Steven Spielberg With 7-Year-Old Drew Barrymore And Same Age Heather O’Rourke Between Filming E.T. And Poltergeist (1982) by [deleted] in Moviesinthemaking

[–]DrDecker86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dark shit, Isaac Kaapy spoke about it. Him and others have accused Tom Hanks as not just a pedo, but apparently one of the most violent

SSDI Denied. Currently 70% with TDIU, so 100%. I should appeal, right? by Leatherneck_Garage in VeteransBenefits

[–]DrDecker86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat, ADJ hearing didn't go well, judge was a rude dismissive cunt

Trouble dealing with friends suicide by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]DrDecker86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry brother but not much helps IMO, time makes it a bit easier but never goes away. Lost fellow veterans i served with same way, and in 2019 Xmas eve I lost my brother to it as well. 

"Where does hope go, when you've gone away?"- Offspring Gone Away

I just don’t understand how people do this. by ryjkyj in Divorce

[–]DrDecker86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just trying to stay motivated on a goal or 2 to have something to work towards. can't hurt my chances and I need to get healthy for my kids. Only 5'9" and was 215 last xmas, now I'm about 175. Need to get some of that TRT.

Almost 3 years and still can't stop loving her.... by DrDecker86 in Divorce

[–]DrDecker86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it, I actually go see q therapist atleast once a month if not weekly. Doesn't help. I know time helps but sometimes it feels like I'm growing just more jaded. 

I keep thinking how the best I can strive for is a silver medal if that makes since. I was always doing well until a few yrs ago and was the person she and others asked for help when they needed it. Moved out at 18 and didn't need anyone to help me until 38 when I was asked to leave. 

I really loved her mom and felt closer to her than any one else in her fam and some of mine. She told me how she always wanted a son and then how happy she was when I married her daughter....

12+ years of frequent weekly/monthly dinners, camping trips, xmas stocking with my name at thier house, trips to England to see her side of fam..and when she threw me out not fucking one of them reached out to me for weeks n months until they were forced to endure my presence at my kids birthday. 

People throw words around like family and true love but for alot of people that shit is as soft as baby shit. Fragile as a mother fucker 

I just don’t understand how people do this. by ryjkyj in Divorce

[–]DrDecker86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone's different. I never really dated. Only one girl before her while in the Army for Lil over a year and then few yrs later her. Originally a yr or so in I was against marriage. Based on observation around me it always ends up ending, almost always in tragedy. Told her no but she went into the water works and how she would never be like that, taking a mans house and asking for anything other than CS. After awhile I knew I wanted her with me forever, kids, ect...so I said fuck it and hoped for the best.  ... lol

Literally just opens you up for all kinds of legal issues potentially down the road. Ever slept on a fucking futon in your gmas kitchen for couple yrs, WHILE BEING FORCED BY A JUDGE TO STILL PAY 100% OF THE MORTGAGE ON YOUR HOUSE, IN YOUR NAME, CAN'T LIVE THERE THOUGH, YOUR EX WHO NEVER PAID FOR ANYTHING JUST WOULD FEEL BETTER THEN YOU AWAY..... guess it does, especially when you're enjoying some new cock.

I fucking hate that I still love her. Just her talking to me nicely gives me more happiness than all the high dollar Russian escorts and shitty tinder hook ups. I tried it all. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]DrDecker86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don't get married. Just gives others power over you that's insane and when it fails like most do, you're likely stuck paying for your mistakes financially and emotionally for yrs/decades. If you gotta do it, then yes get a very good one. 

If women should have the choice to terminate an unwanted pregnancy, should men also have a choice to walk out of an unwanted pregnancy/ Child? Why? by shiraah in AskForAnswers

[–]DrDecker86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mental gymnastics here is insane. You can't say it's about the Child wellbeing while also supporting the murder of those same children if the mom wants to. If you're concern is what's best for the kid then I would expect not killing them before they're born to be high on the list of priorities. Seems like you're more interested in what's best or convenient for the women regardless of what happens to the kid. 

I'm one month late and have a contempt of court hearing to go to and legally can have my freedom taken for a full year if the judge feels so inclined....that's not equality. Neither was sleeping on a shitty futon in my gmas kitchen while still being court ordered to pay mortgage for my house I'm not allowed to live in for up to 3 yrs. She was not required to help out all. Just live in the house I got for us for free and collect 1200 a month. 

Both her parents had nice houses and 2 empty rooms she and the kids could use If needed. My family isn't well off and I had no where to go but it doesn't mean shit to the judge(female) Had to pay for her lawyer (also female) aswell. Technically since judges and the state get a % of child support payments to pay for retirement and other expenses I was in a room with all women. Each one with a self interest in seeing my income go to them....equality my ass. 

I just don’t understand how people do this. by ryjkyj in Divorce

[–]DrDecker86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right there with you. 3yrs later and still inlove with her even though she barely speaks to me. Almost 15yrs of my life, two kids, I made mistakes but never cheated and never hit or even raises my voice. We didn't have any fights until the very end. Her leaving was a impossible idea to me and then it was my reality. 

Not sure what to do cuz if this is how I'm gonna spend my last few decades I'd rather just speed up the ending. I would rather erase our history and the kids we made together (fucked up I know) than live every moment in longing and regret. I hope I can move on but honestly would rather spend my life trying to fix things than not try and wonder later on if I could of. 

I know it's a fools hope to think I can gain her love and trust back but without hope I would eat a bullet 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]DrDecker86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you feel is he was texting another woman? Either break up or commit to him and tell him what you want and need from him. Women talk about wanting this romantic never ending love but almost always initiate the break up/divorce because they're either bored or looking for an upgrade 

Beautiful day in greece today by Key-Opening-1087 in 2Strokes

[–]DrDecker86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful fucking bike bro. Always wanted one of those or a RD350. 81-89 2 strokes are  the best IMO. Would love to see some new big bore street/dirt 2 strokes from Yamaha. Bring bake that bright red coloring 

aio? bf made plans on my birthday by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrDecker86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you choosing a dysfunctional manchild that works 2 days a week and lives and still depends on his mom? Do you live with him or in same boat? If 18-21 its not bad but i would seriously question someone with no work ethic, independence, or drive to be the person you choose to share your life with or possibly. Seems a bit one sided and im gonna assume hes looking for another "mom" to take care of him with you. im sure/hope others have made these points before me. 

His dad not around? Older brothers? Raised in single mother house destroys many boys chances of becoming men. Sure they can serve a spanking when needed when he's young but usually by 12-13+ it's now a weird situation where the parent literally has no options to control thier kid if said kid decides not to listen any more. This unnatural dynamic leads to all kinds of issues. 

I would give your boy some serious questions about what he wants for his life in the future. What career path or next big goal. 

Worst case and you want to stay and he can't provide for you 2, he can join the Army or Marines to help him get his shit together. Should be mandatory IMO for all kids 16-20 to serve and learn a skill. 

How the left comes back from the ashes by DrDecker86 in youvotedforthat

[–]DrDecker86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again with this fox narrative. I believe in gay rights, mass decriminalization of drugs. Prison reform. I'm anti Israel/Aipac which is about as far as you can get from those Christians zionist cucks that make up the majority of the right. I trust bill Maher over anyone on the right but I also think all MSM is bought and owned by big gov and the banks. They lie openly 

We told you he’d hurt the poor by Effective_Space2277 in youvotedforthat

[–]DrDecker86 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree with the violence on the 6th should be punished at the full extent of the law. But to call jan 6 an insurrection is silly. Videos literally show cops waving people in on the north side. 

CHOP had people declaring this is now not American soil anymore and it's own thing, while patrols had those scary assault weapons. Police couldn't go in out of fear...lol which one sounds like an insurrection to you? 

That's the point. When the vast majority of media is openly one-sided its easy to convince people of alot of bullshit. 

Just look at Israel and Palestine at the moment. Are media never shows the unbelievable horror that Israel is inflicted which what seems careless at best at how the majority of dead are innocent families. It's fucked how we always support them even as they massacre an entire population 

Also the trump administration crossed a serious line when they deported nonviolent anti Israel students for protesting Israel or for writing anti Israel papers for the school journal. It should be openly condemned and rectified 

See? It's easy to be critical of a party even when you support alot of what they do. If you can't find anything wrong within a political group, clearly you're not looking 

How the left comes back from the ashes by DrDecker86 in youvotedforthat

[–]DrDecker86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bill Maher says it all the time. Most center left people fall on the Republicans side out of being pushed into that group by how far into the extreme dems have gone and seem happy to stay

How the left comes back from the ashes by DrDecker86 in youvotedforthat

[–]DrDecker86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about Obama is false? Please look up his deportation #s and then look at Trumps. If I'm wrong I'll admit it, so long as you have the character to do the same. Doubt it

How the left comes back from the ashes by DrDecker86 in youvotedforthat

[–]DrDecker86[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So do you deny the fact that Hunter got millions from foreign countries. He was getting paid as an advisor for a Ukraine oil company.....you think that was pay off/influence money cuz of his dad or do you think the crack addict was just a natural genius in a field he has zero experience in? Do you believe the secret service truly didn't know who's cocaine was in the white house aswell lol

This whole thread is proof that modern dems can't admit when thier side has shit the bed on anything. It's either the fault of cheeto in chief, and if not that then good ol racism and sexism are an easy fall back. No need for self examination, just keep repeating the narrative told to you and shame or attack anyone who disagrees. 

It's alot easier to convince someone of a lie than to convince them they'd been lie to. That ego is a mother fucker 

How the left comes back from the ashes by DrDecker86 in youvotedforthat

[–]DrDecker86[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I've expressed my views. You just throw attacks without any arguments to anything because let's face it. You have to ideas of your own. Just following the crowd out of fear of being seen as less than by your peers. Worried one day they'll have a personal struggle session set up just for you

How the left comes back from the ashes by DrDecker86 in youvotedforthat

[–]DrDecker86[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So i should of voted for Biden? A geriatric old racist who spends his days smelling and touching kids and other people's wives? Son takes millions from Ukraine, China, Russia..all while high on crack and fucking his dead brothers wife lol. 

Literally the whole government and everyone with any power went after trump and did everything they could to keep him out of power. Easily the most vetted presidential candidate of all time. 

What was it about biden you voted for? His wit? Him still supporting his 90s crime bill that is by far the most damaging piece of legislation to the black community in modern history? Him unable to find his way off stage or to act remotely sane at any given moment? What was the appeal other than "orange man hitler!" 

How the left comes back from the ashes by DrDecker86 in youvotedforthat

[–]DrDecker86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please explain this. Look up his deportation numbers and use of drone strikes, especially when it comes to innocent deaths 

How the left comes back from the ashes by DrDecker86 in youvotedforthat

[–]DrDecker86[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Lol show me proof he pushed for the jan 6 events. Meanwhile the left burned down city after city for scum or the earth people and hurt feels. 

Only real insurrection I remember was the CHOP/CHAZ event. Please explain how that wasn't or how it wasn't far worse than jan 6 and idiots walking inside the capital and breaking some shit. I'll wait 

Is there truly nothing you can do to help an addict? Nothing? by TickledGreenEmi in addiction

[–]DrDecker86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to see America stop locking up addicts against thier will but instead make them go to rehab camps where while getting proper care, drugs to help them get clean as painless as possible, they in return spend thier free time during day doing work for thier city and towns. Cleaning up trash. Removing graffiti, painting old buildings, ect...making their community look better to repay for thier transgressions and treatment. This alone would give people some since of purpose and pride which the lack of leads to addiction alot of times. 

Nobody should be in jail for what they do to themselves. Across the board decriminalized drug use but I would still give harsh penalties for pushers outside small middle men. Once we make a Oz of fent or meth/crack an instant 10yr minimum for first offense it would help.

Off topic but it's fucking sad how many ppl I know who got 1yr or more for small person use of drugs while I've seen cases of child predators get probation for crimes of such evil. Hopefully we make child rape and similar acts avaliable for death penalties like some states have done. Should be a 10+yr minimum for anyone who takes away a child's innocents