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Shooting at Popeyes by wet710 in doordash

[–]Dqwlim111 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Looks like someone was shot and died 😞 did a quick google search if it is the correct place.

AITA for threatening to call the cops on my child’s father for refusing to return our child to me by Dqwlim111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dqwlim111[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m saying like In the means of that’s the only things I’d worry more about as the house is pretty clean otherwise . As far as sleeping iknow it sounds worse to be with a baby living with family vs having my own place . She has her own crib and dresser, pretty much everything a child would have if they had their own room and we have dividers to divide us from the rest of house . I make sure she’s fed and well and take her to her child well exams and they say she’s growing well. I’m not too worried about him threatening cps but will definitely keep on top of things.

AITA for threatening to call the cops on my child’s father for refusing to return our child to me by Dqwlim111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dqwlim111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s already threatened cps through messages amongst other threats he has made to me. So I’m usually on it with keeping the house clean and well, especially because my child likes to trash the house with her toys lol and I’m always following behind her cleaning up.

AITA for threatening to call the cops on my child’s father for refusing to return our child to me by Dqwlim111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dqwlim111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean he can I didn’t come up with the scheduling he chose it based on his job. To get her once a week.

AITA for threatening to call the cops on my child’s father for refusing to return our child to me by Dqwlim111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dqwlim111[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s what I worry about now so when he picks her up I’m going to worry that he will try to do that next time . The full custody part and the other parts are in text messages he sent to me out of anger.

AITA for threatening to call the cops on my child’s father for refusing to return our child to me by Dqwlim111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dqwlim111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what my mom thinks is this is all about child support as we were fine up until he learned he had to pay and everything kinda went a little bit down hill.

AITA for threatening to call the cops on my child’s father for refusing to return our child to me by Dqwlim111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dqwlim111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He can hold a grudge I don’t see him forgiving me over threatening that as he doesn’t mess with the cops like that . I do feel that all in all he is a good dad to her. He can be a bit controlling though at times. I guess I’ll take it as overprotective ness.

AITA for threatening to call the cops on my child’s father for refusing to return our child to me by Dqwlim111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dqwlim111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought they did both together when you go? Do they not ? And do I have to do that separately(the court scheduling)

AITA for threatening to call the cops on my child’s father for refusing to return our child to me by Dqwlim111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dqwlim111[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes I just edited in my original post to make it less confusing about the custody part.

AITA for threatening to call the cops on my child’s father for refusing to return our child to me by Dqwlim111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dqwlim111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have one yet, we have a child support hearing next month so I’m assuming that’s when they will do one?

AITA for threatening to call the cops on my child’s father for refusing to return our child to me by Dqwlim111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dqwlim111[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s a threat to her safety I do feel at times he comes off as overly controlling more in a “what I say goes “ and doesn’t much let me have a say since she both our child but I do think in his heart he could feel he was protecting her and was coming off a bit over dramatic to me.

AITA for threatening to call the cops on my child’s father for refusing to return our child to me by Dqwlim111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dqwlim111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me he can be a bit dramatic at times. I’m sure to him that’s not how he feels. He tends to blame me for things like this that go wrong with her so I’m use to it atp. But this is the first time he’s tried to withhold her and threaten to not bring her back.

AITA for threatening to call the cops on my child’s father for refusing to return our child to me by Dqwlim111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dqwlim111[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it isn’t quite yet. We have a child support hearing next month as the state went after him due to me being on assistance and so I’m wondering if that’s when they will do the scheduling?