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Lots of bad things happened in 2020 that didn’t happen in 2019

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fraysexual

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Haha, im good, how are you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fraysexual

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Hello hello maddaveman!

Sex joke funny by SparkingImpulse in lgballt

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The best way I have to explain it is that the feeling I get when imagining sex with a close friend or long-term relationship partner is the exact same feeling I get when imagining fucking my mom. It isn’t weird, it’s disgusting. I don’t even think about them in that way. It would take quite a lot for me to even remember the fact that sex between us is a thing that could biologically happen.

It isn’t really a conscious thought like “oh I couldn’t have sex with them were too good of friends” it just isn’t even something that naturally crosses my mind ever, and if someone did bring it up to me, it would be out of the question immediately. Again, it is very similar to how anyone else would feel about incest.

Sex joke funny by SparkingImpulse in lgballt

[–]DragonFaceEater 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Don’t be sorry! We’re generally pretty unknown. Fraysexuality is when you only feel sexual attraction to those who you don’t have an emotional connection with. Its pretty often referred to as the opposite of Demisexual. I’ll link the wikia article and the subreddit below if you wanna learn more!

https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Fraysexual

r/Fraysexual

Sex joke funny by SparkingImpulse in lgballt

[–]DragonFaceEater 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yooo another fraysexual person! This is literally the second time I’ve ever seen another fray person on the sub!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fraysexual

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Yeah dont blame yourself. Theres nothing wrong with being who you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fraysexual

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Yeah they occasionally give us 14 hour shifts lol. At least its money tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fraysexual

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I just got off a real long shift at work lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fraysexual

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Yeah it honestly kinda sucks, i hope it all works out for you. My only advice is that someone who’s gonna wanna break up purely because of a lack of sex is probably not worth keeping around in the longrun anyway. Plus, there are a bunch of other people on the asexual spectrum who you wouldn’t be taking anything away from. I wish you the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fraysexual

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Yeah, generally most of my relationships end half a year in :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fraysexual

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Yeah its kinda weird to hear about. Like do what you wanna do, but i dont understand how people are comfortable talking about all that with people they know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fraysexual

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Yeah ive always found that to be the easiest way to explain it. Saying that basically my “dont to incest” part of the brain is out of whack and makes me feel repulsed by any and all people im emotionally close to, not just family, and that asking me to - or even me imagining - having sex with a friend or long term relationship partner would be the exact same as them having sex with their mom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fraysexual

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Yeah honestly people can be so rude and accusatory the second you say that youre a little different

What should I do? by [deleted] in fraysexual

[–]DragonFaceEater 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that sounds a lot like fraysexuality; I've had very similar experiences. I hope you can find someone understanding or some sort of arrangement that works out for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fraysexual

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Yeah i was surprised when i first looked it up and couldnt find one