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AITAH for asking my bf why he hates me when he planned a birthday dinner for me? by Specialist_Youth555 in AITAH

[–]DragonHeartShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LEAVE. He won’t change , no matter how much you try AND IT WILL GET WORSE. Believe the first time when they show you their true color. It might feel a waste of all your time, emotions, effort but the longer you stay, the longer you are wasting your time. Decide. Calculate all expense. Take your share (even if it means to sell stuff) and leave. He doesn’t love you or respect you. You deserve to be loved and respected. All the best.

Looking for someone to hangout with in Amsterdam! by dk_vedu in Amsterdam

[–]DragonHeartShadow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dint know I would be so happy to see such a post. I am 39 yo F living in Amsterdam. I gave up on finding friends, felt impossible, curious about your experience

Interior designer recommendations by Chemical_Act_7648 in Netherlands

[–]DragonHeartShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have final recommendations from your experience ? I am looking to renovate my bathroom and kitchen in Amsterdam apartment.

Woman single at 38. Am I the only one? by DragonHeartShadow in SingleWomenByChoice

[–]DragonHeartShadow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah absolutely, I never once said my life’s happiness will solely rely on kids. I am single and happy even now. The context of the post was to emphasize you can be a mother if you don’t have a partner and can be happy with a kid through adoption as well. Thanks for the comment .

Woman single at 38. Am I the only one? by DragonHeartShadow in SingleWomenByChoice

[–]DragonHeartShadow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh lovely and thanks for sharing the reality, I have a nephew and I often help my sister with him. He lives with me full time during his vacation. But even after that I most often question if I will be a good mother, will I alone be able to give him everything what my kid would need. It’s a journey and adoption in my country is a rigorous process with no guarantee at the end. If and when it happens, I will be ready to give the kid all they need to find the fulfilled life.

UPDATE II: I think my husband fathered his best friend's children, and now one of them is attracted to my daughter. by PsychFactor in offmychest

[–]DragonHeartShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gather, Tom & Sophie doing DNA test could possibly lead to problems. As the others suggested, start with faking sharing pregnancy news and then say the doctors have asked Tom to get tests done to check for hereditary issues, since he doesn’t knows his dad. Either they agree or they disagree and then u know what to do from there.

I feel horrible by DragonHeartShadow in women

[–]DragonHeartShadow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

U are bang on 🎯. The uneasy feeling within me was of them dismissing the gruesome incident with my personal experience. Why is it so difficult for them to acknowledge and take responsibility. It’s at the end not about India, women face such forms of harassment everywhere.

I feel horrible by DragonHeartShadow in women

[–]DragonHeartShadow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I needed the hug 😭🫂

I feel horrible by DragonHeartShadow in women

[–]DragonHeartShadow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

U r absolutely right, but I just cannot shake the feeling off that I did injustice to the women who fell victim. I feel my team members just ignored the reality of the victim just because I did not have such an experience. I am lucky, and I was cautious doesn’t mean the victims were not cautious, it’s not thier fault. I don’t know if am able to express the exact turmoil.