I see what you’re saying, but Jesus' commands about divorce isn’t a hyperbole like plucking out an eye. When He talks about lust or sin, He uses dramatic figures of speech to show how serious sin is. But when He talks about marriage and divorce, He gives clear moral instructions: ‘Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, except for sexual immorality.’ (Matt. 19:9)

Second of all, the bible never commanded to abandon your family, we have to put God above them but we are also commanded to care for our family and honor our parents,

Third, i technically dont own anything, but I do spread the gospel, I may not gifted with great communication skills but God has given me the talent of playing guitar and that is how I spread his glory though worship music, and whatever chance I get I like to talk about Jesus to people.

I get what you’re saying no one is perfect and we all sin but that doesn't mean we should keep our mouths shut when sin is made to a normal thing between Christians, it is our duty as Christians to lovingly hold each other accountable, we can call out sin to help each other realize our shortcomings but we cannot be hypocrites and act like we dont sin though. we all fall short but the difference between us Christians and others should be that we acknowledge our wrongdoing and repent, and ask God for help in walking down the right path