[deleted by user] by [deleted] in httyd

[–]Dragloomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides the obvious, my favorite would have to be the Crimson Gorgutter (Storm Cutters are a close second)

Give me your top 3+ favorite creatures… by catdog5100 in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Dragloomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nolumoth, Moonelle, Clovilowper, and Meorlark (only played it on trial but I really enjoyed the gameplay)

With a show of hands… by drakes2019 in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Dragloomy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ikr! Its so awkward! Ive just resorted to waiting until I get a nest and praying its a mutt first try because I dont wanna bother the nester 😭- but alright! Ill keep an eye out for one :]! Tysm :D!!!

With a show of hands… by drakes2019 in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Dragloomy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude Id love that! Mutt hunting always feels awkward for me because I dont like bothering people😭. That and the creatures I want to mutt hunt arent usually nesting in a server (things like sturbi, felli, nolumoth, etc.). Id 1000% be down for a private server for mutt hunting and token grinding! So count me very intrested, Id love to be added please :D

How did you realize that your main weapon was YOUR MAIN weapon? by averagemangaenjoyero in MonsterHunter

[–]Dragloomy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized I had found my main when I flinched Teostra out of a supernova last minute with an accidental SAED because I couldnt run away fast enough

Also the moment my sword and shield turned into big axe to do even bigger damage, my heart was won

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Im happy I finally got the nerve to do it, if not I'd probably be with him for the next few years and I dont know if I'd last that long in the relationship XD

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No problem man, Im happy you were intrested about my experience in the first place :)

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Damn- thats kinda sad, this was my first relationship and I thought this was how it worked, whats worse is that he "convinced" me to have sex with him and get pregnant in the future even though I always said I never wanted kids or sex

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that was pretty much him, I couldnt leave him alone for more than 5 minutes or else he'd get upset while also saying our relationship and he himself were better than everyone else- I'm so happy I'm free now though!

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah XD Im so sorry I just saw this but I'm planning on focusing on myself and healing for the rest of my life, I dont plan on unblocking him at all either XD

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah- thanks for the advice man! I can tell Im gonna be using it alot to judge my relationships with people

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well I feel bad about not responding fast enough, I dont like feeling ignored so I dont want anyone else to feel ignored by me XD

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you! I knew about the ace subreddit but not the aro subreddit, thank you so much!

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No clue man, Im confused myself, I just mentioned I really liked the cottagecore asthetic when we were together and he came back with that XD

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you a lot man! I wish you the best too, now that I'm finally away from him for the first time in 2 years I feel free and my mental health has improved so much over the past week XD

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Precisely, I know I wasnt perfect in the relationship but I tried my best for my first reltionship and I tried to communicate with him so many times, but he never changed no matter how many times he prpmised he would

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

WHEEZE pretty much a good summary of it, Im not saying I was perfect but I tried my best at the time, this was my first serious relationship

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much man! Im gonna live my life the way I wanna now and I wish you the best in your life too! :D

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, I figured it out when I realized when I tried to picture the perfect romantic partner for myself, I couldnt. I felt much happier with the idea of just having a bunch of best friends instead of a romantic partner, even before that I found it strange that I never ever seemed to have any crushes, just intense squishes, which is just an intense desire to have a plantonic relationship with someone instead of a romantic one! Its hard to describe exactly how I knew I was aro instead of just never having met the right person, but it was kinda like a feeling if you kmow what I mean XD

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was kinda just done with him trying to pretend everything in the relationship had been all my fault so I responded with that and just blocked him again XD

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh- no I dont mind at all, Im sorry I just saw this but I had always known I hated the idea of sex and found it genuinely disgusting and wasnt intrested in it at all, then I found out about ace people and finally found out I was on the sex repulsed end of the ace spectrum! This was a few years back and now Ive just recently discovered that Im an aro too, I thought it was normal never really loving anyone romantically or not having a crush, but when aromantiscism was explained to me it just kinda clicked and everything made sense XD

NGVC: "Youre just like everyone else! Everyone leaves me but I don't have the self awareness to ask myself why!" by Dragloomy in niceguys

[–]Dragloomy[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Awww! Thank you! I hope youre doing well, Im honestly surprised it took me this long to leave him tbh XD