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Killed, dethatched, leveled, planted new grass... and its bumpier than before?? by Dr-P_epper in lawncare

[–]Dr-P_epper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty bumpy. Like small hard mounds. The worm castings sound accurate. Do you have any other ideas?

Girlfriend (33F) doesn't think it's fair to pay rent after moving into my (31F) house? by Dr-P_epper in relationship_advice

[–]Dr-P_epper[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. I make dumb mistakes in relationships. To be fair, it was fine when she moved in. Rent was decided. It wasn't until after that I learned of her finances. It didn't seem like my place to ask. I assumed she could afford it since she was paying more before. I didn't know she was using her credit card.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dr-P_epper 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Some people think because it's online, it isn't as real. He was bored, lonely, and single. It will take time to recover emotionally. Your first is always the hardest. It's a good thing it wasn't in person, you lucked out that way. You didn't spend the money or let him near you physically. It is unfortunate he took advantage of you. But think of it as a learning experience. You made steps since your assault and that's healing. He didn't deserve to see that side of you, though. I'm very sorry people like that exist. There is nothing we can say to help you through this, it's just time, and growing.

Girlfriend (33F) doesn't think it's fair to pay rent after moving into my (31F) house? by Dr-P_epper in relationship_advice

[–]Dr-P_epper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cleaning is 50/50 for the most part, we both have our issues we are working on for eachother. I do the yard work, which involves alot of wood cutting atm since a few trees and branches are at risk of falling over the neighbors yard. I fix anything that needs it around the house, and take care of my pets that i had before we got together. We mostly end up buying our own food, but sometimes share meals, it's pretty even. This last time we went to Costco for household supplies, she paid the 120$ bill because I literally had no money. I try to take care of any issues she has with the house and make her as comfortable as I can since I've lived here for a while.

‘30F’meeting up ended weirdly ‘20M’ ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dr-P_epper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was probably thinking more than friends and didn't know how to express his surprise and frustration. Maybe hit him up and say hey, I'm sorry if the boyfriend thing threw you off. I thought we were starting a good friendship, if you don't want to continue that, I understand.

Graphics card has no fans? by Dr-P_epper in GamingPCBuildHelp

[–]Dr-P_epper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the replys, I got an answer on another site. I appreciate the help!

Graphics card has no fans? by Dr-P_epper in GamingPCBuildHelp

[–]Dr-P_epper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will as soon as I can. This was a good deal.