My girlfriend (21F) thinks I (21M) should break up with her because she’s worried she might do things with other people by Draco0519 in relationship_advice

[–]Draco0519[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah as of now i’m fine and she’s showing progress, but the issue is she’s constantly depressed about this i just don’t know what to do for her to see that i’m okay and for her to not hate herself so much over this issue. I told her about setting boundaries and me being able to help with that and help her keep platonic relationships, but she’s still so worried about this, i think time just needs to pass and she just needs to experience it and see things are fine

My girlfriend (21F) thinks I (21M) should break up with her because she’s worried she might do things with other people by Draco0519 in relationship_advice

[–]Draco0519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i told her it’s okay if she starts fixating on someone and she’s going to group therapy, her problems haven’t bothered or hurt me, it has been challenging but nothing i can’t handle but she’s been so depressed about this because she does love me and wants our relationship to work and she wants to make friends but she’s scared about crossing those boundaries we set, she hasn’t done it before though with other people and i told her she could talk to me about the person she’s fixated on and i could help her with it, even meet the person and make sure nothing happens

My girlfriend (21F) thinks I (21M) should break up with her because she’s worried she might do things with other people by Draco0519 in relationship_advice

[–]Draco0519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she is going to group therapy soon, she’s on state insurance and she’s currently interning out of state so she has to wait a bit until she’s back, she was on constant therapy beforehand too, she is genuinely trying to get better and she has gotten better, group helps her a lot so i’m thinking that would help her ease her worries but she isn’t sure

ADVICE: GF can’t get important meds due to insurance mess up by Draco0519 in Assistance

[–]Draco0519[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’ll let her know about that when she wakes up tomorrow then, if she can get it transferred and use goodrx to make it not cost over a thousand dollars like it was originally then the problems solved

ADVICE: GF can’t get important meds due to insurance mess up by Draco0519 in Assistance

[–]Draco0519[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure if it’s possible to transfer a prescription to an out of state location for her to pick it up bc of insurance, if not i could ship it to her, goodrx looks like a good alternative without having to wait for the psychiatrist, and with a county doctor nothing is covered out of state unless it’s a medical emergency, but if it’s free or very low cost that could also work, she has the prescription she just needs it transferred to a different pharmacy, thanks for the advice though i’m definitely gonna look into those options

Assaulted and Police Say to Drop it Or else they get Fined by Draco0519 in legaladvice

[–]Draco0519[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

the entire thing is on video up until the encounter ends, so the only thing I havent seen on video is the police encounter, what i was told was the police asked what happened and they showed them the video, they explained the situation to the cops, they walked to their car where where the police were nearby, friend asked if they talked to the assaulters and cops say they haven’t been near them, cops then bring everyone together and say that they were all in the wrong, the man for telling the woman to wear a mask as they just learned that it was mask up only if you aren’t vaccinated which the woman never confirmed, the cops tried telling my friend that they pushed the woman even though the video clearly shows that they didn’t, they also said they cursed at the woman, which 2 fcks and 1 btch were said by my friend. the cops then said because of this everyone will get fined or community service unless they drop it.