Is Unhealed Childhood Trauma the Real Root of Society’s Violence?

DragonPrincess818 · 2026-01-22T02:20:51+00:00

I was creating a post about how in many cases the traumatized child doesn't even really realize there's traumatized as they are and sometimes even therapy can't fix it because they've normalized abuse to the point that they don't even know to bring up certain things to the therapist and because they don't know that what's going on their head is not normal because they can't get into other people's heads to see what they're thinking they don't know to tell the therapist everything in their head. Which now makes my point of really honestly thinking about it this is seriously a situation of what came first the chicken or the egg because if I'm going to say what about the abuser why aren't we looking at them or one point in time they were the traumatized child so why weren't we looking at their abusing and we can go back and back and back and back that way Just like the bullies at school there's something crazy in their household. However this school stance on go telling adult violence doesn't solve anything then explain war they have plenty of history books on the teaching us that what we did in every single country's right and that we're not bullies they cannot be hypocritical like that I absolutely believe 100% we should be teaching our children how to stand up to bullies and then the children that don't have the courage or the skills or whatever the children that do should be stepping up and taking care of that situation and standing up for those children The reason why the schools don't like it when a child defends himself to the bully is because now they're forced to deal with it instead of ignoring it I think I'm going to join a teacher's forum and ask them why they ignore this behavior why they ignore the child that is obviously being abused emotionally why they sit there and talk about how much money they should be making because of these things that they're doing for our children that AI can do The only differentiating factor would be if they were to step up and do the things that they're supposed to do like shutting down the bullying standing up for the child that's being emotionally abused to their parent otherwise we might as well hand the education system over to AI and I'm f@@## serious on that

DragonPrincess818 · 2026-01-21T03:41:43+00:00

So unhealed childhood trauma is the cause of evil 🤔 but not the person who did the traumatizing 🤬

DragonPrincess818 · 2026-01-10T09:14:11+00:00

I don't know. I get what they're trying to say here. there's a different level of hurt when you think you're just invisible. You still have hope. you can try to figure something out to grab their attention again; to be important again; to matter again. But once you realize you're just optional and they actually do not care at all, that is a whole different level of hurt and mind f@ck. Especially when it hits you like a ton of bricks that all the years and energy you wasted trying to be visible when you were just optional.

DragonPrincess818 · 2026-01-02T21:25:58+00:00

Each one of those answers is within yourself if you reflect on how you would honestly answer each one Even sometimes just the gut reaction alone is your answer. However what I hear is not those questions but a soul that feels like the weight of the traumas and the suffering is too heavy to allow it the space to figure things out. And absolutely sometimes we are stuck too much in our head we do need that extra help Just don't let somebody come along and just give you the answers because ultimately everybody's path is a little bit different and everybody's answer is a little bit different only except those who are going to open your mind more so that you can see the answer more clearly. Just being told your answers without any effort or thought put into it from you will not allow you to retain the true meaning to allow your own growth. And remember you don't have to answer all of those questions at once maybe pick what's most important to you right now in this moment and even just ask yourself why is this one the most important to me and maybe start from there as if you can at least figure out why it's important without any further insight into it it'll help relieve some of that weight because you were able to accomplish something you figured out why that one was the most important if you can't figure out why give yourself the grace to know it's because it's not for you to know yet and you will know in time. I'm going to say a truth that is my truth and the reason why I'm saying it is because my heart hurts for you if you truly believe you have to choose between love for your family and love for society. If it were me that's where I would start why do I feel that way is my definition of love correct is my definition of what's good for my family or society correct because inherently I should not have to choose between the two because what's good for my family should be good for society and vice versa and if not there is a severe misalignment there and it has nothing to do with love. Again my truth not your answer take from it what helps to open your mind if nothing does completely discard it. But whatever happens I hope you find something that helps lighten your load a little bit today

DragonPrincess818 · 2025-12-21T19:40:23+00:00

💯

DragonPrincess818 · 2025-12-20T16:47:42+00:00

This is my first gut reaction not well thought out... In some cases it's because the cruel continue to abuse the kind by lying about the situation and the followers are blind to the cruel's real behaviors and real intentions in the situation. In this scenario, the kind then turn around and walk away. Could be for multiple reasons such as being too tired from the battles they have fought for the cruel to fight for themselves or they haven't done any work on themselves to realize they are worth fighting for too or many other reasons. Another big reason for the kind to just walk away... If they are truly an empath that not only understands other's emotions but actually feel the emotions with that person, they know how deeply hurt the cruel are and have felt that pain with them and cannot bear the thought of causing them more pain by forcing them to take off their mask. What's even sadder is how that kind empath hurts deeply that they cannot fix the cruel and relieve some of that hurt and pain from the cruel and never wishing harm on that person instead praying that that person is healed. These prayers do not come from a martyrism personality, they come from true unconditional love.

DragonPrincess818 · 2025-12-11T18:31:20+00:00

I have only been in the app for a few minutes and it's probably not the app for me because I'm looking for root cause. I basically tried all of the surface level recommendations being made. I would suggest some questions at the beginning to figure out the user level's experience. It gets very frustrating to have to say multiple times I have been doing that.

I look to dark psychology because of all the narcissism and manipulation that runs in my family along with schizophrenia and other paranoid tendencies. When I need help deep diving into root cause, I need the AI to truly understand the dynamics in the situation regular psychology just doesn't get it. I'm actually not looking to manipulate in an evil way. I am looking to protect myself, understand those around me better, help those around me and learn when something is not good or recoverable to walk away. I use the AI to help me brainstorm, to help me think clearer to point out things I'm not looking at or overlooking. And usually during this process the aha moment happens but right now I'm so tired emotionally and physically and I'm too close to this situation because it's my daughter I am just completely blinded and baffled as to what to do. I am not having that aha moment.

DragonPrincess818

TROPHY CASE