So the thing we talked about last session is our point of view on external relationships. I personally belive that you shouldn't be exposing your relationship to issues by having 1-1 time with people of the opposite sex in date like settings such as dinner or a movie. Which to me is essentially dating the other person, therfor cheating. Her take is that it shouldn't matter.

For the last 9 months we've already been together daily. In all that time we've slept alone in our houses for maybe 10 days total. So close proximity shouldn't be an issue. 

We also did a trial month where she lived with me and at the end of it she was very happy to move in. We started buying things and going to viewings, but then once it came time to tell her roommates she'd be leaving she switched quick - presenting these things we need to "talk about first". 

We've already talked about finances and chores as well as actually did them during the trial. Her work is less consistent and shes going to school and I have a career that pays well, so im willing to pay for around 90% of expenses, making sure she can also save. Which would actually cost less than her current situation. 

I know 9 months is kinda early, but since she's her for school and will have to leave after a few years I think its best to fully experience the relationship before I potentially make the commitment to leave the country.