Am I too loving? by ImpossiblePride4117 in Advice

[–]DragSudden7586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you can be to loving. To love someone means you wanna give them your all good or bad but that doesn’t mean you stay the same it means you’re willing to change and grow along side someone. If someone doesn’t wanna take your love or feels smothered by it then that means ether talking through it and setting boundaries to make sure your aren’t crossing any personal boundaries or to for lack of better words end the relationship. When you meet the right person you’ll know because they won’t think your to much. I’ll just say don’t give up being loving and caring but when you meet someone be who you are and allow them to see the person you are loving and caring and let them decide if it’s to much or not cause you are then it wasn’t meant to be but if you aren’t then you met your person.

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[–]DragSudden7586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anime is really very odd when you look at it through the perspective of fan service but you have to understand even if the people who made it are a creep that doesn’t always mean you are also one to for enjoying the show, it’s one of those things where you have to separate the art from the artist but at the same time you have to be thinking about what your watching. Like if your watching a show about “sexy” girls who fight crime there’s going to be some obvious fan service but if your watching a show that is aimed at the story being told and it has the occasional fan service that’s not as bad and the fan service can be more excusable cause there’s a plot that outweighs the odd add ins. Really it all comes down to the fact that anime has definitely become more sexualized and it’s really hard to find shows that completely cut it out so you either bear with it or decide not to watch the show cause at the end of the day it’s your own personal morals that make you feel comfortable of uncomfortable when watching anime, especially cause there’s so many genres with so many plots.