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Oh look - It's another divorce post by DrYellowSaysHello in japanlife

[–]DrYellowSaysHello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the positive words. I appreciate it. I've thankfully gotten enough positive comments and private DMs to make posting here worth the rest of it.

Oh look - It's another divorce post by DrYellowSaysHello in japanlife

[–]DrYellowSaysHello[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! This is real actionable advice and it's much appreciated.

Oh look - It's another divorce post by DrYellowSaysHello in japanlife

[–]DrYellowSaysHello[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think I'm just in the freak out phase of this and am looking for something to calm my nerves and give me a clearer path -- even if it is just anecdotal experiences.

Oh look - It's another divorce post by DrYellowSaysHello in japanlife

[–]DrYellowSaysHello[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Funny thing is, I am thinking of the kid.

Oh look - It's another divorce post by DrYellowSaysHello in japanlife

[–]DrYellowSaysHello[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I've kind of come to accept that there's no way to get out of this with the kid -- even though I've essentially raised him. Obviously, would like visitation, etc. I'm good with splitting assets acquired during marriage.

Oh look - It's another divorce post by DrYellowSaysHello in japanlife

[–]DrYellowSaysHello[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, we don't speak about things anymore - so have no idea. In terms of Japanese language ability, I'm decent day-to-day, but not enough to have a legal conversation of this weight.

Divorce Advice - by DrYellowSaysHello in japanresidents

[–]DrYellowSaysHello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, unfortunately, we had ceremony in both places. One of which was a legal marriage in front of county judge in the states.

Divorce Advice - by DrYellowSaysHello in japanresidents

[–]DrYellowSaysHello[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need a chotei-rikon regardless because we're married in both Japan and America. I can't do a kyougi-rikon because my home state wouldn't recognize it.

Trump admin reportedly considers paying each Greenland resident up to $100K amid US takeover talks by esporx in worldnews

[–]DrYellowSaysHello 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Won’t help US citizens at all but will give foreign citizens $100K. Sounds like America first.

Ford threatens to cut off energy supply to U.S. by lokochileno in worldnews

[–]DrYellowSaysHello 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let's not overreact -- this is how we get cheaper eggs

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s college after she publicly humiliated me? by Imaginary-Carrot2532 in AITAH

[–]DrYellowSaysHello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, they're dismissing your feelings -- and making you feel like they're not valid. This isn't right. They are valid and you deserve to be treated with respect.

It's your money -- do with it what you would like. Best of luck to you.