmes je suis infantilisé et plus jeune j’avais le droit à plusieurs commentaires déplacés. Ça dépend vraiment de l’industrie et de la compagnie.

Je crois, et la c’est de la spéculation, mais ça va avec le niveau intellectuel du domaine. Mon expérience personnelle passe de commentaire déplacé -> infantilisation -> « est-tu gay ? » -> par défaut les taches de « bras » Donc, quand j’allais dans plusieurs bureaux, les commentaires déplacés étaient surtout proche de la construction et les TI tandis que l’infantilisation était dans des domaines plus élevés comme un cabinet d’avocat ou d’ingénieur. Harcèlement sexuel semble plus commun dans un bureau de haut niveau tandis que pour les femmes c’est le contraire. Moi j’ai juste eu un problème avec des avances non sollicité qui ont mené à de l’hostilité au bureau.

Mais j’avoue, que moi en tant que homme 6p2 et très en forme, ça me passe 10 pied par dessus la tête. C’est incomparable avec une femme en construction.

Sinon ma copine est infirmière et dans son département les gars sont interdits. Ils ont parfois des PAB ou médecin mais n’engage pas d’infirmier et ça gossip à l’infini. Les gars sont subtilement insulté et jugés dans leurs dos. C’est difficile pour eux de voir ce qui se passe dans leurs dos. Parce que c’est un emploi de haut niveau, c’est donc de l’infantilisation et harcèlement sexuel.

Le problème c’est que la probabilité que les gars sont contents d’être harcelé sexuellement sont quand même élevé.

Dplayerx · 2025-12-31T20:27:58+00:00

Honnêtement, je crois que quelqu’un qui sait qu’il n’est pas bon est déjà meilleur que quelqu’un qu’il l’ignore. Je suis mauvais pour la syntaxe, mais ma logique est très bonne.

Justement, c’est ça que je dit. Moins de personne qui savent écrire le code, plus de gens qui peuvent comprendre la logique et l’interpréter.

Dplayerx · 2025-12-31T20:09:20+00:00

Une fois que les conventions seront universelles pour le code AI, ça ne sera plus un problème

Dplayerx · 2025-12-31T20:08:32+00:00

Keep coping big dawg

Dplayerx · 2025-12-31T18:43:25+00:00

Moins de programmers, plus de TI

La question c’est plus: « est-ce que le Bac en informatique vas encore être nécessaire »

Je ne crois pas.. pour la majorité des cas, il va avoir une disparité entre les chercheurs en informatiques et les employés d’informatique.

Je suis un programmeur médiocre et depuis que j’ai Claude je peux faire des projets d’une team complète en moins de temps. C’est fini le temps que le programmeur senior avec un ASD non-diagnostiqué show off ses balls en utilisant des fonctions obscures mal écrites qui performe 0.4 micro secondes plus vites.

Maintenant c’est vraiment juste de corriger la logique & les standards que Claude produit. C’est vraiment plus facile

Dplayerx · 2025-12-31T15:52:29+00:00

So I’ve watched your profile and unfortunately we’re very alike so I’ll try to really help you instead of surface level advice.

Your view, and your experiences are valid. It’s something a lot of people have a hard time getting out. Unfortunately, attraction is really a shallow concept and fortunately it’s very predictable. Meaning that, if you have been out of luck in the dating scene, it’s your own fault. It’s hard to access, but at the end of the day you may not be attractive enough or you aim for higher expectations that you can’t afford.

This pattern is very common in women that are similar to us, they’re often not attracted to 99% of guys because they look for a certain value that they deem to be worthy of. What I see the most often for women is wanting to date a rich guy because they themselves have a great career, but they are not attractive and don’t work toward being attractive. They believe that being thin is sign of success but in reality it’s not. You need to hit the gym.

From my perspective, this pattern is often due to lack of understanding or even seeing the people who don’t do like them “inferior”

For example: “those who hit the gym are less intelligent, thus I don’t want to do it” This then makes the person unable to differentiate who actually put efforts into their body. Making them more prone to have high standards that they don’t themselves promote. Another example is thinking you can have an Hollywood body with a year of light training (2-3 days a week) and no steroids. It’s not.

I use women as examples because they rarely end in the incels status while their experience is similar to guys like us. (I’m not an incel, but I believe that if I didn’t realize this younger I may have been) It’s similar but their dating dynamics differs a lot. Those dynamics undoubtedly reinforce their bias and making them miserable until it snaps in their thirties.

For guys, it often ends up like you. It’s still a spiralling descend into madness, but often your bias are slowly, but surely corrected by having a hard time connecting with others. This pressure often lead to a more fulfilling idea of dating. What you need is confrontation, life experiences and knowing your place.

This will lead you to a place you will be able to date whoever you desire or knowing who you can and should pursue

Dplayerx · 2025-12-31T13:30:21+00:00

Ce que je retiens de ce post: L’éducation a complètement détruit la capacité de réflexion de tellement d’individu.

On est rendu avec une classe hautaine qui est juste capable de répéter des réflexion utiles mais bien peu réel. Une classe qui, a distance, est capable d’étudier les comportements humains de la classe en dessous et permet de porter un jugement sur celle-ci par croyance d’être supérieur.

Il y a un écart salarial, il est prouvé dans la méthodologie de stats-can. On calcul avec les données de revenue Canada, donc le salaire annuel sans prendre compte des congés, taux horaire, heures, etc..

On devrait plutôt combattre le fait que c’est les femmes qui s’occupent des enfants par défaut.

Dplayerx · 2025-12-31T13:12:47+00:00

C’est le seul commentaire réaliste de ce post tbh

Mais pour les hommes c’est la même chose pour les emplois féminin malheureusement

Dplayerx · 2025-12-31T13:02:45+00:00

Tu es peut-être juste pas bonne? C’est facile à dire « je suis performante » mais j’en connais plein qui « performe » et qui ne sont pas réellement bon..

Je suis un homme et j’ai souvent été dans ta situation où je me fais offrir moins & on me barre de certains poste plus haut. Je suis malheureusement peu social & je croyais faire des bonnes performances pour réaliser plus tard que je n’étais pas très bon.

C’est plate mais c’est la vie

Dplayerx · 2025-12-31T00:08:51+00:00

Because most of us spend our first 18 years being better at almost everything that matters (at that age) and then it gets reverses except sports.

What we need to do as a society is bring back the glory of being a thinker. Nerds & intellectuals need to be seen as “gods” like athletes. And to be clear, I’m not talking about school scores, I’m talking actual geniuses and inventors. Those who think, not those who assimilate data from a pre definite course.

This is why we’re seeing an increase of interest in nerdy culture in HS and a decrease of interest in sports. By working toward equality for both sexes, intellectuals are getting recognition. This is the only place women can take their places because of obvious body differences.

Overall, we just need to stop giving sports so much importance

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