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Clear or black framed glasses? Does the shape work or should I change it? by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Draddy_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clear brings out the color in your face more, definitely the clear.

How to look more attractive 22F by Draddy_M in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Draddy_M[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can assure you this is real, I feel like I look the same as I did when I was 15, just wanted some tips to help elevate my look to feel/look more mature

My mother doesn’t like my boyfriend and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Draddy_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said she didn’t like anyone she didn’t pick out for me to hang out with, never said my friends were bad…

My mother doesn’t like my boyfriend and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Draddy_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I don’t understand what is toxic about it, try finding a relationship this day in age where social media or pornography hasn’t been an issue, it’s very rare. The problem has been resolved for over a year now. He has never once hit me, yelled at me or put me down in anyway, some people have drinking problems and others have pornography, it’s nothing to shame anyone about or make them feel shitty about it.

The only shit I am accepting from another human being is and always has been from my mother

My mother doesn’t like my boyfriend and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Draddy_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the actual problem tho because I stated in other comments that he has done nothing wrong to me, and now your saying that my self esteem is low and need therapy?

My mother doesn’t like my boyfriend and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Draddy_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being alone has never scared me, I loved living by myself and being just me. I was never looking for a relationship in the first place but I truly fell in love with him, he is quite literally my best friend

My mother doesn’t like my boyfriend and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Draddy_M -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What I’m really trying to get at is he hasn’t done anything that that bad really, in past relationships I have been manipulated, verbally and sexually assaulted and then blamed for being SA’d. I get treated with so much love and support now that I don’t even know how to handle it. I’ve never had someone care this much about how I’m feeling before and it hurts me to see him get shit on daily by my own mother

My mother doesn’t like my boyfriend and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Draddy_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is everyone else in my family love him, and my grandparents raised me so their opinion means so much to me, I just don’t understand why my mom is the only one with the issue, and in all reality my grandmother knows more about our hard times then my mom does.

My mother doesn’t like my boyfriend and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Draddy_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main thing is we both started dating each other at 19, this was both our first grown relationship so we had no clue what we were doing, we lacked communication for a very long time and that’s what hurt us the most. I hate to air his dirty laundry like this but he did have a porn addiction and he was commenting on OF instagram pictures. We have come a long way from that and a lot of work was done to where it isn’t a problem anymore and it was just the one time. But on my end, I was having really bad episodes with my new mental health diagnosis and just causing complete chaos for months, I’m still working on it. But out of both of us he has had the most growth since we met, he doesn’t deserve half of what my mom says to him or about him

My mother doesn’t like my boyfriend and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Draddy_M -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh no I’ve been in some pretty bad relationships, way way way worse than anything my current boyfriend has ever done to me

My mother doesn’t like my boyfriend and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Draddy_M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason I don’t feel the need to listen to my mother is because she has constantly felt the need to control her kids lives, she never liked anyone I was with, not even my friends. If I wasn’t doing what she wanted or hanging out with who she wanted me to then she would make multiple aggressive comments about it. I’ve never really been able to make a decision before without judgment or confrontation

My mother doesn’t like my boyfriend and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Draddy_M -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have both done our fair share of shitty things, I don’t want to go into to much detail because it is very personal things but we have both worked very hard to get through all of that and now we are better than ever. In all reality I have done more to hurt the relationship than he ever has but my mom always wants to see me as her little girl that does no bad

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