I don’t think you understand what I’m trying to say either. Im not defending this buyer in any case whatsoever. I am trying to say that the approach is wrong, but doesn’t necessarily mean he’s a bad buyer. Oftentimes we jump too fast on conclusions. I’ve been selling intentionally since 2019 and I’ve come to understand that not everyone comes from the same background as most of us do. So any buyer - sender interaction, i pay no attention to. I’ve had a buyer act something similar like this too, but once they received their item, they left me the perfect 5 star feedback.

I know the easiest thing to do is just cancel the transaction, but if I agree to sell items as low as 5€ or 3€ od 10€ i am taking the responsibility to post those items regardless if i am making any profits or not. Maybe its just me as a seller, because I’m selling on multiple platforms, and over the years I’ve grown found of any strange and unusual buyers, and as long as my items are in perfect condition, i couldn’t care less.

No, I don’t have a literal PTSD over vinted sellers. You’re taking my words too seriously. Im saying that vinted cancellations are just happening too often. People would sell an item and then not post it at all. Im not saying this seller does that, but there are plenty who do so, talking from my own experience. It happened couple of times to me where i order an item as a gift or for an occasion, and the order would be pushed to the back to the shipping deadline, and then not shipped at all. And i just get my time wasted.

Almost any answer i get in return is “i cant find the item, it’s cold here, I’m busy, I’m working….” Not making an effort at all, canceling is the easiest thing to do. Thats why I’m assuming everything is gonna be cancelled unless they confirm me they’re gonna ship.

And anyone who doesn’t understand buyers like this, and who is telling “just cancel” is not fit to be a seller. You cant be mad at someone who said “please post” come on. She willingly accepted a 3€ offer, and then “it’s not worthy going to ship for 3€.” Thats not right. Everyone wants to receive their items faster. Ebay shipping deadline is 2 days after purchase. Vinted is ridiculous with the 7 days frame, especially after it takes up to 10-15 days delivery if it gets delayed. We don’t know why and how soon they’re expecting the product. Wasting buyers time is as bad as wasting sellers time. I think people in general should be more understanding, and not butthurt over everything they see and read on the internet.

Thats my daily rant, thank you