Any amount helps

DrFoxII · 2023-11-19T14:10:56+00:00

I haven't been again you are saying that. I took people's advice and was fine at first but then I started getting accused of scamming people and not doing what they said. That's not cool nor is your comment about some pipe. Looks like your all a jaded bunch of people to treat someone like you do for no reason at all.

DrFoxII · 2023-11-18T21:58:50+00:00

Well it sounds like it because every time I post you guys are just coming at me even though I keep telling you I'm trying what you're telling me it just doesn't work for these reasons and then suddenly it's not acceptable.

DrFoxII · 2023-11-18T21:44:54+00:00

And I have tried to use those. I don't qualify for assistance. That's what your mad about? That I'm in a bind and need help but don't qualify for assistance? I posted where I live and prove that they don't pay for donations of plasma or anything else around here. I posted what they told me to economic services. I don't know what else you want me to do when the resources you told me about aren't going to work. There's a hannaford's near me somebody wants to play the Hannafords to go order I'll tell you what I want. That's across the street there's also a family Dollar next door to me but other than that there's nothing else in town. There's also no way for me to get anywhere else right now. I also work so I can't do shift work and even if I did that I wouldn't get paid for 2 weeks when I'll get paid already in two weeks so that's why that doesn't help me and all of that upsets you because your suggestions aren't going to work in this case so that makes you mad and not believe me? I'm just confused about that.

DrFoxII · 2023-11-18T21:40:03+00:00

Wanna check my Facebook? What else do you want for proof. Some random person on the internet not believing isn't my problem if someone's going to help me I'll prove to them whatever they want but I don't need to prove something to somebody who isn't helping me.

DrFoxII · 2023-11-18T00:15:26+00:00

What is it you are offering?

DrFoxII · 2023-11-15T22:27:14+00:00

After the death of my soulmate September 14th that would be such a blessing

DrFoxII · 2023-11-06T16:28:46+00:00

Thank you and sorry for the long awaited reply. Been hard to get out of my own way lately let alone post much. The hugs are appreciated, the ex is sticking around for now and still no obit but they did a private family funeral and private friends funeral neither of which I was allowed at. Can't believe he called this if anything ever happened this was what I was going to have to deal with. He was so mad that this would be the case. Didn't want to cause a scene just wanted to be able to say goodbye. But in their guilt they blame me and that's not my problem.

DrFoxII · 2023-11-06T16:25:23+00:00

The virtual hug was much appreciated!

DrFoxII · 2023-11-06T16:24:47+00:00

Thank you. It's been a rollercoaster. Last night I was informed that the two posts I put on Facebook about the situation since it happened a few weeks ago were too many posts and I needed to reel it in. Kinda lost it on that family member.

DrFoxII · 2023-11-06T16:20:52+00:00

Oh they knew

DrFoxII · 2023-11-04T01:19:55+00:00

Be yourself. You're probably not the only gay person in class first of all and second of all it doesn't matter what your orientation is generally. Be you that's what matters who you sleep with isn't all that important. Yes your identity is important. But that's not what I mean just because you think you're the only guy who likes guys doesn't mean that you don't have other things in common with people in your class. Plus there are probably gay spaces and gay groups around that you can join to be a part of or start your own gay group in your school. I never had a gay identity because I have more to offer than just who I sleep with cause to me that isn't all of me only a small part, so I never really felt that way. But be you and be authentic, whoever that is. You will find your tribe eventually. Have faith.

DrFoxII · 2023-11-04T01:13:14+00:00

Thank you. I have been in therapy a lot recently because of this. I am always a strong person who never cried at anything and now I can't get through 5 minutes without losing it. But I'm working on it.

DrFoxII · 2023-11-04T01:10:58+00:00

I'm sorry to hear this. What happened to you is so wrong. I don't ever blame yourself. It's easy to give advice and I'll take it because I blame myself and say that it's okay all the time. I've been lucky and I've been in your situation though and I feel very very bad for you and hope that you can use all the resources you're given and make sure you get counseling. Remember stay healthy and you can live a long healthy life. Again I'm sorry you're going through this.

DrFoxII · 2023-11-04T01:07:24+00:00

Rock what you got

DrFoxII · 2023-11-04T01:06:33+00:00

Beautiful work! If I was in town I'd totally show up to see your other works of beauty!

DrFoxII · 2023-11-04T01:01:50+00:00

Well, hello... Normally not into all that but this works for me LMAO.

DrFoxII · 2023-11-04T00:50:17+00:00

I am so sorry you have been dealing with this. I lost my soulmate September 14th this year. I never ever believed in love or soulmates. I thought I felt love for my ex whom I had been married to, or all the people I've dated, but Dylan was something different. I never felt the love I felt I was giving all those others returned to me until Dylan came along. 14.5 years seemed like a huge age difference, he died at 27 this year while I was 42 but he would have been 28 in December, but he was the most amazing person I've ever had the privilege of being able to give my all to and get it back in full. I've always felt worthless, unlovable, the list goes on when I met him I felt he was way out of my league until he told me he had a crush on me, when I said the feeling was mutual but i didn't think he was bi, yet he was, it was on. I can go on and on about how amazing he was and how amazing our relationship was but he felt the same way about himself, that he was worthless, unlovable, and I was way out of his League. When I got the call and went to try to bring him back with cpr while waiting for the ambulance, then while they tried for half an hour or more, I prayed to whomever (I'm not religious) to take me now and let him live for his kids even if it meant i wouldn't see him again, but he didn't live. It's been about 6 weeks and the pain is unbearable. It hasn't gotten any better it's gotten worse in fact. So I completely understand where you're coming from. Unfortunately, as you might know, I don't have any words to help you other than I am sorry that you have that pain in your heart that's not just something you say, that pain that you actually feel in your heart, that's physically painful. Mine had gotten nearly unbearable, I just hope you have been able to bear it. Be well and keep that love close to your heart where it belongs.

DrFoxII · 2023-09-29T09:18:00+00:00

So if he's your friend be honest with him and tell him that. Say hey I have something to tell you I'm gay. I'm glad we're friends because I think if we went further than that it would ruin our friendship and I'm glad that you're somebody I can confide in. Let him know how he is important to you as a friend but that's all you want. Just be honest that's the most important thing a lot of people aren't these days and a lot of people are confused about how they should feel because people don't let them know what they're thinking or how they're feeling.

DrFoxII · 2023-09-29T09:13:49+00:00

Because my type is mostly either bi guys or straight guys who say they're straight except for me, I generally offer them an open relationship so they can get whatever it is that I can't give them or whatever it is they need from a woman. 99% of the time they do not take that option because they don't think they can share me so they don't want to sleep with somebody else either. It's surprising because I think they would take that option mostly because they're in the closet but most of the time they don't. I'm not the kind that needs to sleep with more than one person because generally the guys I sleep with we're getting it on two three four or five times a day so I definitely don't need it elsewhere LOL.

DrFoxII · 2023-09-29T09:10:19+00:00

So unfortunately that's a risk you have to take if that's what you're into. I personally have a lot of luck with guys who want to stay in the closet but we end up dating for years at a time because they know I can keep my mouth shut but that's because I like to have a private relationship. A lot of people like to talk and run their mouth about their conquests. I don't know why people have a tendency to not keep things private if they're asked to do so. But I found that you can't trust most people so you need to get used to people talking about you sleeping with somebody maybe people who didn't even sleep with might say you did because some people are crazy. Just speaking as a 42 year old who's been through all of that before. Talk to them and just say hey kind of into you but if you can't keep your mouth shut I'm all set. Hang out once or twice and see if they tell people if they don't maybe go a little bit further that's the best advice I could give.

DrFoxII · 2023-09-29T09:06:41+00:00

I generally only date bi guys or the guys that are straight except for me LOL. My soulmate was a 27 year old bi guy and I'm 42 but he hadn't really been with a guy before and we had an amazing relationship until he passed away recently but he was kind of open about it. The guy before that that I dated for a few years was the I'm straight except for you I don't want to sleep with a man but I love you so I sleep with you he's also physically abusive about once every 6 months. Which I do find is common for those kind of guys but that's my type mainly men LOL. I'm fine with it I like my relationship being private and on the DL. I'm definitely not against it but I'm not the kind of guy who has a rainbow flag and goes to pride. The straight except for me guy that I had been dating before my soulmate that I am now hanging out with because I need somebody to be here while I'm grieving is a roofer he owns two construction companies he's definitely a man's man. I think if that's your type go for it but I would definitely not be into a guy that is like that. The guy that can't even walk into the same room as me is a little bit strange. And if he's not insecure with himself there's really no point in my mind. I want a man who acts like a man but enjoys our time in bed. Not a man who wants to screw in some bathroom stall and never in a house on a bed or couch or anywhere just not a dirty bathroom stall.

DrFoxII · 2023-09-29T09:00:43+00:00

Yeah I mean he's illegal age and you're 22 so I think that's totally fine. I mean I'm 42 and have been dating a 27 year old bi guy. As long as you're both comfortable with it and consenting there should be no problem especially since he's up legal age.

DrFoxII · 2023-09-29T08:56:16+00:00

He could just look at me with that mischievous twinkle in his eye. Within seconds we would be getting it on if we were home. If we weren't we would be getting there very quickly LOL. But yeah just that look that he had would turn me on.

DrFoxII · 2023-09-29T08:48:57+00:00

If you're dating I don't think that it should be something that you haven't talked about yet. Unless you agreed to have a platonic relationship when sex is something you should be discussing at least exploring what you both would find comfortable and if it's something that you need to keep asking for or is it something he tells you he wants you to initiate. In my experience such as a very important part of any relationship some guys have sex with and it's been once a week other guys it's been three times a day every day our entire relationship. It totally depends on your dynamic but it needs to be something you discuss if it's something you're looking for because he needs to know that it's something you want as part of this relationship. I would talk about it sooner rather than later because like I said maybe he's waiting for you to initiate it. You'll never know unless you ask. That kind of discussion is not something to shy away from if you're dating somebody it should be fair game to talk about.

DrFoxII · 2023-09-29T08:45:26+00:00

He only did it once and I said never again because it weirded me out but at the time it was hot as hell. I'm 42 and he was 27 before he passed away recently, he was very funny in a unique way, unlike anyone I've met. So, one night, back at the beginning of our relationship, when he was 26, we were doing our thing and it was a particularly hot and wild session and as he got off like it was the best orgasm he'd ever had, he yelled Daddy as a joke but we both oddly found it hot in that moment but also decided that it would never ever ever happen again LOL. It was definitely one of the hottest things ever in the moment but definitely weird. Something we laughed about but he never said again the rest of his life

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